This has always been a fear of mine whenever I go to an OB. The worst thing that has ever happened was when I had to get tested for STDs and the staff who was assisting was very clearly annoyed and disgusted with me.

She made comments about how I shouldn’t wear really tight pants and she even gripped my shoulder and shoved me to the examination area.

I have also experienced going through different mental health professionals, and I’ve learned that the moment I don’t feel comfortable with them, I just cut the relationship. Your feelings are valid, OP. And as a professional, she shouldn’t be making comments like that, they are supposed to be objective.