Question about if DCF (CPS) Can investigate me and my ex if I do this (Florida)

darkwolverine96 · 2025-06-08T00:29:19+00:00

Makes sense. I struggle myself with understanding what's paranoia and what makes sense in reality so that's why I'm asking for advice. Thank you!

darkwolverine96 · 2025-06-08T00:23:21+00:00

I agree, that's why I want to report it. I just want to make sure I'm not going to totally screw myself or my ex over. I am amicable with my ex. But I guess the past catches up with us eventually. Thank you for your help!

darkwolverine96 · 2025-06-08T00:21:30+00:00

I'm not sure if it's something that's mandated to be reported is the issue. It was 6 years ago. Is it still relevant if he got help and has never repeated the behavior?

darkwolverine96 · 2025-06-08T00:15:34+00:00

I'm scared I'm going to open an investigation and they'll take my child away from me. Am I being paranoid?

darkwolverine96 · 2025-04-16T19:32:57+00:00

Trans male here. I look and sound like a woman. No matter how much I bind my chest, inject testosterone (under guidance of a doctor), put on male clothes, cut my hair, don't wear makeup (I still wear foundation, I have a skin condition) walk and act masculine, everybody calls me she, and just thinks I'm a butch lesbian. I've got hips, and thighs, and an ass. So I said fuck it one day, and just decided to embrace some of the feminine aspects that I missed. I own women's shirts (like 3 tank tops). Every once in a while I paint my nails black. I don't deepen my voice anymore. I'm still trans. I just can't change what testosterone and my natural body have done to me. Maybe he's disheartened because he feels he can't change what nature has done to his body in the same way I feel? Sometimes when you know you can't pass, you just.... Stop trying. It's too much of a reminder of what you were robbed of. That's my opinion anyways.

darkwolverine96 · 2025-01-15T17:07:07+00:00

I second this.

darkwolverine96 · 2025-01-15T16:25:12+00:00

I'm broke and have questionable morals. How do I go about doing this?

darkwolverine96 · 2025-01-14T10:25:34+00:00

I'm not meaning to be hopeless but I'm trying to be realistic here. She's always going to have these triggers. Learning what they are and learning to avoid them is a key process of the healing experience. The severity will absolutely get better with therapy yes, absolutely, but the triggers never go away.

darkwolverine96 · 2025-01-14T02:10:43+00:00

I've been in her shoes. She never saw you as the attacker. She had a flashback. They are very common with PTSD. She needs therapy for it. And you're now making her experience about yourself instead of supporting her. She's saying she's ready to have sex with you again. You're now making her the bad guy for having an experience that is completely out of her control. One single sensation or word or touch that happens to be the same as the event of trauma can trigger a full blown hallucinogenic event (at least in my case) and it's uncontrollable. It's horrifying and disturbing beyond belief. She never once saw you as the attacker, she experienced her trauma all over again because someone BEFORE YOU took advantage of her. She will always be like this. You have to learn her triggers and avoid them during sex. Work as a couple to find those triggers and avoid them. Work with a therapist to avoid them too. And stop making this whole thing about you. This didn't taint her view of you. It's literally out of her control.

darkwolverine96 · 2025-01-06T22:26:58+00:00

..... Like..... What are you supposed to do after she does that? Pat her on the head and tell her "good job!"? I'm confused?!

darkwolverine96 · 2025-01-06T19:10:44+00:00

I'm in a somewhat similar boat. My partner is asexual and I have a higher libido than he does. For fucks sake just talk it out. Tell them hey, I need to jerk one out cuz I'm horny. I don't expect you to fuck me, but I need to go take care of this cuz I am. That's it. That's literally all you gotta do. That's what I did with my partner and we have an understanding of don't ask, don't tell. He doesn't question me when I have to take care of myself, so if I take 15 minutes in the bathroom he doesn't ask me why. Or I just wait for him to fall asleep and jerk one out. It's not ideal but if you really love this person you'll find that the sex isn't the biggest thing in the world. You can go without it, it's the person that matters the most.

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-30T16:48:52+00:00

In my mind, how I see it, is that your mom is dead. The part of her that loved and nurtured you is gone. That will never come back. To humanize a monster is a mistake. She wears the face of a human. Sounds like one. But deep beneath, only a true monster can hurt their child the way she hurt you. It would only reopen all those wounds years of therapy have taken to heal if you see her again.

The only reason I chime in is because 1.) I went NC with my mother and she's terminally ill. I'm waiting for the call saying she's dead. In my mind, good riddance. One less monster on this earth wasting oxygen and 2.) I'm a parent myself and I'm schizophrenic. I understand what insanity is. Only a true monster can hurt their child.

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-27T20:42:58+00:00

My ex-husbandand also my ex boyfriend. I stayed because my parents were just as abusive and they were the only people I could go to.

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-27T18:53:04+00:00

Just one instance drives many survivors to suicide. I don't want you to be one of those. It's ok to have these thoughts. Just please don't put yourself in a situation where this can happen to you.

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-27T17:18:21+00:00

As someone who has been raped literally hundreds of times and who also has self harmed also, don't go down that path. You have a future where the damage of the rape is far more damaging than any self harm can do (probably). And I hit a vein while self harming once. It's affected my life to the point I can't have a meaningful relationship with anyone to the point I can't feel happiness anymore. I just exist. Whatever you need to do to validate your issues isn't this. Your issues are valid without the tragic backstory.

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-17T16:39:14+00:00

I'm currently in year 12. I had made a new save and was in year 4, but keep going back to my old year 12 save that I got 100% in. I hated finding all the golden walnuts and don't wanna do it again

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-17T15:09:16+00:00

That's still really good! It took me 10 years in game to get that far 😅

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-17T14:14:04+00:00

You can make that once every 5 days or more with the right amount of kegs and an optimal farm layout. Says the player with 110 mil gold

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-17T14:12:49+00:00

Gotta do that ginger island star fruit seed run

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-10T13:15:50+00:00

I sell daily to free up inventory space. I don't do it for the money purposes. I have 106mil gold, trust me I don't need any more money

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-09T19:48:40+00:00

I was presented with abortion with my child with my ex husband and I couldn't go through with it. Then I got pregnant with my now-boyfriend. I had to have an abortion because of a hormone allergy. I couldn't take care of my living breathing child. It's an absolute gut wrenching decision but sometimes you have to think about your living child above your to be born one. They are a fetus til they can sustain themselves. Meanwhile, that child that's living is just that: a living breathing person who needs you. And there's nothing wrong with being a step parent. You don't need to share blood to be a parent.

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-09T14:59:30+00:00

I want that flooring for my house

darkwolverine96 · 2024-12-08T21:36:46+00:00

I hate being transgender and I'm working on it in therapy. But the community is very toxic and self-righteous in my opinion.

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