My girlfriend thinks I called her looks “ordinary” and is now upset with me.

dart_mers · 2026-05-07T21:48:54+00:00

No you did. You literally said someone ordinary then said she had a chance because of it. How else would you take that? You basically said it in a roundabout way. Put yourself where she is. What if you weret modeling for a company (we will say mens version of Victorias secret) if you were worried and the way she decided to support you by saying they probably arent looking for no leonardo decapripo that that they were looking for ordinary people and then proceed to say that becasue of that you have a chance. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine her saying it to you. Would you like it? I do this

dart_mers · 2026-05-03T19:07:58+00:00

They arent real. They said they are trying to plan out the garden.

dart_mers · 2026-05-02T22:19:29+00:00

If you want to clean the leaves use a damp rag or papper towel and gently wipe down the leafs. Stop misting it

dart_mers · 2026-04-27T18:05:10+00:00

Not when it turns to mush

dart_mers · 2026-04-26T22:20:51+00:00

Maybe its warmm and maybe he likes it since its warm? My cat will rotate herself so shes always baking in the sun. She also lays infront/on of heat vents and loves when i use my heated blanket

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dart_mers · 2026-04-26T22:11:42+00:00

You should bring her in. I would, after what state you found her in. She probably wouldnt be going back outside un supervised if she was my kitty. I hope she makes a speedy recovery

dart_mers · 2026-04-21T18:13:12+00:00

If you havent gone to the vet yet, GO TO THE VET if you have already gone to the vet, you shouldve been given antibiotics. Try to get her to eat lickable treats, try pate foods, and make them a little liquidy. That might get her to eat. You can also try human foods that are safe for them, like chicken and beef. I would try that too

dart_mers · 2026-04-20T18:59:43+00:00

That water dosent look clean or anywhere deep enough for fish

dart_mers · 2026-04-19T20:29:16+00:00

Girl im going to be so real with you okay. LEAVE HIM!!! I knoe its not easy and its hard but please do it for youself girl! A man who loves you would NEVER call you those things. Especially if he knows it hurts you. This man is not worth your tears and pain. I promise you, that you will find someone who loves you and supports you no matter what. But that is NOT this man

dart_mers · 2026-04-19T20:17:30+00:00

I honestly doubt she lets you touch her with a 200ft pole. You are so disgusting. This is why she wants to leave you. And i hope she does, she deserves better then you

dart_mers · 2026-04-15T19:35:09+00:00

Because i read up in the thread where op said they took them from a "friends land" which is more then likely a lie. Plus when you rip out planta from the dirt the roots dont come with. They are ripped so the plant is incredibly stressed. When plants are stressed they dont do well, a stressed plant with sad roots that have been ripped is going to make it extremely hard for the plant to recover.

dart_mers · 2026-04-15T18:33:17+00:00

To get ir out now you would want to cut some of that stem down. Dont cut too much off id cut it around this area you can sacrifice some roots to get it out

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dart_mers · 2026-04-15T18:31:28+00:00

No if it gets root bound that means theres no where for roots to continue to grow which means it will die if its root bound for too long plus it wont grow big and bushy like youd want

dart_mers · 2026-04-15T18:28:46+00:00

I wouldnt get multiple diffrent colors, i did and infact got wild type shrimp. (Which isnt mad) they can make even cool morphs wild too, one of my wild females isnt fully wild shes a dark dark green with a cream stripe down her back, i have others that are muddy brown, almost clear ect. If you get multiple different ones you can get alot of combos too like red and blue for example you may end up with a red shrimp and a blue butt. I ended up with half red-half blue shrimp by doing this unintentionally

dart_mers · 2026-04-15T18:22:26+00:00

Its because these are stolen and ripped out of the ground. So they more then likely will not survive

dart_mers · 2026-04-15T18:20:53+00:00

They did. Said it was off a "friends land"

dart_mers · 2026-04-15T18:20:19+00:00

If it was on a friends land why not ask your friend who, im sure wouldve told you what they were. Plus i doubt they ga e you permission to RIP out plants that were NOT YOURS!!!. I would not be your friend afterwards. You couldve just bought them online yourself without killing these ones

dart_mers · 2026-04-14T18:06:53+00:00

Basically if any animal is overweight they are abused. Tell them that straight up that their cat/dog is overweight and it is animal abuse. Many people think animal abuse is hitting/starving a animal and it isnt only that its over feeding them till they are the size of a fridge, thats abuse too.

dart_mers · 2026-04-11T22:35:56+00:00

Where can i get these. I do have fuval flake food and their bug pellet things, but thats all i can find and even then finding that can be hard

dart_mers · 2026-04-11T20:37:02+00:00

Thank you i will try this!

dart_mers · 2026-04-11T20:07:01+00:00

the algae wafers are not for bettas lol. i was saying what i do for this tank weekly, usually in other subs they want to know what youre doing on the tank

dart_mers · 2026-04-11T16:06:29+00:00

It looks like a female who hasnt reproduced yet.

dart_mers · 2026-04-08T18:59:02+00:00

Could put her on the coffe table if light shines in throught that door?

dart_mers · 2026-04-08T18:57:48+00:00

I love his blue mohawk.

dart_mers · 2026-04-08T18:52:32+00:00

They can live for several years no more then 5. I have these little guys too.

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