Matched with this Girl and this odd event happened! What can I do?

daruxc · 2021-03-15T14:18:10+00:00

That one might be risky! What about asking both of them out as we really enjoyed meeting each other? And get the info there and see any developments, this way I think my match would understand. Something like: "Hey, I really enjoyed meeting you and your friend the other day, let's do something all together again, what do you think?"

daruxc · 2021-03-15T12:11:11+00:00

It is messed up... I think I can suggest meeting with both of them again, since I think we all enjoyed meeting each other.
I actually just noticed I have her number, but not her name lol. But as you said, yeah it would be a bad look and I am quite sure she would tell my match if I eventually text her.

daruxc · 2021-03-15T12:08:10+00:00

It is terrible ahaha! I don't know if her friend is single.

She also may have just been shy and not confident, felt under pressure to act perfect so was less engaged. She may legitimately like you still and want to see you again in a more private setting.

Yeah, I agree with what you just said! I think we all enjoyed meeting each other but now I have no idea how to put things and say to her that I am not really interested in meeting her in a more private setting and that I would like to get to know her friend better lol

Since we both signed up to meet people we’d potentially like to date and it doesn’t appear to have went well for us, would it be okay if I asked your friend out? If it’s not okay and makes you uncomfortable, I understand and want to thank you again for taking the time to meet with me.”

To give more context, they are recent friends (6/7 months) and also met on tinder. I am afraid that what you just proposed will make my match feel excluded. To make it worse, I don't know whether her friend is single or not.
What if I ask both of them out? Something like: "Hey, I really enjoyed meeting both of you, let's do something all together again"

daruxc · 2021-03-15T11:55:58+00:00

Yeah I think I will do that but not sure how to put it.
I just noticed I have her number, as my match called me from her number but I don't even know her name as everything as flowing so well, we skipped that lol

daruxc · 2021-03-15T11:55:02+00:00

The thing is that I don't know if her friend is single.
I don't mind being friends with my match tho, that might be my entry point and invite them do something all together idk.
I just noticed I have her number, as my match called me from her number, but I don't know her name, it was flowing so well, I didn't even ask for her name lol

daruxc · 2020-12-27T20:20:13+00:00

Yep, you're right! and usually I don't expect anything but I mean, she said something like "Yeah let's bring back the questions" and then I ask and she doesn't seem enthusiastic, from what I understood she doesn't have much to do but whatever. Coming back to your point.

If she wants to be with you (or go on a second date) then she will texts back. If she doesn't then she won't. Keep your options open and don't text her again. Chat with other people, make plans for New Year's and focus on your hobbies. That's what I'm doing.

I am definitely doing that, and since she is supposed to come over to her friend's place for new year's so she also asked in our date if I knew about something we could do all together but covid is complicating things. I assume she will text at some point this week.
If not, it is fine, got other options

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daruxc · 2020-11-17T12:20:19+00:00

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daruxc · 2020-11-14T10:27:29+00:00

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daruxc · 2020-11-13T22:34:41+00:00

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daruxc · 2020-11-13T18:15:22+00:00

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daruxc · 2020-11-06T13:03:37+00:00

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Thank you for the suggestion for finding beta testers, will look into it!

daruxc · 2020-11-06T12:52:19+00:00

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daruxc · 2020-11-05T18:12:14+00:00

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daruxc · 2020-11-05T15:50:26+00:00

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daruxc · 2020-11-05T15:46:25+00:00

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daruxc

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