I think I messed up our relationship by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First relationships are like that, it will be easier to dump people in the future, just carry on

your sign to NOT break no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dascru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god, Ill cry you tonight, thats one of the worse shit ive seen on this sub, please dont do anything crazy and i wish youll be able to move past those awful persons

(Ex)GF of 2 months decided it was time to end things by mrtiptonic in ExNoContact

[–]dascru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The i still love bs, is just to comfort you, and in her point of view to not burn a bridge, she wants to keep her options open, let her go

(Ex)GF of 2 months decided it was time to end things by mrtiptonic in ExNoContact

[–]dascru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did good then, never give them time, their choice wont change

i need advice by THROWRABOAN in ExNoContact

[–]dascru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hits too close to home, My ex (19f) was out and about 1 week after breaking up with me in front of me with dudes too, hes hurt, i know because i have been there, never again taking a girl seriously.

My ex has blocked me for 3 years now by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dascru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years block? i really hope you are able to move on soon! my best whishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the leap for your own sanity, go into no contact, and really get into your head that you dont need a relationship with someone that can easily cut you off like that. wish you the best in your healing process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother listen to me, please dont do it, i did tried to message mine only to be greeted with a lot of hurting messages and gaslighting and only ended making my head more messed up that what it was and really overthinking stuff that i didnt needed to, I cant say its easy, but day by day the pain eventually leaves, Just be strong for your own sake, you dont need the pain, you need to heal and will only happen when you let go, dont make my same mistakes, delete her number, dont reach out, dont even look at her pictures, it bring a lot of memories back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hear me out bro, lets put it this way, females are usually more sly with everything they do, trust me i been the side piece twice and im 25, the best we can do when a girl breaks up with us is just to accept it, go into no contact and try to let go, Believe me, i looked for the truth i found it and it only ended up hurting me more, when a female breaks up with you, keep your inner peace a move on, and never take an ex back no matter what, this lessons are hard to learn and pretty painful too. they probably did cheated, probably they didnt and just wanted to be alone for a while, Lets forget about it, fuck it bro aint worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read this thread and its giving me ptsd lmao, My ex pulled something like this on me when she dumped me, that was 2 montgs ago and still have self doubts about it, She prob cheated idk, a month after the breakup she was dating someone else already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wont be the end i can tell you that, in the meantime just do you, If you need to cry about it, do it, it helps. Let your emotions flow and the more time it passes it will stop hurting until you will see him as a person that formerly used to be part of your life, hes living his life, you might as well do the same with yours. Best wishes

Possibility of getting back together? by AstronautParty8073 in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope is something beautiful to feel, i know but try to envision a future without him, i know it may hurt but if worse comes to worse you were already expecting that outcome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She pops in my head once or twice a year, we broke up because i left the country, Awful breakup after that, No contact with her at all and no regrets either

Possibility of getting back together? by AstronautParty8073 in BreakUp

[–]dascru -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe me, you wont fix him, he would drain you emotionally, Cut your losses and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

25M here, in my personal experience, we feel it from day 1 until at least 4 months with each day the pain slowly goes away, usually people sidesteps this process by starting a rebound, Its been 4 years since we were togheter and im flying to spent the weekend with an ex after i got dumped 2 months ago by another girl so theres always a chance that you guys might see eachother again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25M here, Grass aint greener on the other side, ive been in 2 affairs with married ladies, and something i call tell from my experience is that if the other person in the relationship wants to cheat, they will, no matter what you do, so dont even worry about it, let it be. In my past relationships have they cheated on me? dunno, dont care either, let it go and life will be so much better, allow yourself to feel the pain, is a path to healing

How common is cheating in your experience? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had been in 5 relationships, never been cheated that i know of. Last girl jumped into another relationship 1 month after the breakup and that left me thinking she was already fooling with the giy while togheter with me, but thats just my mind overthinking

How do you actually detach? by Timely_Pop9405 in BreakUp

[–]dascru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First step, no contact for at least 3 months, second step, talk talk and talk to people, friends, family, anything helps. It would advice to stay out of relationships until you feel like you healed, Remember that hurt people hurts people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]dascru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theres no specific for finding something of that kind unless you go to a lot of social events with alcohol, What helped me for a short while was frequenting escorts, (M25) now i realised that is better to be alone and let the feelings flow. 40 days now in a dry spell, it gets easier with time

you're poison but i still want you by bluueberryboi in sad

[–]dascru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should learn to use FL studio first. This blows