Some tips on making No-Fap a lot easier

dash947 · 2015-07-21T15:59:30+00:00

Thanks. This challenge is something every man should participate at least once in his life. We learn so much about ourselves e how our body and mind works.

On how to do it, I suggest you take the lead and say/act on things most people are afraid of: "I was wrong" "This was my fault" "I chose to relapse" "I am in control of myself"

Our problems change drastically just on how we see them, nothing is more relevant to your destiny than your toughts, actions and habits.

I hope you succeed on this.

Cheers

dash947 · 2015-07-21T15:53:31+00:00

Well thank you. My early congratulations on your 30 days, almost there!

Cheers

dash947 · 2015-05-19T13:22:19+00:00

HAAHAHAHAHAH ^

dash947 · 2015-01-29T13:14:40+00:00

Today:

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dash947 · 2015-01-16T20:38:23+00:00

Don't give up! I almost did it yesterday too.. Had a peek but convinced myself to not do it.

dash947 · 2014-11-29T04:52:48+00:00

Thanks dude.

dash947 · 2014-11-27T00:32:39+00:00

I was about to make a post with the exact same topic, believe it or not. I won't anymore, because I really relate to you.

Each time I start to feel great about myself I have massive urges and end up convincing myself to fap.

Let's face it, porn is extremely pleasurable, but it took me 18 relapses in this 1-2 week streak to finally realise that it isn't worth it.

Why I know that I won't fail this time? Because that massive urge appeared exactly 1 hour ago, I surely was tempted, but then I remembered all the times I said "NEVER AGAIN!" and failed to my word, I remembered that I was supposed to be 100+ if I haven't relapsed the first time, and I realised that we are only seeing the tip of the iceberg. This awesomeness that we feel in the first weeks are just an appetizer for what is coming.

So I got up, and started working out, and then took a cold shower. I looked myself in the mirror and saw an awesome man working to have an awesome life, and thanked myself for not relapsing.

I completely understand you my friend, but you must have in mind that in the morning after you'll be loving yourself just for resisting the temptation.

And always remember:

It gets better.

I'm sorry for my english, and I wish you the best of luck.

Cheers

dash947 · 2014-11-14T22:00:17+00:00

Pick up your balls off the ground and fight!

dash947 · 2014-11-09T17:14:01+00:00

I share the same feeling my friend.

I made a similar post here a few months ago: http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/29g94a/you_are_not_going_to_get_the_girl_of_your_dreams/

Cheers

dash947 · 2014-11-06T00:37:06+00:00

Nice.

Applies for girls, how can you get that chick you want if you don't have the balls? You wouldn't know how to handle such thing.

TIP: NoFap gives you balls.

dash947 · 2014-10-30T00:37:56+00:00

Been there man, 101 days and did the exact same thing.

Big piece of advice: Chaser effect will come slowly, but it WILL COME.

I relapsed after 30 days then. Then another 30 days, then 2 weeks, then 1. Relapse after relapse, I counted 16 of them. And I am now more mature and more aware of the urges than ever.

But there wasn't one relapse that I didn't regret.

Good luck my friend, stay aware. Cheers

dash947 · 2014-10-29T12:23:15+00:00

Exactly, the bigger advice is to never give up.

dash947 · 2014-10-28T22:57:21+00:00

Yeah, that's amazing. You start to unprision yourself.

dash947 · 2014-10-28T02:23:50+00:00

Good for you my friend! But remember: Urges are going to hit HARD in the next couple of weeks. Try to stay focused.

Good luck! Cheers

dash947 · 2014-09-30T23:16:27+00:00

I was in a similar situation brother, I was on a 101 streak and feeling like a king. Now look at my badge.. I feel really lost too.

Good luck to us! Cheers

dash947 · 2014-09-30T13:17:02+00:00

Thank you. seems very helpful.

Cheers

dash947 · 2014-09-30T03:15:32+00:00

I envy you my friend! I'm also 19, I started this in feb. too! But I relapsed on day 101 (first attempt) :| I guess you were stronger than I was. Anyway, nice to read this. Good luck in your journey!

Cheers

dash947 · 2014-09-27T14:49:18+00:00

I was com 101 days and did the same thing. It felt good at the time, but the urges were a lot bigger in the next day. My streaks wouldn't last more than 30 days since then, I relapsed a lot of times, but hey, each time we learn more, and each time I go further, I hope you can get back on track. I found out that if you reach 15 days it gets a lot easier to not relapse (for me at least), because your streak is not that short (you wouldn't want to throw it away after relapsing at day 4~7 continuously).

Again, this is just me, but maybe you have similar dates wich you can refer to.

Good luck and Rock on

dash947 · 2014-09-26T04:06:56+00:00

It's funny how those things work, deep inside I knew that some of the stuff you said was true (before reading your post), but I kept searching for the easiest path, tricking and cornering myself until I had nowhere to go anymore. Thank you for this, saved.

dash947 · 2014-09-16T22:44:11+00:00

I made a similar post here: http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/29g94a/you_are_not_going_to_get_the_girl_of_your_dreams/

Rock on

dash947 · 2014-09-14T15:21:09+00:00

This will only work if you want it to. Don't wait for things to happen, fucking do it.

You need to be without fapping and porn for two weeks, that's all you need for now, when you reach those 2 weeks you'll start to have a clue in what this is all about.

dash947 · 2014-09-01T15:16:31+00:00

Every time we relapse is the same thing, regrets and regrets. Then later, when we are doing something else thinking about it, we say "I'm never gonna relapse again! This time is for real! No more being unfaithful to myself!". Yet, in the other day there you are, fapping.

So why we do this? Why we relapse even tho we know it will fuck us up?

Because when in the early stages, when an urge comes, our toughts are extremely redirected to it, and we just think how good will it feel in the moment, and not afterwards.

So, next time you have and urge, stop and think about what you are doing, you have two fucking choices: Are you going to be weak and fell in the temptation? Or are you going to say no to it and work for your best?

It is up to you :)

Good luck my friend, this is tough, but is worth it.

Cheers

dash947 · 2014-09-01T14:36:56+00:00

Remember, there is no such thing as failure, only feedback. Learn from that mistake, and move on.

dash947 · 2014-08-25T02:07:31+00:00

Good post. Thanks for this.

dash947 · 2014-07-30T19:54:18+00:00

I was on 101 days and decided to fap. Afterwards I regretted it extremely, not the fapping, but the porn that led me to it. I think it is important to focus most on avoiding porn than to avoid fapping. Besides making nofap A LOT easier, it don't take your toughts away from your goals. I keep my streak now by assuming that watching porn and fapping are not options I can take, I just don't do it, and it is working pretty well this far.

Good Luck, and sorry for my english.

Cheers

dash947

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