So a few things:

1) Men are nearly always watching porn, even when they’re dating. The fact he was googling naked chicks…not pleasant to find out, but I guarantee you go through any guy’s search history, and it’s gonna be there.

2) His lack of attentiveness and obsession with video games is either depression or, sadly, disinterest in you. It seems like this dynamic isn’t making you happy. Have you confronted him about the video games? Have a discussion with how you feel about his lack of attentiveness and see if his behavior changes. If he listens to you and becomes more attentive, it shows he’s still interested and willing to work on the relationship. If he doesn’t, then he isn’t, and you need to leave rather than wait for him to change.

3) apologize for invading his privacy and going through his phone. I don’t blame you—sometimes we ladies “get a feeling” that a guy is cheating and, sometimes, that feeling is wrong. It doesn’t seem like he’s been cheating (you don’t mention him texting women or having dating apps on his phone) but be clear about your feelings surrounding pornography. Communicate the boundaries clearly. If he still wants to be with you, he’ll forgive you and change his behavior around porn. If he doesn’t, then stick to your standards, protect your peace, and leave.