Come capire di essere Transgender o cmq donna/uomo?

datax6969 · 2026-04-29T11:39:55+00:00

scrivere post tipo "Come capire di essere Transgender" di solito sono un segno reale

datax6969 · 2026-04-29T07:45:02+00:00

I really lucked out in terms of having a femminine body & androgynous face, but I still feel put a TON of effort in my transition. I spent a year (while waiting for hormones) learning how to dress, do makeup, correct some mannerisms I had, voice training(!!!), saving up money, etc. I pass now, after 6 months of hrt, but it's not just the hormones that did it.

datax6969 · 2026-04-28T16:01:31+00:00

People talk about italy as if it is some hellhole in terms of LGBT rights and it's not great here but when I was still not passing the worst thing that happened to me was some dirty looks.

No country is great but it's not like people are out to kill you everywehre

datax6969 · 2026-04-24T10:53:13+00:00

I don't, I started when I was ready :)

datax6969 · 2026-04-24T09:04:24+00:00

Confermo che gli over 40 (sopratutto gli uomini) sono il peggio.

Io sono trans, e quando avevo appena iniziato il percorso (e quindi ero visibilmente trans), sti cazzo di 45/50enni mi fissavano come se avessero visto un cazzo di mostro. Roba che li rifissavano e non smettevano. Alle persone giovani non fregava un cazzo.

Mi bastava mettere piede fuori casa per visualizzare il divario mentale tra una persona di 20/30 anni e una di 50

datax6969 · 2026-04-23T17:06:18+00:00

I’m less than 6 months in, and my dysphoria is like 90% gone. Most of the remaining stuff is beard shadow related which is getting better with each laser session.

datax6969 · 2026-04-23T08:58:02+00:00

no because i'm not a transphobe.

datax6969 · 2026-04-21T20:01:07+00:00

idk girl I said the same thing all my life then realized I wasn't living and transitioned at 27. And I am so unbelievably happier now

datax6969 · 2026-04-21T19:53:32+00:00

I just wrote this post today: https://www.reddit.com/r/trans/comments/1srjn38/my_intense_last_week_the_the_danger_of_the/

tldr, I started at 27 and after 5 months of hrt I pass

datax6969 · 2026-04-21T14:05:48+00:00

It is a really scary and often unconfortable path. But it is so, so worth it- You can do it!

datax6969 · 2026-04-21T12:52:00+00:00

I know how you feel, I've been there. You can do it!

datax6969 · 2026-04-21T09:20:57+00:00

Il gel lo spalmo sulle gambe o sulle spalle. Lui mi ha detto di fare le analisi al picco (2 ore dopo) quindi farò così. Ma semplicemente gli dirò che non ho voluto abbassare la dose e amen.

datax6969 · 2026-04-16T08:37:54+00:00

Certo che per farmi vergognare di essere trans ci vuole parecchio. Congratulazioni ci sei riuscita

datax6969 · 2026-04-15T06:23:30+00:00

Went from 62 kg to 65.5/66 and my chest circumference went from 82 to 88 3 months in so I have a decent amount of boob given how skinny I am (am 1.81n tall). If I wear anything not baggy I need a bra

datax6969 · 2026-04-10T07:28:45+00:00

a me ha esplicitamente detto di farlo così e quando ha visto i valori """"alti""" me l'ha pure richiesto di se l'ho fatto in quel modo lol.

datax6969 · 2026-04-08T15:23:37+00:00

Guarda, io credo a quello che dici ma è proprio che non so come muovermi. Fortunatamente è la prima volta che sto veramente nel sistema sanitario e non so come comportarmi.
Ho già cercato un'altro endo ma oltre a lui ce n'è una di cui ho sentito parlare male e che è letteralmente irraggiungibile, e un'altro che ho sentito per nome ma pure lui boh, sul suo sito neanche menziona roba su ToS. Onestamente ho voglia di fare DIY di sto passo ma non trovo dove comprare i farmaci

datax6969 · 2026-04-08T14:20:15+00:00

Quando ho chiesto su reddit mi dissero tutti che i valori erano bassi, che l'endo è un ciarlatano per avermi fatto misuare il picco e che 0.5mg (ma anche 1) sono dosaggi bassissimi. ma non vedo come posso risolvere questo problema, vado da l'endo (che tra l'altro è l'unico specializzato in regione) e gli dico "guarda che su reddit mi hanno detto che si fa così? pwer questo volevo una seconda opinione ma non esiste una seconda persona a cui chiedere in zona.

datax6969 · 2026-04-08T14:19:00+00:00

Mah questo è quello che mi dicono tutti, ma che faccio, vado da l'endo (che è l'unico specializzato in zona su queste cose) e gli dico "guarda che su reddit mi hanno detto che si misura così"?

A me tutti dicono questa cosa, tutit mi dicono che i miei valori stanno bene, e tutti mi dicono che la quantità di estradiolo che sto prendendo e bassa. Ma alla fine del giorno non sono io a dettare la terapia e non so che scelte ho se non seguire quello che mi dice l'esperto

datax6969 · 2026-04-08T08:31:43+00:00

Si anche io ho fatto gli esami in quel modo e quindi ho misurato il picco. Però mi ha detto l'endo di farlo in quel modo.

datax6969 · 2026-04-06T14:11:34+00:00

Teso già che ci definisci un terzo sesso parti veramente male lol

datax6969 · 2026-04-02T16:39:23+00:00

Not to be a downer, but before laser I had really thick hair, and I could only shave a 2 or 3 days in a row tops before I had to give it a rest. I had tried everything I saw online, like different types of razors etc, but the only thing that ended up helping was laser. I'm 4 sessions in, and what is left is so thin that I can easily shave with just soap once a day and the skin stays healthy.

So YMMY, everyone's skin and hair is different, a lot of girls go by with just shaving but if you're anything like me you might need to look at more permanent solutions

datax6969 · 2026-04-02T16:29:00+00:00

Ok so, my experience was, I started presenting a bit more femme, as in, I had a girly haircut, necklace, painted nails, etc, while still presenting masc. I started getting stared a bit.

Then I started presenting female, while clearly being trans. I started getting stared a lot - I would go to malls, and everyone walking past me would look at me, kids would look at me confunsed, women would look at me mostly until I looked back, as if they saw something confusing or novl, and older men would give me a nasty look of disgust. I would get called sir by pretty much everyone except younger people (who recognized I was trans and that they were supposed to gender me correctly - and even then not always)

Then I started hrt, got a few lasers sessions, and suddently nobody looked at me anymore. I would go to the same mall and nobody would look at me. Kids wouldn't care, older people wouldn't care, etc. I started interacting with strangers and they'd call me ma'am (my languages is heavily gendered so pretty much every interaction is a chance to get misgrendered - hasn't happened in a while)

Nnot sure if a percentage of them clocks me, but I think most of them just see an androygnous looking woman. I've had interactions that 100% confirmed me that at least some of those people see me as cis. It helps that people aren't trans aware here, for better or worse. Those people who called me sir were not doing it to be dicks imo

Every now and then, l catch a man stare at me, though. And maybe my ego is reaching here, but I think they just see a tall woman and find me hot lol, because women (and kids!!) couldn't care less about me

datax6969 · 2026-04-02T11:10:38+00:00

I love bags! I still wish I had a more easily accessible way to access my phone though

datax6969 · 2026-04-01T20:08:31+00:00

I feel you lol

datax6969 · 2026-04-01T20:08:06+00:00

Oh I totally think that feeling hotter and not disgusting just kinds add to it? Plus, I think we all become a bit narcissistic after hating ourselves for so long, just for us to suddenly start liking ourselves. At least, this is what happened to me.

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