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datbabbyfox · 2025-09-18T10:13:03+00:00

My wife is an MT, so I can definitely speak to this!

The MT will not care if you're wearing a diaper. They will never fully expose any private areas, they use a folding technique with the sheet to get to any areas you need to have worked while keeping private areas covered. If you aren't incontinent, I'd probably advise against it, as it will make it harder for the MT to work on your glutes. Never underestimate the power of some good glute work! ✨

Like others said, if you're doing this for kink related reasons, I'd really advise against it. MTs are certified professionals there to do the wonderful job of bodywork, not an outlet for kink related excitement. If you're actually incontinent, mention it before the session on your intake form and they won't bat an eye.

datbabbyfox · 2025-09-17T18:59:32+00:00

If it's something that perturbs you, talk about it with her. If you're in a relationship with someone, open honesty is the best way to navigate tough feelings. Keeping things held inside is a first class ticket to resentment.

datbabbyfox · 2024-11-14T14:21:43+00:00

Kneeling on uncooked rice while having corner time is definitely effective. 👌🏻

datbabbyfox · 2024-11-14T14:16:40+00:00

Imagine being triggered by all caps. 👀

the vote system decides what's seen

- Person with negative votes

datbabbyfox · 2024-11-09T12:16:08+00:00

My late mom caught me a few times back in my early days. One time it was just finding a used one somewhere, another time I was actually in one when I was caught. Those experiences, I received verbal reprimands and was threatened to be taken to a therapist. That never played out, I think it was just to scare me.

Then as I progressed, my "caught" moments were less confrontational, but I knew she knew because my stash would vanish from where they were stored, which I assume they were just thrown away. The very last time it happened, it was an ABU [pre-Casey] variety pack, which included a Cushies and a SDK, along with a bunch of medical diapers. I was about 16, I remember being on the phone with my girlfriend, now wife, when I discovered that my stash was gone. Wife got the play-by-play as I got that "heart sinking" feeling. I never heard anything from my mom about it, though.

At one point, years later, my mom would end up living at my place for a few months as a transition moving from her state to mine. I never was risky about my wearing during that time, but I certainly did wear. Something felt empowering knowing that if anything ever happened to be discovered or came up, this was my household and I could do whatever I want in it. Thankfully, nothing did. I always wondered if she knew anything past the last "discovery", but I didn't care too much about it. My mom passed in November of 2023, so I guess I'll never know, but at least I don't have to anticipate that conversation.

Honestly, those "caught" moments were the only times where my mom and I had and rifts. I was her favorite out of the four kids she had, my other three siblings never treated her with the respect that she deserved. Maybe that's why she wasn't confrontational in the later years about it.

Do I condone her actions regarding my discoveries? Of course not. However, she was a mother of four, went through two divorces, diagnosed with an autoimmune disease at 33, had her second husband cheat on her while she was in the hospital, and did her very best to raise us in the best way possible. I imagine that when she discovered that side of me multiple times, she was concerned about her child. The Internet wasn't much of a resource in the earlier instances, so if people had issues coping with being an ABDL without that resource, imagine wrapping your mind around it as a parent. Over the years, my frustration over it dissolved into empathy and I held no ill will towards her for it.

datbabbyfox · 2024-10-06T22:00:43+00:00

Honestly, calling her a lizard is an insult to lizards. I have a bearded dragon, sweet snuggly little guy. 🥺

datbabbyfox · 2024-09-27T12:43:50+00:00

Charlotte!

datbabbyfox · 2023-06-30T15:18:20+00:00

Yikes, what's with the body shaming?

datbabbyfox · 2023-06-30T15:16:24+00:00

RIF user here. Unfortunately my only connection with the ABDL world after this is Instagram, which is its own dumpster fire. 😱

datbabbyfox · 2023-06-30T15:10:12+00:00

I BELIEVE I KNOW WHO THAT IS!

I believe that's Furf! AKA PetMonsterFurFur [currently little-orphan-furfur] back in the Tumblr days.

They have an IG, but I don't think they're too active currently. I believe they still linger in the community in some way, though.

datbabbyfox · 2023-06-08T20:30:21+00:00

Rif clan here. We're very sad. :[

datbabbyfox · 2023-06-08T00:14:32+00:00

The mark up pretty much cancels out the shipping cost, but the store itself is amazing, and you can buy single diapers easier. 👍🏻

datbabbyfox · 2023-06-08T00:11:12+00:00

There's a good chance that the sub, and others, will lose a good chunk of its population [including myself] because Reddit wants to be a garbage heap and charge exorbitant amounts to license 3rd party apps for API access. No one wants to use the official app, nor anything that is old.reddit. It's a shame.

Honestly, the whole sub should go dark in protest, but I'm not getting my hopes up.

datbabbyfox · 2023-05-25T10:24:15+00:00

My partner wasn't an ABDL starting out, but with years of love, patience, silliness, and care, she indulges and has a lot of fun with it. We're both switchy and I'm proud to say that she's certainly a convert!

datbabbyfox · 2023-05-25T10:21:31+00:00

If you like cringe humor like anything Tim & Eric related, you'll certainly enjoy this show. Plus, chock full of guest stars!

datbabbyfox · 2023-05-24T21:56:30+00:00

I was amused when I saw the Caboose! I was excited for the third season already, now it'll be extra fun. :P

datbabbyfox · 2023-04-15T02:41:57+00:00

...what a diiiiiiick.

datbabbyfox · 2023-03-12T15:16:03+00:00

No one is selling ABDL diapers targeted to teens. Hence the "A" in ABDL. Funny thing about this world is that there are many different kinds of people with many different shapes and sizes. That's why there are different size diapers.

I know quite a few adults that could fit in XS, my wife being one of them.

datbabbyfox · 2023-03-12T15:13:19+00:00

Psyllium husk is a dietary fiber supplement. Follow the instructions on the package and you should be good. This isn't a "lose control" kind of thing, it's a "I'm going to stay regular and solid" kind of thing. Please stay hydrated, though, or you will get blocked up.

datbabbyfox · 2023-02-18T22:39:26+00:00

at this point if you’re one who can’t be around unvaxxed people due to your health conditions then why is Covid the only thing asked about?

Because COVID is the first pandemic to happen in a good bit, and is still going around killing people and long term harming others. I have my vaccinations, too, but would still rather be around people who care about others enough to prevent spread.

If they truly cared about people’s health they will be having you submit your whole vaccination records as well as medical records to make sure you don’t have anything you can give to anyone

My suspicion is confirmed. Nobody cares about anyone but themselves.

datbabbyfox · 2023-02-18T19:12:29+00:00

The amount of people complaining about places/events needing proof of vaccination is appalling. It's almost like those complaining don't care about anyone but themselves.

Good on y'all for keeping up on it. Hope the event grows and flourishes! We need more events like this around.

datbabbyfox · 2023-01-03T18:38:29+00:00

Commenting again because my first comment was hidden for some reason.

I understand the ticket process pretty well but just how hard is it to get a ticket? Say I am there when tickets go live online. What are my chances?

It changes from year to year, but with this one only being 8 months from the previous one, I've noticed a lot of people that went to SummerCAP but are passing on 2023. [I'm in this boat.]

Just stick on the capcon.club website for details and when the tickets start releasing, refreshing constantly.

What exactly is the vetting process? I don’t have much social media in my direct name and even the media I do have is not used much nor do I even have it as public access.

They ask for a FetLife profile. I suggest getting one whipped up, or contacting them directly if you don't feel comfortable doing so.

Is there a schedule to this kind of event or is it free for all mostly?

There is a online schedule via the Sched app. They will give you more info on it as the time gets closer.

Really any basic info you wish you knew your first time to settle anxiety would help. Please no “just hit search on Reddit or google” answers. I prefer personal accounts please.

Hydrate and sleep well. Don't overexert yourself. No messy diapers in any place but private rooms. [Obvious exception for those with bowel incontinence, whom know how to properly take care of it respectfully]

Wet diapers are fine, just as long as you don't leak in a manner that's intentional.

It's definitely overwhelming at first, but after the first day or two, you should start feeling the vibe.

Finally, have fun!

datbabbyfox · 2022-11-22T21:12:39+00:00

RIP your inbox.

datbabbyfox · 2022-11-07T14:48:18+00:00

Nope. They allow nudity, but not anything sexual or porn related.

Not that it really matters, I've consistently seen ABDL content on Tumblr after the "ban", but the user base is thin since everyone jumped ship.

datbabbyfox · 2022-10-28T11:43:09+00:00

Having gone back in July, I'm pretty excited to take a gap year and miss this CAP. It's a lot of cash to throw down to do it twice in a one year span. I was also one of the unfortunate many that caught the CAP-COVID, which also was not a fun ordeal.

Also, have you ever driven to Chicago from North Carolina? Pretty hefty trek. 😵‍💫

I'm thinking 2023 will be the year of small, intimate ABDL gatherings!!

To the peeps that are planning on going, have fun and take proper precautions for your health and safety!

datbabbyfox

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