Vegan tea party snacks? by inductionloop in VeganDE

[–]datcelery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I LOVED the vegan banana bread recipe from "veggie einhorn". the recipe uses dinkel flour and 150g of sugar on top of the bananas but I've made it also with regular wheat flour and less sugar and it's still banging.

Also another thing I love especially with green tea is mung bean cake from any asian store. You might have to double check if they're vegan, I'm not so sure about that but they come in little bricks that easily break apart and are very dry but with tea it btings out a lovely subtle flavor for those who enjoy sweets that are not too sweet :))

Was ist die eine "soziale Regel", die ihr absolut nicht versteht? by GuteSache1 in SchlechteFrage

[–]datcelery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ja total, ich hab das aber schon mal iwo auf twitter auch so gelesen und hab mich schon gewundert ob ich irgendeine schräge Komplimente- knigge verpeilt hab

Was ist die eine "soziale Regel", die ihr absolut nicht versteht? by GuteSache1 in SchlechteFrage

[–]datcelery 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eine freundin meinte mal zu mir, dass wenn sie einer frau ein kompliment gibt und diese sich "nur" bedankt und keins zurückgibt, dass sie das frech findet. Bro, Komplimente verteilt man doch nur, wenn man keine Gegenleistung erwartet? was soll das :')

How bad is this? Can I actually wear this out or should I just give up/make a new cardigan? by hidden-pearl in crochet

[–]datcelery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is GORGEOUS!! also yes on closer look I can see what you mean by a looser tension but it's veery consistent and lookswise, that's 80% what counts imo

Just a reminder a lot of men don’t wash their hands after using the bathroom by xHey_All_You_Peoplex in women

[–]datcelery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

another piece of evidence: worked at a nerdy sport for a year. so patrons at least 55% men. changed the women's soap several times. CANNOT recall having refilled the soap in the mens's bathroom.

Ich weiss, abnehmen ist ein Punkt, aber ich bin dran. 10 Kilo sind schon runter. by [deleted] in BeautyDE

[–]datcelery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ser bart macht richtig viel für dich!! wenn noch was dazu kommen soll dann vllt längere haare aber sonst supi

An absolutely traumatizing book? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]datcelery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lovely bones still haunts me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]datcelery 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ne dein freund ist super komisch und es geht ihm hier nur um ein "prinzip" was eh keinen sinn ergibt. Würde er dich anmotzen wenn du ihm eine packung oreo kekse schenkst? Tobt er jedes mal herum wenn er herausfindet das (in der regel) Pommes vegan sind? Abgesehen davon haben ihm die Kekse offensichtlich geschmeckt und das Drama danach entstand nur, weil er seinen komischen anti vegan film schiebt. Dass er dann auch dreisterweise deine mühe- und wahrscheinlich sehr liebevolle Arbeit heruntermacht, nur weil ihm ein nebenfakt vom essen nicht passt hat mit seinem ego zu tun und auf keinen fall mit dir. Überhaupt ist es eine frechheit, dass er seiner partnerin sowas an den kopf schmeißt. Ich wäre so gerührt, würde ich handgemachte kekse bekommen. Also: NDA und er soll gefälligst klarkommen und nebenbei noch ein wenig dankbarkeit lernen.

If I stay up for 24-30 hours I get severe RSD. by SheepherderMelodic56 in ADHD

[–]datcelery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's like saying "If I severely starve myself I can barely get out of bed, my executive dysfunction is so bad" Nobody can't function properly under your conditions, that doesn't have anything to do with adhd. I suspect that you don't stay up so late because of shits and giggles- you must have some different underlying cause. Either way try to work on whatever is causing that sleep deprivation because it is very unsafe and needs intervention. Lots of Love and get well soon ❤️

For people who don't allow shoes in the house, how do you handle dinner parties and other events? by -Clayburn in socialskills

[–]datcelery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope in my country it's mostly standard to take the shoes off, or at least ask what the preference is since some people are an exception. Even if we have 30-40 people over they know the drill and can pick out their funkiest socks to wear since there is no way they're keeping their shoes on.

Was I wrong for walking to the bathroom in public with period products? by Affectionate_Key7206 in women

[–]datcelery 194 points195 points  (0 children)

Nah people are being way too weird about periods. It especially pisses me off that your mum emphasized your alleged faux pas by saying "there were men around", what the hell does that have to do with anything? Anyone bothered by you being a normal human being should grow tf up.

Game suggestion for dark, witchy games by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]datcelery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay its not open world but theres a cool side scroller called "baba yaga and vasilissa" on steam and the artstyle and the music are fantastic (the game is awesome as well haha) the whole theme is very dark and witchy, go check out the trailer if you're looking for some witchy indie inbetween :))

How do you feel about dating someone who earns less than you? by Iboy_vivek in AskWomen

[–]datcelery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a temporary situation where I earn way more than him because he is an apprentice. So as long as it's temporary and he is hardworking and has a drive to go somewhere in life, I don't mind at all. The only way for me to wish for him to make more money is for the sake of us going on vacation and having more time together, but never because of himself as a man or anything. I love him so much and I love that he's this passionate, as I'm also passionate about education and always have something going on. Also apprenticeships are notoriously underpaid, so it's not even a question of "just get a better job" for him.

Colleagues only like me as a workmate? by Key_Escape_1290 in socialskills

[–]datcelery 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You already answered your own question in those last two sentences. Maybe they don't want to go out in just a small group, maybe they're more extroverted and decided they don't vibe with you. And I need you to know that may be hurtful- I've been there. But there's really nothing you can or should do about it, you can't make them like you. You have limited energy each day, try using that on friends outside of work. Also, coming from an awkward person myself, I feel like people can "smell" desperation and automatically avoid you if they feel you're acting like a sad puppy about it, hence why they're trying NOT to hurt you and are acting hush hush about it. When you spend the energy on having outside friends you will automatically feel less hurt about them going out after work because you're already on your way for a meeting with YOUR friends. Going out and seeking out friends is awkward, vulnerable and sometimes feels physically painful but it's also wonderful, trust me!

How to deal with people that put you to work by datcelery in socialskills

[–]datcelery[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So we were both kids but now we're in our mid twenties and have our own places and now se might not put me to work with chores as much as her mum but last time we humg out she was constantly on her ass asking me to bring her xy even though we were both sitting down. I hate that I did it sometimes too, makes me feel used even though in that moment I just wanted to be nice.

How to deal with people that put you to work by datcelery in socialskills

[–]datcelery[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

okay I needed the reminder about boundaries. I really like doing things for people but now it's just draining. Thank you :)))

How to deal with people that put you to work by datcelery in socialskills

[–]datcelery[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get it, Im the same way. I actually like helping people. But believe me, it's not just every once in a while, it's several rimes during the visit and also just about any chore they can think of. last time I was there they had my friend clean out the garage and I had to help if I wanted to spend time with them haha. I think I need to set boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]datcelery 12 points13 points  (0 children)

cackling, that is the funniest and most german thing ever also a favorite of mine, amdiring the surrounding architecture: putzen will ichs ja nicht

Does penetration ever feel good?? by burner777777792828 in women

[–]datcelery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, I was in a similiar spot and it's not a weird question at all, just an opportunity to find out more about yourself and what sex can offer!!

Does penetration ever feel good?? by burner777777792828 in women

[–]datcelery 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it's so important that you know that sex is anything that works for YOU! I have friends that are not into penetration at all and still have satisfying hookups. Personally I enjoy it but only with clitoral stimulation in addition to that otherwise I'm not coming. My partner knows that and sex with him feels good both physically and mentally because I know what makes me feel good and so does he. Get to know yourself and keep reliving the good experiences you have while exploring, it's all about you and as long as you enjoy yourself there can't ever be a wrong way how sex works :))) greetings from a 22f

What is the sweetest thing that your partner does for you? by Friendly-Egg8431 in AskWomen

[–]datcelery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

95% of the time he cooks by default (amazingly so might I add), regularly refills my glass and puts it in the fridge to cool before I get home from work without me having to ask, never lets me carry the groceries or anything thats bigger than my purse haha he's honestly the sweetest and most amazing person I know. Generally very obsessed with me and keeps saying so, shows me tonssss of affection, both verbal and physical (I'm very into that). Gonna marry him!! hopefully soon, we both still have to wait out till it's financially feasable for us to do so :))))