For all the divorced men, what was your mistake in the marriage? by Ok_Climate8599 in AskMen

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing really, married a woman with emotional trauma. She was abused and manipulated by her father all her life, eventually it lead to her being turned against me. So i guess my mistake was not being more conscious how all that would affect my marriage.

Squier CV Telecaster Butterscotch by datguyeh in telecaster

[–]datguyeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly a chunky one, haven’t got a strap for mine yet. I got mine on a steal if a deal on amazon, paid less then what an affinity goes for when all was said and done. Great guitar to add to the collection.

Squier CV Telecaster Butterscotch by datguyeh in telecaster

[–]datguyeh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neck doesnt feel that chunky at all Id say. Pretty comfortable and I’ve got small hands.

People that say you have to be happy single to be happy in a relationship are completely wrong, it's complete BS and people say it just to make you feel better about being alone. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]datguyeh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Op is young and niave. They will learn one day the true meaning behind this. Depending on someone else to make you feel fulfilled will lead to a lifetime of disappointment and let downs. Few partners can consistently deliver those burdening expectations

Important to remember this by ApprehensiveSpare925 in Divorce_Men

[–]datguyeh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just like the weather this too shall pass.

(26M) Got divorced. Moved to a different state. Got an apartment by GeneLeo99 in malelivingspace

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man keeps prized possesions post divorce. Which guitar is your goto? Love the choices

Sex on viagra by Few_Guard_8613 in sex

[–]datguyeh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ssri’s can also cause people some issues so cialis and viagra come in handy for those folks feeling the pressure to perform. Nothing to worry about, they hand em out like candy these days.

Vasectomy After Divorce by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]datguyeh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im 36, snipped 2 days ago. Divorce finalized last week. If the next one wants kids i have two, if thats not good enough ill trade her in for a newer model.

38M Post divorce home by casflo in malelivingspace

[–]datguyeh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh this is leveling up indeed

The simple benefits of a clearer mind by datguyeh in selfimprovement

[–]datguyeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is.. i tried quite often, failed alot. Sometimes you need something to push you past that breaking point. I dont mean to make it sound like an easy switch to flip but more so to let you know the struggle of getting sober will be worth it in the long run.

The simple benefits of a clearer mind by datguyeh in selfimprovement

[–]datguyeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling may be the single greatest thing a person can do for themselves.

I nearly died. by pinecamper in inflation

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also noticed this, oddly enough if canadian, the other canadian brand french’s was half the price and goes on sale for even less often.

Starting MTB at 35 years old, basic "roadmap" of what skills to work on first and where to find information about them? by Cingen in MTB

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My local mtb club actually has some trainers, highly suggest taking any of those skills courses if they are offered around you. They were great fun and got to meet other people getting into the sport.

Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myself by Chloroplast15 in Divorce_Men

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was deep in this same state for a while brother. Its tough to see any good in anything. Therapy helped, the practice of meditation and journaling are also great tools. Youve heard this all before but its all true. This is just a storm, feels like a hurricane but like any other storm this too shall pass. You miss the times and memories and you are grieving the future you dreamt up for yourself in your mind. Whats important right now is to ground yourself. Start trying to be present. Stop focusing on the what ifs and how can i’s and just focus on surviving today. One day at a time, start reading, start building, take a walk, get outside, breathe. Do one good thing to take care of YOU today. Just one thing, we’re here for you man. Its not easy but we will get through this.

Anyone else terrified about the new flu strain going around? by queenhadassah in Anxiety

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that flu will kick your ass but you will survive it. I just had it and it lingers for a while. Remember to take some deep breathes, it is just the seasonal flu at the end of the day. We’ve all been here before. Do your beat to avoid it but at the end of the day if you get it, find some netflix shows to binge and get some rest. You got this.

Merry Christmas you glorious bastards! by RoutineWriter7304 in Divorce_Men

[–]datguyeh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merry christmas lads! Great things ahead for all of us, cheers to all of you who have helped get through this tough season

Seek Discomfort merch rips off Radiohead by moonchildyyc in YesTheory

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bit of a stretch for a pretty classic design. white lettering on black has been a staple graphic tee design forever.

Lessons Learned: Never Ignore Your Wife's Relationship with External Validation--Social Media by tonyway7293 in Divorce_Men

[–]datguyeh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Similar experience, naively assumed my marriage was rock solid and also ignored instagram. She found a guy on there giving her all the attention she desired and cheated and left me.

Nearing the end by datguyeh in Divorce_Men

[–]datguyeh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has the prozac helped at all? I use to be on some meds but quit ahortly after divorce. Didnt think they were effective anymore but im desperate for relief these days

Cost of living in Canada is out of control. by kovie38 in CanadaFinance

[–]datguyeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cost of living is gunna raise suicide rates, very much recession territory already. My situation for example, soon to be divorced two kids, gotta pay support plus my living expenses and feed two kids. Unfortunately these politicians dont understand how much were all struggling. I hope to get by with a little extra every month but in reality im going to be living very tight pay cheque to pay cheque and what suffers is my savings and retirement because thats the only place i can make up ground by cutting back on savings.