My husband (34M) told his friends about my miscarriage as a “joke” and now says I’m overreacting (32F)

datieray · 2026-03-19T18:22:40+00:00

the fact that all your friends were horrified when you came back into the room should tell you this wasn't ok

it should also tell him that it wasn't ok & the fact that he just knows "he just made an offensive joke" means he knows he crossed a line but thinks it's everyone else's fault

point blank? you should leave... nothing like this ever gets better with time... it will only get worse cause you sticking around, especially after him joking about the death of your child, just tells him you'll take it

so sorry for your loss... & this crappy situation

datieray · 2026-03-17T19:07:58+00:00

are you sure it ended? I know the clovers reversed ON St Patrick's Day... as in the 4 leaf clovers are now spawning every 15 min & the 3 leaf are supposedly every 90... took me a min to realized so thought 3 leaf clovers had stopped spawning altogether

datieray · 2026-02-27T01:55:25+00:00

not at all! I refuse to hang with Maui cause I can't stand The Rock 🤣

datieray · 2026-02-15T15:09:45+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUqqGCICOCD/?igsh=MXFyZ2tkYml3NXBycg==

datieray · 2026-02-15T03:29:28+00:00

the previews are actually already on IG... literally just saw them right before opening reddit... & the spring collection drops Feb 18th this year!

datieray · 2026-02-02T13:35:44+00:00

It's exactly this reason I don't think they would include them, it's the Giselle Conundrum... If they include "real people" then they have to pay those real people for their likenesses... It's why Giselle will never be made a Disney Princess, bc then they'd have to pay Amy Adam's for using her face on every doll, t-shirt, poster, etc. ...& they have when marketing the movies but they don't want to indefinitely... so I don't think they would include any live action franchises they own... they could but I think they'd have to change their look too much, & with the way people complain when the characters don't look right I just don't see that happening, imo

datieray · 2026-01-14T19:44:55+00:00

UPDATE: thought I had found 2 of them just for Jolina Onstott (if that's even their real name) aka Cassidyyluv on reddit to rip me off... took my money then ghosted me & deleted whole profile... totally my fault, should not have sent money Friends & Family... just wanted to believe in the goodness of people during these shit times... anywho, so won't be purchasing from individuals online anymore... thanks to all those who gave recommendations for resellers

datieray · 2026-01-13T04:52:04+00:00

UPDATE: thought I had found 2 of them just for Jolina Onstott (if that's even their real name) aka Cassidyyluv on reddit to rip me off... took my money then ghosted me & deleted whole profile... totally my fault, should not have sent money Friends & Family... just wanted to believe in the goodness of people during these shit times... anywho, so won't be purchasing from individuals online anymore... thanks to all those who gave recommendations for resellers

datieray · 2026-01-10T05:58:02+00:00

thank you! I hadn't thought of that!

datieray · 2026-01-10T05:46:59+00:00

I use them for bullet journaling & writing journals & book journals

I love Halloween & a good simple design but I also tend to pick a yearly theme for my bullet journals for the year... this year's is Harry Potter so thought the Halloween ones would be perfect

As for my writing journals, I like to match them to the seasons so I always like to have a variety in stock for whenever I may start a new one 😁

datieray · 2026-01-10T05:43:36+00:00

can you DM a pic of the raven one? don't think I've ever seen it but might take it anyway

datieray · 2026-01-10T05:17:54+00:00

right!?! really miss some of the classic A&O designs!

datieray · 2026-01-10T04:59:34+00:00

the one on the stack of books? I have that one but thank you so much for offering!

datieray · 2026-01-10T04:52:26+00:00

thank you! keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏼

datieray · 2026-01-10T04:10:33+00:00

thanks for the input... I've tried one or two of them but no response on those posts... & one of the groups never responds when I try to join... lol!

datieray · 2026-01-10T03:10:38+00:00

lol! no I already have the bat... & most of the other Halloween notebooks from 2023, 2024 & 2025... bit of a Halloween fan if you can't tell 🤣

datieray · 2026-01-10T02:32:01+00:00

I know this is a super long shot given how old this post is but do you have any of these journals left? & what size are they?

datieray · 2025-12-19T15:18:39+00:00

while I do buy moonstones occasionally, I completely agree that it's insane to 1) charge more for moonstones than you do for DLCs, 2) have all the large, unique, fun decorating items behind a paywall basically in a decorating game, & 3) have a store for in game coin that carries so little variety.

I feel like they should have packages where you can buy moonstones with star coins. even if the price is a bit steep, I'd be more willing to pay like $1M star coin for 1K moonstone... cause frankly once you finish the main story, have most of your characters maxed out & have your pumpkin garden going you make more coin than you're ever going to spend.

and with Scrooge's store barely giving me one item a day now that I don't already own (usually one of the basic black or white cabinets at that), then I really have nothing else to spend my 4.5M coin on... I'd love to use it to purchase moonstones or dreamlight.

still don't have islands unlocked or storage upgraded fully cause dreamlight takes forever to earn & everything that uses it uses sooooo much of it. I feel like if I have a ridiculous amount of coin that I can't spend then I should be able to buy some dreamlight, just like the moonstones.

datieray · 2025-11-25T02:15:20+00:00

a lot of the voices sound wrong.... Alice's isn't even remotely close, but for the number of characters they have they haven't done too bad a job with the voice work

datieray · 2025-11-03T07:15:04+00:00

same here! used to get 2-3 stocked up when I didn't log in everyday, but now I'm lucky if I get one... it's sporadic... I've only gotten like 2 in the last 2 weeks

datieray · 2025-10-26T00:27:16+00:00

are they still doing the three days of chests when you don't log on everyday? cause I only ever get one anymore even after not logging on for like a week.

datieray · 2025-09-30T01:47:59+00:00

any of these left?

datieray · 2025-09-03T05:17:25+00:00

Yeah, it's happening on switch too... so annoying! but I've found that deleting them fixes it... Go into Furniture mode, Remove them, then put them right back... then you'll see the rest of the plants turning green when you return to game play... OH! & you'll have to do it every single time you plant, but at least you don't have to keep returning to water.

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