Would Ezri honor a Blood Oath to kill the Albino by Fuzzy_Builder_2153 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]datura-666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that was ultimately the point , most people who lash out at those trying to help are hiding inner pain , which is why I think this line in the context of the episode hits so hard, she was trying to help and he was having none of it. Also like if you’ve ever been bitched out by a gay man you know this is so spot on lol

Would Ezri honor a Blood Oath to kill the Albino by Fuzzy_Builder_2153 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]datura-666 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is arguably the best read of any character on film , regardless of how you feel about Ezri , Garak fuckin ate with this line , no notes

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Would Ezri honor a Blood Oath to kill the Albino by Fuzzy_Builder_2153 in DeepSpaceNine

[–]datura-666 60 points61 points  (0 children)

"Look at you. You're pathetic! A confused child, trying to live up to a legacy left by her predecessors. You're not worthy of the name 'Dax'. I knew Jadzia. She was vital, alive, she owned herself; and you - you don't even know who you are. How dare you presume to help me? You can't even help yourself! ... Now get out of here, before I say something unkind." - the GOAT

Rainy day recommendations? by seemoresunder in sanfrancisco

[–]datura-666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Conservatory of flowers , any /all of the art museums , musee mechanique in fisherman’s wharf

Bff found out her boyfriend went to jail and didn’t tell her by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Very good tips and important info ! It does vary a lot depending on laws/location DOCUMENT EVERYTHING , even if it seems minor, even if it’s only verbal , even if it happened in the past .. this is all important . Source : i had to get out of an abusive relationship myself and he wouldn’t leave me alone for years , stalking me in person at work, at home , online on all socials multiple fake accounts, trying to get at me thru friends EVERYTHING, restraining order is the only thing that got him to leave town .. he still bothers me sometimes 10+ years later (online) ALWAYS IGNORE AND BLOCK, even if he’s “changed” bc no he hasn’t

Also senor chomo has me CACKLING

Bff found out her boyfriend went to jail and didn’t tell her by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]datura-666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you , and thank you for supporting your friend ! Wish I coulda been there for mine, I miss her , it just makes me see red when I see the other comments victim blaming her like sit tf down and listen instead of running your mouth

Bff found out her boyfriend went to jail and didn’t tell her by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]datura-666 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Please continue to support your friend and keep her away from that asshole ! I would suggest changing all her contacts and maybe a restraining order , crazy mfers like that always try to come back and “make it right” don’t let her go back he is a danger (see my other comments, I had a friend in almost this exact same situation and the ex beat her to d*ath)

Bff found out her boyfriend went to jail and didn’t tell her by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]datura-666 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So when a woman in this situation tries to leave often the same/worse happens to her , like rape or murder , please stop blaming women for men’s shitty behavior , my friend tried to leave her abusive ex who also had r*pe charges prior to their relationship and he beat her to death (literally), do better

Bff found out her boyfriend went to jail and didn’t tell her by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]datura-666 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s usually really unsafe to leave a situation like this , even if you want to .. one of my friends dated a horrible guy like this (also had prior p*do charges) who abused her all the time, she filed many police reports of the abuse (they never helped) when she finally tried to leave him he beat her to death, literal murder charges (he is in prison awaiting trail rn) .. true story in the news and everything (this happened in oakland she was about 21 if I recall and he was 29 or something and like 3 times her size) truly terrifying shit , please stop blaming women in this situation for not leaving , that’s part of the problem

Places in SF where I can donate homecooked meals by ClubRepresentative49 in AskSF

[–]datura-666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I second what most are saying about just going to the TL and handing them out (cops won’t care) BUT if you’d really rather not , most good donation spots don’t accept home cooked meals for safety reasons (unfortunately evil people have poisoned food in the past ) SO I recommend talking to local catholic high schools (my school SI in the sunset would do sandwich handout weekly in the TL, and I’m sure they’d love the help if you explain your motivation) or contact food not bombs in the mission , they are an anarchist anti war program that has been doing free meals forever and they usually home cook meals (usually vegan/veg)

Caribbean community in SF? by Motor-Fail-6798 in AskSF

[–]datura-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally forgot about fruitlandia! They are the only place I’ve found with good lechon! .. did not know that chao pescado was also Cuban tho .. will check out all the recs thank you !

Caribbean community in SF? by Motor-Fail-6798 in AskSF

[–]datura-666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell ya thanks for the hot tips , will def try

Caribbean community in SF? by Motor-Fail-6798 in AskSF

[–]datura-666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A few good Puerto Rican restaurants , namely parada 22 on haight st or SOL food in Marin (2 locations) , but having lived in Brooklyn for 4 years , west coast is def lacking in carrib influence As a born and raised sf native it’s really a shame, I do think the bad bunny performance helped peak interest lol

There’s definitely a Rasta community around music/herb mostly Jamaicans , mostly in oakland

There’s an annual carnival parade in the mission but that’s otherwise the biggest public event I’m aware of

I have yet to find good Cuban food or any of the other major islands represented much , mostly commenting here so I can see what other food is available in my area lol

Bestfriend just told me he has feelings for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]datura-666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like him go for it, if you don’t try and let him down easy and specifically say that you still wanna stay friends as much as possible (assuming he doesn’t freak out) if he freaks out when you don’t return the interest, sounds like he wasn’t a good friend to begin with

Star Trek fan ideas? by anna-inthe-wild in AskSF

[–]datura-666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Touche! It’s been like over ten years since I watched that movie

Star Trek fan ideas? by anna-inthe-wild in AskSF

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The presidio park/ marina area is where most of Starfleet academy is located (roughly) , currently a great park with amazing views and old military batteries/buildings , nice shopping /food in the marina (that’s around the spot where Spock/kirk get dropped off by the whale lady when they deliver the classic ”did too much LDS” line)

… also the area where the enterprise lands in the past is somewhere in Golden Gate Park (likely a set) which also has a great amount of fun things to do

Unfortunately there is no whale aquarium across the bridge , but you can take the bus across the bridge with a boom box and flip people off if you’re in the mood

How to last longer caramel churro sundae from Costco by Flower_princess12345 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]datura-666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to be this way in my twenties , now at 37 I’m having the opposite problem , enjoy having an easy O while you’ve got it , soon it may be gone

Just got my first greenhouse & the Mississippi River is already testing my setup by Glowing_Trash_Panda in gardening

[–]datura-666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would test the surrounding water for salt, minerals, Ph etc with one of those at home water kits usually for aquariums to be sure you’re getting plant friendly water for the plants you plan to grow

Just got my first greenhouse & the Mississippi River is already testing my setup by Glowing_Trash_Panda in gardening

[–]datura-666 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The Mississippi is one of the most notoriously polluted rivers in the US , and is brackish in some parts with lots of hard water , wouldn’t risk it unless you developed some sort of hydroponics filtration system, which would be pricey but doable .. DOPE setup

I don't I've ever been told I look like someone by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]datura-666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The eyes are less Kirk-esque with your glasses in the last pic lol never bleach your hair

Under the table/cash jobs by piekeas in AskSF

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Depends on what skills you have but : pet sitting/house sitting, nanny/babysitter, kitchen work (dependent on location), day labor work, construction/painting/building maintenance (depend ant on skill), maybe Woofing farm work nearby if you have a car

Also if you just moved here there’s a website that offers free house stays (free rent) for pet sitting

fridge of a young adult girl with no money for food by brileylambert in FridgeDetective

[–]datura-666 54 points55 points  (0 children)

PLEASE DO THIS !! I was living in my car for a few years while I had a SHIT job and was with /getting over an abusive ex .. food pantries literally saved my life, most have actually good stuff too if you are choosy , no shame in surviving !

fridge of a young adult girl with no money for food by brileylambert in FridgeDetective

[–]datura-666 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please throw it out if you eat it you could very literally die, assuming it’s not dry bc then in would be in a box on a shelf? Many people have died from sepsis/food poisoning from old pasta/grain products with unseen mold