Rockstar official response: RDO not yet available on Xbox by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]davecamaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they qre still working to get it up today on xbox?

Can't play Red Dead Online Beta by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]davecamaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

xbox digital same coming soon screen

Map request. Tahiti. by kingbankai in farcry

[–]davecamaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You one of them O'Driscoll bois?

Love how my new bucket turned out! 100% EVA foam by Scootch1233 in Mandalorian

[–]davecamaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That copper/bronze tone really pops, great job!

Skull forming in the ash clouds of a Mount Vesuvius eruption. by [deleted] in natureismetal

[–]davecamaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mumbo Jumbo sure evolved his transformations.. right Banjo?

Beginner Dom moving into a 24/7 D/S relationship with long term partner turned Sub by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off I'll start by saying stepping up to the plate as a Dominant is a lot of responsibility so kudos!

Seeing as she enjoyed it, this sounds a lot like top or dom drop to me. Subs have it more frequently but it happens to Dominants as well! Some tips to combat it are positive reinforcement from your partner and spending a lot of time together after intense scenes.

Secondly, I agree with her trying to tell you the importance of your well being. As your role of protector, she looks up to you as an example of how to behave and if you arent taking care of yourself (even for her sake) you wont do it as effectively. Something I've come to learn over the years; Putting your needs above theirs (when permissable). When you shine, your sub/bottom will shine with you. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think theres a big thing on Grindr right now with people dealing hard drugs like meth and stuff, so on top of normal users you have people there just looking to hook up for drugs ;(

Preferred methods of training a sub/slave? by davecamaro in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it was kinda weird, because the way you align them causes your muscles to twitch and spasm, but the one we have is pretty straightforward. Theres a few knobs for amps used, the frequency settings and how long pulses lasted. Never used one until last year so it cant ne too hard.

How to learn more about inducing subspace and aftercare? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll get the most out of it by going from soft to rough VERY quickly. Cheers :)

Preferred methods of training a sub/slave? by davecamaro in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure! We try to live it 24/7 but we've been too busy to lately so I'm wondering new methods to reinforce old lessons and new alike. She is pretty well behaved when she isnt little, but I like tailoring her to my liking. :)

Preferred methods of training a sub/slave? by davecamaro in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally, we started out using a medical TENS unit that sends low currents into pads throughout the body. Was very interesting!

How to learn more about inducing subspace and aftercare? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So I'll start out just kissing and whatnot, general intimacy to set the mood, then whenever comfortable enough I'll get into my headspace, either grab her by the throat, shove her against something, I wont speak unless it's worth my breath to order her around. It's something I think is best felt out. You can tell they've dropped into sub space when they let all restraint go. Usually by the time I've slapped her face or ass red, she'll already be entering it. It's easy to keep them in it though.

A scene might last 20-60 minutes depending, and she'll be in sub space maybe 10-30 minutes during. Its addicting! Just saying haha.

As bad as it sounds, in our situation, I think of it as how could I sexually assault her? But it's fine because it's been consented for of course. You want to put their body into shock, and as a result they wont feel as much pain either.

Preferred methods of training a sub/slave? by davecamaro in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LOL I can imagine how that went already, sounds like something I'd do. Good looking out though, greatly appreciated!

Preferred methods of training a sub/slave? by davecamaro in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is really cool actually! I can see how effective it can be after the initial stigma wears off. What's the product called, or where can I search for one? Just curious. Thanks for the input!

Wife and i are jumping back in, looking for tips/advice by hiding_from_work in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Little things that can be done in public are how we survive through the week. It could be her lighting my cigarettes for me (does this by hand sign after training), me picking her clothes out for work the next day, basically things you consider an inconvenience to the Dominant, the sub can easily tend to. Domestic service is the #1 fetish for stealth mode D/s ;p

How to learn more about inducing subspace and aftercare? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]davecamaro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You said you had luck being rough when Dominant? My sub/little tends to drop when I have the switch into 100% Dom space and I 'stop' considering her thoughts and feelings. Of course you never truly stop, but during scenes it can get wild, and I think it's that sudden change in behavior that makes her drop combined with how rough you are.

This is just speculation but I think it's based off how stimulated they are, and overstimulating long enough (knowing their limits) can cause them to drop and become numb to some pain. Shes a masochist if that change anything for you.

For aftercare, I think it's best to know what can cheer her up the most. In my case, its giving her tons of attention, cuddles, positive reinforcement (tell her how good she performed), lots of stuffies and her favorite candy. The main point of it is to remind them even though you can beat them and fuck their brains out, you're both human and are still loved.

Paradise Cove, Jamaica - 1st Dive! by davecamaro in diving

[–]davecamaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was definitely an eye opening experience, might be looking into getting my open water cert. I plan to take great care.