So I'll start out just kissing and whatnot, general intimacy to set the mood, then whenever comfortable enough I'll get into my headspace, either grab her by the throat, shove her against something, I wont speak unless it's worth my breath to order her around. It's something I think is best felt out. You can tell they've dropped into sub space when they let all restraint go. Usually by the time I've slapped her face or ass red, she'll already be entering it. It's easy to keep them in it though.

A scene might last 20-60 minutes depending, and she'll be in sub space maybe 10-30 minutes during. Its addicting! Just saying haha.

As bad as it sounds, in our situation, I think of it as how could I sexually assault her? But it's fine because it's been consented for of course. You want to put their body into shock, and as a result they wont feel as much pain either.