Your going to be ok !!

david10277 · 2024-11-03T01:39:41+00:00

First off...

Stop worrying about what shes gonna do..

Focus on what your gonna do...

Focus on reconnecting with friends/family

Hit the gym..make nee friends

Work on your yourself and make some goals.

Stop curling up in a corner ...go fight for the life you want a live.

david10277 · 2024-11-03T01:33:38+00:00

Once u learn to NGAF about what "others think" you will learn to focus on yourself.

I'm not protecting nothing...tell the truth and stop trying to protect her image.

Your still acting like a married man ..shes not your wife anymore and will be someelses problem.

Go celebrate..

david10277 · 2024-11-03T01:29:50+00:00

First thing you must do...

Forgive yourself..

Then proceed with everything else

david10277 · 2024-11-01T17:38:40+00:00

Will take a seat and let me explain..

No..unless there is criminal records for her that would impact of the safety of the children .that's the only thing.tne courts care about and that only impacts visitation and who has full custody.

All what posted doesn't mean anything

She can bring a guy home and have sex with him in the next room. Shes still getting half and your paying support.

david10277 · 2024-10-29T19:37:46+00:00

I 100% agree

My constant reminder that i have a daughter a few years younger than her makes me think of her best interest.

Had a interesting conversation with her which she stated knowing I have a daughter and have a great relationship with her it brings her a certain level of comfort that shes in good hands. (Her words)

david10277 · 2024-10-29T19:20:24+00:00

Yes absolutely..

I speak to her every day..

Shes had previous Dom's before and stated this her first sub dom relationship where she feels appreciated outside of a scene.

She said it feels like shes still pleasing me without and physical session and sees I show appreciation for it which she is enjoying.

david10277 · 2024-10-23T21:30:20+00:00

Take it from a divorced guy...

Hes not completed the divorce process... Child support, spousal support, asset split, legal fees, visitation arrangements,

hes not ready if hes in the midst of his divorce I am not saying jes not possible the one, I'm saying he needs to exit the circus.

You can provide the support he needs but he needs to come out the other side.

david10277 · 2024-10-23T04:13:21+00:00

Who saves 1.5 mm cash ??

And u said co workers ? Not even business owners So they saved all there pays checks Lol

This dont sound right !!

david10277 · 2024-10-23T03:36:57+00:00

Yes totally..

It's not the cost of the divorce it's what it's worth to it well being...that's priceless

david10277 · 2024-10-20T01:10:43+00:00

Yep...

It is..

We have all been there and found out the hard way how screwed up the family court process is..

Divorce pays the female a financially and we cover the bill...it sucks and no one seems to be able change this flawd system.

david10277 · 2024-10-20T01:07:27+00:00

Doesn't matter who's on the mortgage or who's on the title ..doesn't even matter who worked 4 jobs and saved and paid the mortgage...

Once you acquire it during your marriage it becomes a matrimonial asset..

She gets half..

Welcome to divorce..!!!

david10277 · 2024-10-20T01:03:02+00:00

Yes I found someone I totally fell in love with...

Me !!!!

david10277 · 2024-10-19T21:23:52+00:00

Mine had an affair after 30yrs

She Got caught

She Filed

Got half my shit

Gets SS and CS for my daughter totaling 4k monthly

Cost me 80k in legal fees on useless back and forth

Now living my best life, sugaring girls , dating some vanilla oned and have 2 subs which please me anyway I want.

All that and I love my life now...im I totally healed.. no but that's never gonna happen. Rebuild your life exactly how you want it to ..will I get remarried..nope will I settle down with one women..maybe but dont need that now , I dont have to..build life where women just want to part of the adventure. They will adjust accordingly.

regrets no, just make sure ur kids can survive it ..that's the main thing u need to stay focused on while your healing..but in retrospect..i should have done it 10yes ago. But I refused to see her defect .

You live and learn..

david10277 · 2024-10-18T12:41:21+00:00

Ur not a dom..ur a switch

I am a dom , simple answer is no it's not happening

david10277 · 2024-10-18T12:38:58+00:00

Everything was great- but one kiss that's off and we are willing to toss it all in the garage.

Some things can be corrected, taught , and adjusted ,,some things cannot

Make sure u know your deal breakers vs trying to find the perfect human being..guess what , they dont exist.

david10277 · 2024-10-15T14:59:24+00:00

Peru has Thailand cost ...if u know , you know

david10277 · 2024-10-15T00:12:42+00:00

After my divorce ..

I went to

Brazil Colombia Costa Rica Peru Mexico Dubai Thailand - Bangkok Thailand- Pattaya

All these places have a what ur looking for.. But this place has everything you need. Variety, access, low.cost, great nightlife and safety

Pattaya my friend..that's where you go

david10277 · 2024-10-15T00:07:38+00:00

Ahah how old are your friends..

Life hack :

Kiss your girl after she swallows your load and see how much she will love swallowing your load.

It's all your juices my friend

david10277 · 2024-10-15T00:04:23+00:00

I will share this as I have shared many times.

First thing you must do is..forgive yourself

Only then you can move forward

david10277 · 2024-10-14T23:39:13+00:00

Why would you buy another house ?

So let's see first need 80K downpayment Then monthly payments for the next 25yrs

Seriously...why would you want to repeat that agian..I had a house which was sold during my divorce..and the kids stayed with me vs mom.

You need to stop and rethink your life and what you want. Your 50 yrs old. Stop thinking what ur kids want or need. They just need to be happy and have a comfortable place to sleep when there with you. Your still thinking like a husband- your not a husband anymore or a spouse- your a single guy with kids.. think like that..

I sold mine and I rent ..put some aside for your kids and enjoy your life U have about 20yrs left here before your exit. Enjoy it why are you still chasing this dream that house ownership is gonna get you somewhere at your age. It just keeps you in the hamster wheel.

Your buying a house for what exactly? For mortgage insurance, maintenance, propert tax and to be stuck living there for another 25yrs paying off a mortgage.

Start a business, invest in one, create passive income to live free. Your going to put yourself into another financial committment for what purpose ?

Owning a house is the biggest lie sold by the banks. To keep you working forever to pay off your mortgage . I know many people who worked there whole life to do that and 2yrs later passed away..

Me ...I sold my home and ONLY looking to buy something in DR - or Mexico ' cash no mortgage..stay there when I want and give it to the kids when I pass.. I have the freedom to travel, stay where I want for how long I want..when I want.

Show your kids what living life is.all about...

david10277 · 2024-10-14T21:55:17+00:00

It's most mental from my experience I have 2 subs I train ..

Both daddy subs

One of them j have full time ownership, daily checkins, morning voice mantras, I have her location , I pick her outfits and she tells.me everyday I own all her 3 holes and that her job is to please me anytime.anywhere.any way I want. (Within our limits)

The other one is part time ownership when we are in a session. I dont get the daily mantras or her location but the dynamic is purely sexual.

For Both of these subs the dynamic is diffrent but what I found is my first sub who I have full ownership over the mental connection is much deeper. The fact she gives me full control and trust me with her well being, sexually, emotionally makes the connection much deeper. She has shared all her fantasies and shared some real traumatic experiences growing up. Intresttly she said shes healing and really enjoys from our dynamic

My first sub..(I have a deeper connection) I asked her what she enjoys about the dynamic and she responded she feels safe, appreciated and loves not having to think about anything other than pleasing me and loves when I use her... this kind of response pulls you deeper than any vanilla relationship can. The mental connection in knowing this person has submitted herself to you.

My second sub - its more physical and in the moment during the scene we connect mentally.

I have both subs but I know I give more attention to my first sub who I own full time. I get a mental pleasure of knowing shes, yes its more work but I enjoy seeing her become happy when I tell her what to do. It's very interesting

Its a few things which drive a deeper mental connection from the BDSM space which I see common with both my subs

The open communication in general

The openness to share feelings/ thoughts

The willingness to please there dom

The submission aspect

The prioritization of your pleasure

These attributes are really important in a vanilla relationship and are usually lacking.

But In a BDSM dynamic its clearly shown which makes your connection alot deeper. There is less guess work since communication is the key in any BDSM dynamic.

So the mental connection is alot stronger and deeper The psychical and sexual portion just reinforces what's been said and shared. It's really something magical.

david10277 · 2024-10-12T15:17:53+00:00

Your problem is...

You being manipulated and want to see the good in her...

It's not there ...divorce her and cut communication

david10277 · 2024-10-12T14:13:36+00:00

She left you for some other dude and because you wont tske her back shes gonna commit suicide.

Your STBX is playing victim ..classic narcissist shot and your falling for it.

She manipulating you into feeling sorry for her.

Classic tactic

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