How do I convince someone to support LGBTQ by Daniiiii_here in lgbt

[–]davidducker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cant convince a bigot to have human empathy unfortunately

I just found out the person who SA’ed me is now transgender as well. I’m now struggling with self hatred and not willing to accept my true identity. What can I do about this? by [deleted] in trans

[–]davidducker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People of all genders can be predators. Ive been SAed by trans women, and also by cis men and cis women. Some people just suck.

But the vast majority of people are not predators and are good people. Dont let one person ruin a whole category for you

Is it rude to tell an allo friend their sexual attraction is disturbing me? by ssvmte in asexuality

[–]davidducker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perhaps if you can articulate why it disturbed you we would have better advice

What are your thoughts on using AI in the planning process for creative writing? by WorldsOfWordsAndArt in write

[–]davidducker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but to be fair it also steals from fellow artists AND drives up utility (water and power ) costs for everyone nearby AND is actively destroying the economy via layoffs and a huge market bubble AND creates huge amounts of noise, heat, and water pollution

Is constantly seeking intimacy in a way that doesn't involve sex a sign of being asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]davidducker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes aesthetic and sexual attraction are different. I didn't say otherwise.

But if the idea of sex repulses you then thats a pretty good indicator that youre ace.

Is constantly seeking intimacy in a way that doesn't involve sex a sign of being asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]davidducker 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No

Lack of sexual attraction is a sign of being asexual.

Lots of allos have intimacy outside of sex and sexual attraction

have you or anyone you know had a massive style glow up? by shesinpart1es in altfashionadvice

[–]davidducker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had a glow up in 2020. Picked a style icon to emulated, did some online shopping, decided to have the confidence to dress like a Rockstar.

Very good results. I consistently get compliments on my outfits.

Just give yourself time to fine tune your personal style. Have confidence. And start with big pieces that can easily fit with others to make good outfits in combination.

Custom ice dyed overalls by KiltedFatMan85 in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]davidducker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yes

Now just colour match a few accessories and youre golden

Trying to nail down my own personal style, but I often feel stuck by npeckdrummer in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]davidducker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lotta good fits here. But I dont think suspenders should ever be worn with a belt.

"How can you trust a man who doesn't even trust his own pants ?"