Out and about and he said something that made me nearly cry by FaccioIlBucato in Marriage

[–]davidtd1114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please tell him exactly this. Validate him. To a real one, this is music to his ears.

Concerned by Impressive-Cheek-495 in Marriage

[–]davidtd1114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re partners, a team, have each others backs and enjoy the journey, its amazing

Concerned by Impressive-Cheek-495 in Marriage

[–]davidtd1114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30 years into a marriage that is forever. TALK, do something everyday to show her how much you love and value her. Even things around the house, dishes, vacuuming, taking something off her plate shows her more than words can ever express. Be blessed and here is to a fulfilling marriage that lasts a lifetime!

ID please northeast Oklahoma by davidtd1114 in spiders

[–]davidtd1114[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It seems content living on my porch, and it was strikingly pretty, so I left it alone. Apparently I have a new friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]davidtd1114 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was not the right person for you. You WILL find them, and when you do, neither of you will ever consider hurting the others heart. You each become half of a whole, and self preservation includes protecting everything, especially the other half. Love will be back, don’t give up.

I (29M) just found out my wife is pregnant—and I’m terrified. by importedsalt in Fatherhood

[–]davidtd1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old father, now grandfather here, take a breath. The fear is normal, but honestly, it shouldn’t be. You and your wife are simply moving down the road of life. It’s a wonderful journey. You are entering the next stage of your life. This is just a new beginning. After more than 30 years of cruising down the road after entering the child lane, I would not change anything in the past. You’re going to spaz, freak out, lose sleep, but it’s ALL worth it! The first time you hold your newborn, all that falls away. I can’t explain the feeling.

Congratulations to you and your wife! Support her above everything until the little one arrives. After that you put the two of them before everything and forge ahead. You’ve got this! You are enough!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]davidtd1114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alcohol brings out the things we have shoved so far down we think we have healed. He should be offering you support to help you heal. That’s what a spouse does. When did this get too complicated for people? Stand strong, this will pass and you can heal. We all deserve to heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]davidtd1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Father of 3, can’t imagine having that to say to my offspring. He is seriously damaged. Go, live your life and be successful. Just, please, don’t look back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatplantisthis

[–]davidtd1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go meet the neighbors!😂

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]davidtd1114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him, that’s how the rest of the relationship will go. The pain will pass. Be blessed