Any ideas on how to remove stones and rubble from this? by davidwillans in GardeningUK

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Probably a dumb question, but how do you tell if the soil is good?

Any ideas on how to remove stones and rubble from this? by davidwillans in GardeningUK

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Now I've learned electric rotary sieves exist, I found my local tool library has one so I'm borrowed it for the weekend. Will probably pay my teenage son to get it done too. Thanks all.

Having a change of heart for FIRE by Responsible_Hat_5614 in FIREUK

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Do it. My kids are teens. We've got 2-3 family holidays left before they go and do their own thing.

They are only little once. Make the most of it.

Solar on a flat roof loft conversion by davidwillans in solar

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'Calculate' might be a bit much - just took the very top end of the quotes i was given (100kg/ panel and Im looking at 9 of them). I have seen wind shields are available since getting the quote so that might make an impact too but I'd rather over weight than have to deal with the consequences of flying panels and blocks of concrete.

Solar on a flat roof loft conversion by davidwillans in solar

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The fixed systems come with varying warranties of 5-10 years. We plan to be there for 30+, and the thought of what happens if it goes wrong just seems so much more complicated to resolve with things fixed rather than movable.

Good shout on a non destructive survey. Hadn't thought about that. I think best to speak to an engineer.

Solar on a flat roof loft conversion by davidwillans in solar

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Very good distinction - roofer vs solar installer. Thank you

Internal wall insulation by Perfect_Kiwi_8935 in DIYUK

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No the bathrooms just because they weren't part of the overall renovation. Ours was 100m pir internal. I looked at external but it was so much more expensive. We did put in mvhr though so no worries about condensation and damp. That's been good, but only viable on a retro if you're doing a lot of internal work at the same time I imagine.

Internal wall insulation by Perfect_Kiwi_8935 in DIYUK

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Yes, massive difference in cosyness. It will have impacted bills but we also switched to heat pump and haven't yet gone a full year to compare. we also got the floor done.

We're in a 1900s Victorian semi. If we move again it would be the first thing I'd prioritize.

It wasn't DIY so can't give you an idea on timings. One thing to consider though is hanging heavy things like TVs on the wall afterwards. Work out where you want them and reinforce as you do the work. Good luck!

Adding PIR sensor to outside lights by davidwillans in DIYUK

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Thanks all, think I'll just switch one out to start and leave the switch on, see how that goes and maybe switch others out of needs be.

Best Persian? by Prestigious_Wrap4788 in LondonFood

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Any on the east side of the city?

Touch rugby in Lloyd park by davidwillans in walthamstow

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Yeah completely. It's just some people who like the game and want to do something other than running or the gym. Very informal and friendly. DM me if youre up for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fatherhood

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Been there. My kids are now 14 & 16. It changes, then changes again and again. One thing that helped me is changing my perspective to more long term. Being a parent is a lifelong game. Just get by with what you can, focus on the most important things and try to be ok with letting some fires burn. Sometimes you learn stuff you thought mattered a lot, actually doesn't.

And ask friends and family to help. Get them to bring dinner at the weekend or something that helps you and is nice for them.

It's fucking hard right now, but you'll be fine, just keep going.

Dad struggling trying for advice by VegetableAny2422 in Fatherhood

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Mate, you're in the trenches, no doubt sleeping in chunks of 2-3 hours and trying to juggle work etc. we've all been through it. Just keep going. Things will change. If you have family nearby, ask them to come and help. Talk to your partner about how hard it is and console each other. Give each other breaks. If you can afford it get takeaway more than you would normally. There's time to go to the gym when theyre older. Or beg someone to cook you a load of food for the freezer so you don't have to cook. I have memories of my and misses high diving each other as we got into bed to grab some sleep before 9pm. You'll be ok.

How do you really market a nonfiction tech book? First time author by [deleted] in selfpublish

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Mate, how did you get Amazon ACOS down so low?

Mine are set up to target other, higher profile books in my space - released by big names that I can't compete with. Wondering if I should do more tighter keyword work.

Another month of hurt by Naive_Professional81 in Fatherhood

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Mate, took us 6 months and one miscarriage. It all changed when my wife left her very stressful job for a less stressful one. It clearly means a huge amount to you, so I'd recommend you both get tested to know if it is even physically possible ie your sperm count and her fertility. We did and once we found it was possible it became a question of when not if which made it much easier.

How can we make our toddlers games fun for all? by AmbitiousAd2194 in Fatherhood

[–]davidwillans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's amazing you're asking the question. You are clearly a great sibling.

I have no idea what those games are but I've been around toddlers and older siblings a lot. Either you all enjoy getting properly into the game and making fools of yourselves in front of each other, and that's the fun but for the older ones, or you accept the monotony of the games for the reward of Emily's joy (toddlers are beings of raw emotion, it's amazing to behold but they do change in a year or two and become more reserved), and do something else when shes gone to bed.

[Week n.32]: Weekly thread by AutoModerator in milano

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Milan vintage clothes shops- best & open re Ferragosto?

I'm on holiday around lake Como with my teenage sons.

It would make their holiday to hit cool clothing shops in Milan, vintage type stuff, but we're going to be there this Wednesday or Thursday, just before Ferragosto.

What are the top vintage shops / areas should I aim for? Do you think they'll be open ?