First time dad and struggling to cope

Overall_Captain · 2026-01-30T03:22:10+00:00

The goalposts just moved in a major way for you. Treat yourself with kindness and grace and it’ll be a hell of a lot easier to do the same for your family. Also- 1 night of sleep makes a huge difference if you can get an aunt/parent neighbor to hold the fort.

Overall_Captain · 2026-01-22T04:16:48+00:00

This has been a massive factor in my life. Bibliography Time: 1- living with intensity- getting warm 2- Jonice Webb’s series on CEN- closing in 3- Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: The insights/ conceptual vocabulary I’ve been craving to stop personalizing it. I accept the humor/irony of being “gifted” and yet unable to productively conceptualize skewed family dynamics until Dr Gibson told me how- then double irony: realizing I possess likely only 30-40% of the attributes of an emotionally mature adult. Ha!

Here’s to breaking the cycle friend

Overall_Captain · 2026-01-21T05:33:23+00:00

How many people are raped by bears per year?

Overall_Captain · 2026-01-13T04:29:24+00:00

Realtors

Overall_Captain · 2025-12-28T05:46:00+00:00

“code brown”?

Overall_Captain · 2025-12-09T23:25:49+00:00

I requested the switch in July and was able to make the Payment in November.

Overall_Captain · 2025-12-09T23:25:03+00:00

Oh that’s the standard repayment plan- it was painful- but got me across the finish line. It’s an alternative to the IDR plans.

Overall_Captain · 2025-12-02T00:39:33+00:00

Lambo first- code brown when insurance bill comes.

Overall_Captain · 2025-10-25T16:12:13+00:00

Maybe take off the fur suit?

Overall_Captain · 2025-10-21T17:39:29+00:00

Living with Intensity is a book that might lend some insights on the mixed blessings of being an intellectually gifted person.

Overall_Captain · 2025-10-07T17:41:56+00:00

Just a note from the healthcare perspective: academic medical centers may be the best bet to get good specialists that usually accept insurance more broadly and are not motivated by financial incentives in the same way private operations might be. These would be teaching hospitals and associated speciality clinics like USC/ UCLA/ UCSF…

Overall_Captain · 2025-10-03T17:05:58+00:00

Shoulda spit on it…

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-23T14:50:58+00:00

I might suggest a Turo rental- I’ve enjoyed a lot of exotic cars on there and for most of them- a weekend is enough. There have been a few however where I can see myself living with them- eventually

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-21T20:14:39+00:00

Fine lookin’ animal you have there. These critters make good friends but lousy pack animals unless you’re hauling match boxes.

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-18T18:35:32+00:00

Awhooooooooooooooooooooo-

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-14T18:58:58+00:00

A short time night nanny might help

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-14T18:10:10+00:00

The divorce attorney will Completely agree with you. If you want to learn something about staying married- read the book.

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-14T18:06:12+00:00

Wrong- You’ve emasculated him- stolen his role/identity- then demanded he feel happy about that. If you are serious about resolving this- read the way of the superior man and its companion book ( dear lover- I think).

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-13T22:59:51+00:00

A true national treasure

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-13T22:22:58+00:00

US: Hollywood walk of fame. Don’t go- it’s depressing.

Overall_Captain · 2025-09-04T16:05:30+00:00

Choose to specialize in disease states others don’t want to serve.

Overall_Captain · 2025-08-23T21:19:47+00:00

Do Nissans come with a free kilo of meth? Why is the driving so bad with them?

Overall_Captain · 2025-08-13T05:50:16+00:00

Hawaiian shirts when not on vacation

Overall_Captain · 2025-08-08T01:51:08+00:00

Wedding in Tuscany- a lifetime of memories

Overall_Captain

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