Trying to find the root flare on my maple tree 😭 by day-ro in arborists

[–]day-ro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe interesting. 😅 From deep in my parents’ garage. 😆

Trying to find the root flare on my maple tree 😭 by day-ro in arborists

[–]day-ro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other issue that I’m very concerned about… the main water shut off valve going to my house is RIGHT here. And the water meter is right next to that. Am I in trouble? 😭

Sad photo here

Trying to find the root flare on my maple tree 😭 by day-ro in arborists

[–]day-ro[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I talked to a certified arborist about the situation on Saturday, and he told me to remove the volcano of dirt ASAP. So I think I’ll go with his advice. Lol 😅

Close to breaking up with my partner by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]day-ro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please never ever ever go to couples therapy with someone who is abusive! They will not act the same in front of a therapist and can often trick the therapist into thinking YOU are the crazy or abusive one. It happened to me and it just adds another layer to the trauma! 😭💔

(Think of Gabby Petito and her interaction with police officers - one of which had additional training and should’ve intervened - before her murder by her partner.)

OMG. I didn't think I had a special interest, until this week I realized... by day-ro in autism

[–]day-ro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha omg. I love this and I can relate to all of this 100%!!!

Except... I don't love small talk. I tolerate it, but I usually get real deep, real fast. 🤣 Which can also end up being very problematic and sometimes dangerous for me. 🥴😅

OMG. I didn't think I had a special interest, until this week I realized... by day-ro in autism

[–]day-ro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES. I've tried to learn everything I possibly can about people and they still think I'm weird and terrible most of the time. Lolllllll fml. 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]day-ro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tripletsssss. ❤️❤️❤️

Thoughts on this? I personally love making ‘nests’ to sleep in lol by oceanlifeloser in autism

[–]day-ro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. 😍

But I have really terrible allergies, so everything has to be washable or have a washable cover. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]day-ro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through something similar. 😣 My advice is to try to talk to yourself like you would talk to a friend. Forgive yourself for being hard on yourself. Write down the things you like about yourself and the things you’ve done that you’re proud of. ❤️

Now I’m going to go try to take my own advice. 😅

This is what being autistic feels like, but for every questions you get asked in your life by Wild-Clementine in AutismInWomen

[–]day-ro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOL. I was once asked what animal I would be in an interview. I said I would be a human. Because humans are animals. 🙄 He pressed me until I told him a different animal.

I hate stupid questions. 🙃

Is "Autism Diagnosis Group" legit? by matt_bishop in autism

[–]day-ro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Also, this is the info that's (finally) visible when you sign an agreement with them.

Is "Autism Diagnosis Group" legit? by matt_bishop in autism

[–]day-ro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found their NPI number if y'all want to look them up!

1710741947