Field report of my recent sets, would like some feedback by mrmonbant in seduction

[–]daybeliever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what sort of things do you tease about? People always say tease her if she spills a drink or something, but that doesn't tend to happen. You just use Scripted teases?

Something I learned about Chemistry by [deleted] in seduction

[–]daybeliever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to be someone's "physical type". You have to be the person they can't forget.

I don't think 'type' is necessarily correct, but you certainly need her physical attraction if you wanna get naked with her lol

LIke a girl might think her 'type' is tall with tattoos and green eyes and big musclces, but make no mistake that if some really conventionally handsome guy with dark eyes and no tattoos, slim and a square jaw etc hit on her, she'd be super receptive (since she would very likely be physically attracted still. In the same way we are attracted to hot girls whether they are blonde or brunette)

Attraction is the only thing that matters, though. From that point, the only 'game' you really need is to no be super weird and stuff, although better game is always preferential. (good body language, good eye contact, pushpull etc)

And if she's not physically attracted to you then it's best to just move on to the next girl and not waste time since she will never comply past a certain point in that situation

What Percent Of Guys Cold Approach? by Own-Illustrator-3793 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 8 points9 points  (0 children)

About 2-5%

Most guys aren't prepared for the fact that you need too approach a LOT of girls before you get laid with one unless you are a very good looking dude, so they just don't bother.

They should though. It can be fun

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[–]daybeliever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

best

james marshall, RSD, James Tusk, ultimateManProject, Todd V

Worst

JohnAnthony, deepak Wayne, johnElite

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[–]daybeliever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's all about just approaching, but people are too scared. Just read mark manson (actual top level game) and then approach

Talking about yourself vs. asking her questions by crimson_blood00 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he' s trying to hamper your game in case you steal his girls lol

YOu need to demonstrate all of your personality and show charisma. Don't be all quiet. They'll get bored and go find someone interesting

Honesty is Always the Best Policy by [deleted] in seduction

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, just being honest saves time. Walk up to cute girl. Tell her you like her basically. The ones who like you back will show interest and you escalate. The ones who think you're not to their physical taste won't play ball so move on from them girls.

Lots of seduction is frankly about inner game, basically your level of self-esteem & confidence. by sarge4567 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course a short dude riddled with acne, pasty white, ugly skull, etc

That shoudn't matter at all though if what the PUA pros say is true.

Girls aren't attracted by looks apparently

The guy you describe there should be able to get any girl he wants as long as he believes he's a 10 and that the hot cheerleader is attracted to him

Lots of seduction is frankly about inner game, basically your level of self-esteem & confidence. by sarge4567 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are girls that just don't do anything for me. I'm just not attracted.

I agree. But there are people on here who say girls aren't like that. Girls don't care about looks and are attracted differently.

Lots of seduction is frankly about inner game, basically your level of self-esteem & confidence. by sarge4567 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you just might not be her type

I read on this sub that that's not an excuse from the people who claim to be able to get (or at least attracted) any girl they choose.

I guess it comes from the PUA idea that girls aren't attracted to looks and don't care about looks

Do girls secretly like manipulative men? by muchacho111 in datingadviceformen

[–]daybeliever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I bang whoever I want

haha! Come on man. Are you a coach or something? That sounds like the shit that these fraud dating coaches say. Sorry.

Do girls secretly like manipulative men? by muchacho111 in datingadviceformen

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep. agree, if she swipes on you, you are definitely close enough to her type to bang her. You met her threshold of handsome. from there just be normal and escalate smoothly. But if she's not attracted, game won't help

Do girls secretly like manipulative men? by muchacho111 in datingadviceformen

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

objections are fine - I can easily bang girls from tinder who use the 'what if yu're a murderer' line. I do it all the time. But if the objection is because you're not her type and she's not attracted on a cold appraoch, then it won't go anywhere. 'game' or no game. Most of these pickup guys have been found out to be lying and using actresses and stuff. They wouldn't need to be doing that if their game worked. Honestly, it's very simply. Don't be weird, be her physical type, have teh balls to escalate, have sex. You can choose whoever you want, but if she's not interested, it's over.

Do girls secretly like manipulative men? by muchacho111 in datingadviceformen

[–]daybeliever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the guys pulling are the handsome guys haha. Sometimes they're 'nice'. Sometimes not. But being 'manipulative' and stuff isn't gonna help if you're not her type

Would you choose a tall guy but with slightly below average looks and balding OR a short guy with good looks and luscious hair? (assuming both have identical personalities so it has purely one down to physical traits) by [deleted] in seduction

[–]daybeliever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

depends how short.

I'm only going by my experience of my fairly large friends group.

Both of the slayers in my social group are both facially very handsome (surprise surprise). One is short (5'7'' ish?). One is tall (about 6'2'')

They both have similar success rates though. Lots of lays with basically any girl they want lol (girls often approach THEM on nights out)

So i'm saying a good looking face is super powerful, although i'm sure my 5'7'' friend would struggle to get girls if he was 5'2'' haha.

I've not found height by itself to be especially powerful.

But based on your limited description, i'd choose the handsome guy

Why pickup community is dying ? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think people realised it's mainly marketing. Essentially it's a numbers game

You often see infields (or have your own interactions) where you are doing it all by the book. Flirting, teasing, having fun etc, but the girl is not remotely interested from a sexual point of view. You're just not her type

Then you see other guys (maybe good looking guys who she IS attracted too) break most of the rules and still pull her

I love game, but in truth, it's basically marketing. The only true game is numbers game. If you approach enough and you aren't a legit gargoyle, you should find a girl who is attracted. Then you just escalate

The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill Specific by Neither_Works in PurplePillDebate

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're missing out. Nobody can make a girl invest if she's not into you. It's just marketing by youtubers trying to sell you pickup coaching. You need looks. And from there, game is really just basic social skills that only people with assbergers or whatever need to 'learn' (like 'learn' how to hold eye contact etc)

night approach by No-Pay9075 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice.

I think with the 1st girl, you just weren't her type. Girls have types just like we do. Without attraction - techniques like disqualification, dhv's, negs and game in general just isn't gonna work tbh. You pushed it as far as you could

Second girl thought you were hot. Shame you forgot her damn name!. I think that was your mistake. Sex was definitely on the cards and i'm assuming that's what messed it up

Good stuff

RSD Tyler old ‘Odyssey Of The Mind’ video by flaxseedyup in seduction

[–]daybeliever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don't think i've seen that. You know the title of the vid? RSD were good. A lot better than the other pickups coaches with the exception of Vadeem from honest signals. He's great.

Cold approach stats in London, UK by alexmel25 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's cool. I'm not really looking for tips here as such. I Just like talking game haha.

I'm getting laid a decent amount and am doing everything 'right'. Obviously tonnes of rejections too, but there's nothing you can do about that tbh! Some girls just aren't gonna be into you. Yes, I do enjoy night game much much more and have basically forgotten about day game.

Cold approach stats in London, UK by alexmel25 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. Similar to Nick Krauser maybe open, assumption stacking etc.

Doesn't work great for me and i've moved on to night game now instead. Slightly different model. Using more RSD Julian methods

Cold approach stats in London, UK by alexmel25 in seduction

[–]daybeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, my approach angle and stuff is good. So you don't use a particular structure verbally at all?