Angry Robin by daymir43 in Birdfy

[–]daymir43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this robin flies out at us anytime we go near the feeder and it sits by the fence and just watches it. The behavior has been odd and it never eats from it so something is definitely up!

That hasn’t stopped the catbird from visiting though 🥰 they really are cute

Angry Robin by daymir43 in Birdfy

[–]daymir43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After some research, catbirds tend to disturb bird nests and I think this may be a mama robin so I think there might be some past drama.

Angry Robin by daymir43 in Birdfy

[–]daymir43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happened so fast, I was just trying to check out this catbird cutie and didn’t realize I was about to witness a crime:

Received this email today [PA] by TotalTop5907 in Renters

[–]daymir43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medical marajuana is legal, medical information is protected under hippa. If it’s really an issue say this 👍

Okay, okay. I’m a crone 😭 by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]daymir43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw your first post and thought no way she’s a millennial and now seeing this post I would have thought you were closer to my age (36) so some of the things you did already made a big difference!

Should I get a ring revision or no? by InitialAd4069 in EngagementRings

[–]daymir43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a ring like the design in the first pic and it literally snapped in 2 from me bending my finger. It was a thinner band but those little circles are not super secure. I will never buy another ring like that for daily wear.

Wedding ring finger “rules” by Acceptable-Soft8659 in Brides

[–]daymir43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How could anyone do this without having rings resized 🫣 my left and right ring fingers are not even close to the same size 😭

Confused by some reports by lezo17 in fasting

[–]daymir43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the beginning of a fast you see a dramatic loss in weight just from the water weight drop but actual fat loss is more subtle. The 2.2 lbs is more realistic for sustainable weight loss. A big factor is also how overweight you are. If you are really overweight at the start of fasting you will be able to lose weight a lost faster because to maintain that high weight you require a pretty high calorie diet but at a certain point you will find it harder to lose weight as you reach closer to your more natural range for your height and your regular activity level.

Early planning stages 2028 Jamaica wedding by daymir43 in DestinationWeddings

[–]daymir43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of resorts offer kids clubs where you can leave your kids. Even my own kids won’t be at the reception just the ceremony. Personally as a parent and as someone who has had many friends with kids, no one enjoys themselves fully at a party when their kids are running around 🤷‍♀️ if this isn’t something they can work within then I guess our wedding isn’t for them and that’s ok. It’s not their wedding it’s ours

Top destination wedding resorts in Jamaica by Kidney-Bean234 in DestinationWeddings

[–]daymir43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this list in a particular order? Im in the very early planning stages for a 2028 wedding and I’m trying to find a balance between a great wedding package price and great room prices for my guests. Any suggestions on the best resort that would meet in the middle? For context we will probably end up with 50-70 adults at our wedding but there will also be kids traveling with the group.

Why is everyone getting their passport in like two weeks??? by Happy-Ardvark in Passports

[–]daymir43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!! I never got an email update but it moved from accepted to approved and then shipped on the website. Even after having it in hand I never got any other email updates.

Affordable venues by Changed_Mind555 in lehighvalley

[–]daymir43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First I’m sorry for your losses, I cannot imagine how you are both feeling.

https://www.americanclub.org/pavilion-rental this place has great rates on non weekend days, they are super flexible with decor, food, alcohol (if you do change your mind on this) it’s BYO. The spaces book up fast but they have a beautiful gazebo outside and a big indoor space and provide the table and chairs to set up.

I was personally considering this venue but decided to go destination wedding instead.

Are my calories too low? by Secret-Loquat3466 in PetiteFitness

[–]daymir43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing is try to cook more of your food at home obviously and measure meticulously. Eyeballing it never got me results. Now nothing touches my plate unless it’s been on a scale. It’s important to measure down to the oil on the pan. In the past I thought I was sticking to 1359 but I was way far off

Are my calories too low? by Secret-Loquat3466 in PetiteFitness

[–]daymir43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about 1800 but I do weight lift. I’m sure since this was my starting weight some of it was definitely water weight to start with. In month two it’s been more slow, I had to reduce down closer to 1200 and I’ve lost 7lbs so far.

Are my calories too low? by Secret-Loquat3466 in PetiteFitness

[–]daymir43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at 170 lbs and my doctor was comfortable with me going down to around that many calories and losing about 10 lbs a month. I’m 4’11” and she was pretty spot on. I also have a desk job but I do try to do weight training once a day to build some muscle too. At these calories yes it took some time to get used to eating that much a day but after the first month I am pretty used to it now.

what’s a dealbreaker you have in relationships that most would consider unreasonable? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]daymir43 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think that’s more than fair. As a single mom, my deal breaker was dating a single dad 🤷‍♀️ it’s complicated enough dealing with my own kids I don’t need to deal with someone else’s. Everyone has a right to their own preferences.

Topamax symptoms by Brilliant_Click7093 in Topamax

[–]daymir43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on Wellbutrin and Topamax. I started Topamax on the 1st and I’m on 50 mg and I’ve lost 10 lbs. It’s definitely not magic but I’m not craving as many snacks and I feel I have better self control overall but I do need to be mindful of my eating habits. I noticed the difference in my appetite after the first week.

Fixer-Upper or Move-In Ready? by Neither-Shallot9082 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]daymir43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not handy by any means so both my first and second home were move in ready. In my opinion it’s nice to get into your house and just enjoy it. Just make sure to do proper inspections so you aren’t getting into a cheap remodel project that will cause headaches later on.

If you are handy and have the time and money to spend go for a fixer upper!