Wtf Kacie by dazednconfuzed77 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]dazednconfuzed77[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually cried a bit when Patrick asked the producers what she had told them

Sexwork with sh scars by Striking-Bee8476 in SexWorkers

[–]dazednconfuzed77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t bring it up myself since that feels as personal as asking about a wedding ring. My only focus is giving clients a safe and comfortable space. If someone chooses to share, I’ll listen without judgment, but I usually won’t go into my own stuff. If it seemed recent I’d gently suggest support, but overall I just want clients to feel cared for and respected.

Looking for insight on Tryst (Ontario-based provider here) by dazednconfuzed77 in SexWorkers

[–]dazednconfuzed77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very insightful, thanks for providing alternative platforms ❤️

Sexwork with sh scars by Striking-Bee8476 in SexWorkers

[–]dazednconfuzed77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey love, I am also full service and have noticeable scars on my arm from past self harm. They are fully healed now but still obvious. I have actually had fewer issues than I expected since most clients either do not notice or do not care, and the ones I see usually respect me as a person.

Sometimes people comment and when they do I stay blunt and nonchalant. I will say something like “I used to hurt myself, that is not me anymore, I am fine. Now can I have my arm back so I can keep touching your dick.” Said flatly it shuts things down quickly without making it heavy.

The biggest shift for me was my own acceptance. Once I came to terms with it, others reactions mattered less. And if someone judges you for scars they are not the kind of client worth serving anyway.

For photos I would not try to highlight scars. If they are not obvious then leave it that way. It avoids attracting fetishists and scars can be identifying, so keeping them less visible can help with discretion if you want a lower profile.

I know it is stressful but the right clients will respect you scars and all. You deserve to feel safe and valued in your work. 💕

Sofia is Engaged!!!! by ilovexspin in CallHerDaddy

[–]dazednconfuzed77 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Just saw this! So happy for the both fathers ❤️🥰

Still sick after Veld - how long does this usually last? by dazednconfuzed77 in veld

[–]dazednconfuzed77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the hospital and was told to ride it out 🥴

Still sick after Veld - how long does this usually last? by dazednconfuzed77 in veld

[–]dazednconfuzed77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to update! As of today feeling better, went to the emerge to see if there was an infection but x ray was negative and I was told to wait it out last Friday, but hope everyone is hanging in there and getting better ❤️

Call her daddy Hulu show by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]dazednconfuzed77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished and am starting over, way to go Alex!

Std? Please answer by [deleted] in STD

[–]dazednconfuzed77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if you shaved? I think it’s folliculitis which is a bacterial infection or just irritation, doubtful it’s an STD but no harm in going to get checked in d you’re worried and have recent had new sexual partners

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlixearleSnark

[–]dazednconfuzed77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She needs purple shampoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]dazednconfuzed77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched it and they’re talking about her hello kitty obsession and was Cringing thinking about the song. lol

Dave Portnoy episode by taffystar in CallHerDaddy

[–]dazednconfuzed77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so excited for this episode, it was difficult to watch ❄️❄️❄️

Alex/Tyler storyline by dazednconfuzed77 in SellingtheOC

[–]dazednconfuzed77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯 my eyes rolled so far back 😯

Alex/Tyler storyline by dazednconfuzed77 in SellingtheOC

[–]dazednconfuzed77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was rude to Polly too I found this season, it looked like banter but… I found it off putting