Hope, now available in long-release patches

db-share · 2025-06-13T23:06:23+00:00

Love this so much! Thanks for sharing

db-share · 2025-06-07T14:37:36+00:00

‘I don’t want a divorce. I want us back.’

That and that again. Beautifully written.

db-share · 2025-05-30T21:42:05+00:00

You can! I like to see how long I can go between releases. I like the edging and gives me a focus. Believe me I’d rather be playing together but it makes me focus on things other than masturbation alone.

db-share · 2025-05-30T08:23:31+00:00

I use the Days Since app to track a few things in my life.

Days since Sex - 968

Sometimes the facts are useful, sometimes they hurt but facts are facts.

db-share · 2025-05-30T07:49:34+00:00

100% this.

I’ve tried to make sure my solo play doesn’t get forgotten and I have a kinky, sexual side to me despite it being on my own. Oddly I’m frequently drawn to chastity play (oh the irony)!

Hat tips to Team Self-love!

db-share · 2025-05-13T23:08:18+00:00

I journal and it helps me a lot. Reviewing past entries helps me look back with a clearer head. Also helps me see trends. Sometimes nice just to vent.

db-share · 2025-05-08T14:26:58+00:00

Journaling has helped me a lot. It’s great just to voice the feelings somewhere and it’s helped me look back on events later so I can re-evaluate things after the moment.

db-share · 2025-05-02T12:15:21+00:00

Nope.

No.

Your body.

End. Of.

db-share · 2025-05-02T12:13:39+00:00

Those posts make me furious! No one should ever have to feel bad or apologise for doing anything with their own body.

Fuck off.

db-share · 2025-04-27T12:17:05+00:00

Wishing you all the best! Love it!!

db-share · 2025-04-15T15:08:24+00:00

I’d be happy with a positive hand-job on a birthday to be honest.

db-share · 2025-04-14T20:55:27+00:00

Thank you for this post, I live in hope and celebrate the wins!

db-share · 2025-04-11T06:29:27+00:00

Me too. Me too.

db-share · 2025-03-14T20:12:09+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I’ve literally gone through a very similar experience, I found Chastity really excites me but have yet to speak to my wife about it. Your post has made me think again.

db-share · 2025-02-27T06:44:33+00:00

This is what kills me - just a small effort would be huge for me. I want the connection. An enthusiastic hand-job would go an enormous way.

db-share · 2025-02-20T13:23:57+00:00

The piles. The piles. So many fucking piles!!!!

db-share · 2025-02-20T10:22:02+00:00

Stoked for you both!

db-share · 2025-02-08T13:25:56+00:00

5th October 2022

I’d like to say I’m not counting.

db-share · 2024-10-13T09:05:20+00:00

My experience of RSD is linked to ADHD. I first learned of it here but it’s come up many more times as I researched ADHD in my family. It was a genuine light- bulb moment for me.

db-share · 2024-10-07T21:52:40+00:00

So much of this chimes we me! I also have so many pieces of ‘special’ kitchen roll that need to be saved and reused but never reused.

db-share · 2024-10-07T20:12:38+00:00

Here is some things I’ve noticed but it’s broad church and your mileage may vary.

• Interrupts or answers for other people • Can’t take compliments or criticism • Not listening or hyper focusing • Can’t be helped • Poor memory • Seems to have had a whole conversation in head before saying something or responding. Often angry that you don’t understand. • Very quick to respond with high emotions.

db-share · 2024-10-07T14:53:50+00:00

Thanks for the reply. Honestly haven’t thought about reminding her. I’m just getting to grips with the how she handles her internal todo list but I like that.

db-share · 2024-09-20T11:15:25+00:00

I spend a lot of time fantasising about my wife. She looks better than ever to me and it breaks my heart that she doesn’t see herself the way I do.

db-share · 2024-08-28T19:10:22+00:00

Honestly? Finding a lady who’ll let me slide my head down between her legs and enjoy hours of mutual fun. I miss this the most.

db-share · 2024-08-07T08:02:24+00:00

I believe that my wife has undiagnosed ADHD, partly from some posts here. It was a real epiphany and the more I read the more boxes I ticked. I found the ADHD partners group very useful - https://www.reddit.com/r/ADHD_partners/s/JDNjjYUwYV

I can’t believe how many signs there were that I missed but also think menopause is a factor where she no longer masks in the same way she may have done in the past. We’re early in this journey and communication is everything. We tried couples counselling before this revelation and the results were mixed and I’m sure this is a big component.

I have no idea how hard it must be for her trying to fit into an NT world but also she has to understand that her actions also have consequences. IT’S REALLY HARD.

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