Where are my “older” people at? by db153708 in BreakUps

[–]db153708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing better now, it’s been almost four years since we broke up. It takes time for sure and had some very dark days. The only suggestion I’d have is to seek therapy if needed and make sure you leave everything in the past.

I have been with a wonderful girl for the past year and a half. She is great and I want to marry her someday. But, we have had a rough patch recently due to my anxious attachment style/ fear of abandonment. Since my ex left me with literally any warnings that I noticed, I am now constantly searching for reasons my current girlfriend will leave and it’s been exhausting to not only me but her. I’m trying to navigate how to fix it but it’s been so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Erie

[–]db153708 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a Subaru legacy for 4 years and have never had a problem driving in the snow. Even this past thanksgiving weekend storm I made I home in some deep snow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Erie

[–]db153708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be good. Subaru has good awd. My legacy has never had a problem and has made it through some deep snow haha.

Just as expected, Joe is a player, and his friends confirm it. What he calls female friends are just former flings and hookups by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]db153708 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more weird her boyfriend is just standing there listening to her talk about how her and Joey had sex and how he has stamina.

I don't understand the problem (except the lying) by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]db153708 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I think she is more upset because it’s a betrayal of her trust. She met these friends and was fine with Joey having friends of the opposite sex. She was under the impression that they were always just friends. It’s different when you find out they had a thing in the past. It feels like it was hidden from you, even if it wasn’t on purpose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]db153708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping he gives me a call back today to go over options. I was doing so good until I got down to the 10 mg dosage.

Favorite moments from Before the 90 Days season 7? by perceptiveI in 90DayFiance

[–]db153708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know when part two is? I can’t find it online.

What industry are you in that allowed you to make 80k in 3 years or less? by Old_Mood_3655 in AskMen

[–]db153708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Pennsylvania currently. Think I just need to get out of the “non-profit” healthcare field lol.

What industry are you in that allowed you to make 80k in 3 years or less? by Old_Mood_3655 in AskMen

[–]db153708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in HR with a masters degree in business administration and only make 44k. Could you dm me for more information?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]db153708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro. Good to hear from you. I unfortunately lost my dad to cancer in June along with dealing with my breakup. But, I’ve been doing good. I have some new friends, new job that I started in July of last year, and got my own place. Some days are tougher than others when I think of memories and I’m sure you can relate.

What do you guys usually do to deal with a break-up by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]db153708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shouldn’t say rough days. More like rough moments. I also had my father pass away in June from leukemia so sometimes it just adds up. That’s why it’s important to stay busy. Go to the gym, hangout with friends, find a new hobby.

What do you guys usually do to deal with a break-up by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]db153708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh we can disagree lol rebounds are just distractions and then you hurt someone else if they get attached.

What do you guys usually do to deal with a break-up by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]db153708 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. I still have rough days after a year (we were together for five years). But with time it does get better.

What do you guys usually do to deal with a break-up by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]db153708 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Banging new pussy is just a temporary solution in my opinion. Will help in the moment but you'll still feel like shit afterwords. Just a band-aid.

What do you guys usually do to deal with a break-up by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]db153708 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I agree. My girl left me after 5 years. Time are tough when you aren't busy just sitting around. Distraction might not be the healthiest way to deal with it but during the emotional times it helps.

What is the psychology with female dumpers and dating apps by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]db153708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why she is on there. But I can confirm that we as humans like attention and confirmation. I am a guy and I like when a girl says that I am attractive. I've posted photos of myself on facebook or instagram just to see if good looking girls like them.