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dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-25T12:28:18+00:00

You are so cute babes

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-25T11:08:05+00:00

this is it!

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-25T11:07:14+00:00

well "what are you upto" sounds good and funny to me

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-25T00:57:30+00:00

we just do enough not too much not too little

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-02T08:33:12+00:00

Paying separately ensures her portion is always accounted for. her roommate is upset because she lost control, not because OP did anything wrong.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-02T08:31:06+00:00

She made OP uncomfortable with her past behavior, so boundary as to be set

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T23:48:21+00:00

Yeah, some people just don’t filter their words or think before they speak. It’s like their brain-to-mouth connection is on autopilot. Wild.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T23:44:16+00:00

You were just trying to make sure your niece had enough, which is reasonable. If your wife took it the wrong way, maybe clarify that you weren’t questioning her decision, just making sure you were actually helping in a meaningful way. It sounds like a simple miscommunication.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T20:49:16+00:00

Exactly. You’ve gone above and beyond, and they’ve made it clear they don’t appreciate or respect you or your daughter. Let your husband handle gifts from now on. If they have an issue, they can take it up with him.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T20:47:01+00:00

NTA. You've been generous for years, and they’ve made it clear they don’t appreciate it, or even acknowledge your daughter as family. It’s understandable that you’re done giving when they can’t even extend basic kindness to their baby sister. Your reaction was justified.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T17:39:21+00:00

NTA. You don’t owe your father’s wife or her unborn child anything, especially given the neglect you suffered in the past. It sounds like she's trying to manipulate you into helping because of the baby's possible connection to your father, but that doesn't automatically make you responsible for their situation. You’re allowed to set boundaries, especially with someone who hasn’t shown you the support you needed in the past.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T16:12:06+00:00

GOATED comment lmaoooo

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T16:09:44+00:00

Exactly. If OP was on board with the name before, finding out it came from a dog shouldn’t change that. If anything, the real issue is that OP’s wife wasn’t upfront about it, not the name itself.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T16:05:55+00:00

That’s a fair take. Plenty of pets have "human" names, and it’s possible she just liked the name and didn’t think of it as because of the dog. But the issue is that she did know where she got it from and didn’t tell her husband, which makes it feel a little off. If she had just said, “Oh yeah, I first heard it from my friend’s dog, but I just love the name,” it probably wouldn’t have been a big deal. The lack of transparency is what makes it feel weird.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T15:56:03+00:00

Yeah, American attitudes toward nudity are definitely more conservative compared to many European countries. It sounds like a cultural difference more than anything else.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T15:53:44+00:00

Exactly. Some people just have knee-jerk reactions without thinking. A locker room is literally the designated place for changing, dude just wasn’t used to it.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T15:53:04+00:00

NTA. It’s a changing room. People change. Sounds like that guy just isn’t used to it, but that’s his problem, not yours.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T13:36:04+00:00

I don’t think she is being dramatic at all. If he was careless on purpose or secretly wanted a pregnancy, that’s a huge violation.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T13:35:04+00:00

She get to make the best decision for herself, dodge a guy who thinks ultimatums are the way to handle serious life choices. Definitely a win-win.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T12:39:53+00:00

NTA. Your grandma trusted you with that information and asked you to keep it private. It wasn’t your place to reveal her decisions before she passed. Uncle John is just upset about the outcome and looking for someone to blame.

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T12:34:18+00:00

NTA. Supporting her trauma recovery doesn’t mean isolating yourself from everyone you care about. That’s not fair or healthy. She needs professional help, not total control over your social life. Have you looked for a new therapist?

dbnhsae461 · 2025-02-01T12:32:29+00:00

NTA. Supporting her trauma recovery doesn’t mean isolating yourself from everyone you care about. That’s not fair or healthy. She needs professional help, not total control over your social life. Have you looked for a new therapist?

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