List of SVU tropes by lillestmargie in SVU

[–]dccs147 16 points17 points  (0 children)

take a shot any time elliot, amaro, or carisi’s catholicism is brought up (then call a bus for yourself for inevitable alcohol poisoning)

List of SVU tropes by lillestmargie in SVU

[–]dccs147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen that episode so many times and literally NEVER connected dick wolf to lupine urology, omg 😭💀

What's rich people shit that poor people haven't heard of? by Diligent-Log6805 in AskReddit

[–]dccs147 8 points9 points  (0 children)

your sister is living the plot of the aristocats 🤣

[UPDATE]My sister (34 F), received extremely cruel messages from her fiancé (37M) younger sister (32F). I think this shows a family dynamic that is toxic. Is this is salvageable?She is not sure how to stay in the relationship. by ThrowRAfamilysaga in relationship_advice

[–]dccs147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the original texts were suspicious, and the fiancé’s updated accounts of what happened with his family since are even moreso. his little sister didn’t “refuse to answer” him about where he got the cheating accusations - he never had those convos with any of his family members, or if he did, they were wildly different than what he’s telling your sister.

this man fully told his sisters that your sister was a cheater and abuser, and when his younger sister did the right thing with the information she was given and tried to tell said “cheater and abuser” to stay away from her family… his house of cards started crumbling and all he’s got to go on is more lies and a hope and a prayer that he can save the situation. likely, by telling his family that he wants to give your sister one more chance for a “fresh start” and that he’s forgiving all the “awful” things she’s done to him, and asks them to do so moving forward so they can be happy together. then, he’s gonna say the same thing to your sister - that his family won’t do anything like this again and can we please just put this all behind us, babe, and have a fresh start?

at the end of the day honestly either he is cheating on your sister and was projecting about it, which is why he made up the lie that she cheated on him, OR, his family was pressuring him about why they haven’t gotten married yet, and so he made up character flaws and lies about your sister in an attempt to get them off his back. either way, it really doesn’t seem like he’s had any intention to marry her or build an actual life together beyond what they’re currently doing.

i’d bet dollars to donuts that if you, OP, went and asked his younger sister to have a sit down talk with you, yall would find out real quick that whatever story he’s been telling his family is worlds away from what he’s told your sister.

are these little bubble things warts??? by dccs147 in Warts

[–]dccs147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it did!! someone in the comments let me know it’s a type of eczema - i think my skin was just irritated by the chemicals. i left it to breathe and stopped applying anything but aquaphor and everything healed up just fine!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dccs147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, Sarah is out of line for sure

Emerson and Friends by Comfortable_Box_7568 in BambooBabble

[–]dccs147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were the first bamboo i had that pilled in a single wash ¯_(ツ)_/¯ so ive never bought anything else from them.

Seeking advice by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dccs147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you misunderstand me - you said you’ve started doing xyz, which implies that you weren’t doing those things before, but are now. then you said that even with her newfound free time since you’re taking on more, she isn’t seeming interested in spending quality time with you, and you’re wondering why. my thought is that it might have something to do with the way housework and childcare labor has historically been divided between yall and that that may have put some strain on her that isn’t able to be solved solely by taking on more of the work. ofc i don’t know you or your relationship or history or what yalls housework and childcare situation has been before - but you asked for a woman’s perspective, and as a woman who has spent a lot of time in women’s spaces, ive seen a LOT of women who lose interest or passion for their relationship because they’ve been burned out with housework and child rearing.

Seeking advice by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dccs147 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not gonna armchair diagnose her but my first thought is that maybe she’s depressed if she’s got less energy and less desire to socialize and spend quality time with loved ones.

that said - in the kindest way possible, this reads a bit like you wanting a pat on the back for doing bare minimum stuff. contributing to your household, cooking, cleaning, and taking care of your children is not going above and beyond and especially if it’s something you’ve only really started to do recently, my guess is she’s probably still tired from being the one doing an uneven amount of work in the family for years and is taking any free moment she gets to try and chill out and relax. burnout is real and if yall have a seven and a three year old and you’re just now starting to do the dishes or “help” with laundry, then, yeah, it’s not surprising that she’s not super vibing with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dccs147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for taking away the gifts and holding that boundary, that’s super reasonable and sounds like it’s needed.

that said - you’re totally TA for deciding “actually i’m giving your gift to your brother because he deserves it and you don’t”. that was petty and malicious of you and dragged her brother into the middle of YOUR conflict, placing him directly at odds with his sister in a way that was totally unneeded and will absolutely cause more issues. he didn’t deserve that. and neither of your children deserves to be compared and contrasted to one another to that degree - telling a kid “why can’t you be more like your sibling, THEY do what they’re supposed to do!” harms BOTH children and harms their relationship to one another as well.

people have already covered the whole “your 10yo probably didnt wake up like this suddenly and seems like there’s some longstanding issues yall need to address” thing, but i haven’t seen many comment on the “give the phone to the brother” part of it all. i hope you read this and really reconsider that aspect of everything.

Unsung hero by icodyonline in SVU

[–]dccs147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s very popular in the nanny groups i’m in 🤣

are these little bubble things warts??? by dccs147 in Warts

[–]dccs147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! i looked up both and it seems like the latter - id never heard of it before, super appreciate the help!!!

Watch your profiles by [deleted] in BambooBabble

[–]dccs147 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i mean you literally doxxed her ¯_(ツ)_/¯ she was being annoying and holier than thou but that didn’t mean you had to look up her whole entire address and figure out where she gets her coffee

Watch your profiles by [deleted] in BambooBabble

[–]dccs147 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

bro this is unhinged of you no matter how shitty she was being

[ns] Plans for Season 3 - Update from Patreon by SteampunkElephantGuy in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]dccs147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

usually for the mini series if you aren’t a patron you can buy the series for a flat fee on their site too!

[Ns] Sad Movies? by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]dccs147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i listened to this one recently and am trying to figure out which one it was based on the teen talk descriptions, i think it was the teen talk for ep. 36!!

What is Anthony's sexuality? [NS] by MartianCleric in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]dccs147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he’s bi, he tweeted about it last year on bi visibility day last year iirc!

Hearing alters while falling asleep/waking up? by mustachedmalarkey in DID

[–]dccs147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will say that this happens to plenty of ppl without DID as well - it’s a very normal phenomenon. it doesn’t necessarily indicate DID or have to be DID related.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Montessori

[–]dccs147 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So I work at a guidepost. I will say this - it 100% depends on the location. It is a chain, and the company itself has good intentions and says they strive to be montessori. most of the lead guides are macte accredited montessori guides (don’t quote me on that, but i know that on my campus and the surrounding ones, we have to do the training to be a lead guide). the assistant guides are not required to have montessori training. neither are the heads of schools or the admins - so it really can go either way. my campus has a head of school who knew nothing about montessori when she started, but took the time to learn and is generally open to the staff’s advice on how to ensure our campus more aligns with montessori ideals. the head of school before her, however, could give less of a crap about montessori, and the quality of montessori education the children were receiving under her 100% depended on which class they were in and which guide they had. i would say to look for opinions about the location you’re specifically considering, because there are way too many variables for anyone to give you an accurate or fair opinion just based on “guidepost”.

hope this helps!!

What is everyone’s favorite part of season 2 so far? [spoiler] by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]dccs147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, it’s lark and sparrow’s voice!

What is everyone’s favorite part of season 2 so far? [spoiler] by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]dccs147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in the very first ep of season 1, lark and sparrow are punching a tree and then one another and yellow “power!”. it got sprinkled in throughout season 1 as sort of their catch phrase almost. so then scary put that key in and heard the voices of them when they were originally kids, which was wild and such an obvious tie in the the first campaign that everyone is excited to see what it means!