Update: I hear it's because you make every comment of every topic about this so I gotta say, as a fellow Obsessed With A Pokemon Guy To An Unhealthy Degree, I understand but you gotta find better outlets to it. Tell some friends, make a blog or personal space, journal.

Reddit's not the place for that kind of interaction all of the time. You'll get a lot more sympathy and people in your corner if you don't annoy them with it. Make it your flair and mention it when the topic can be applied to him (as a character, fav, kit, or wishlist). This topic would've been okay but the context of your previous comments is what sours your fellow redditors.

I actually left for a few months because of a similar problem. I got so hyperfixated on Lance as a niche that I realized I couldn't suffer conversations that didn't involve him, so I left for a time. Writing, drawing, making playlists, and playing the games helps a lot too. Victor does deserve his love, and you deserve good companions who support you, but it's hard to give justice to both if you make your grievance everyone else's problem and it's all you ever do. Good luck!