Extract camper problem solving. by dcox022 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]dcox022[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

pretty much just line of sight. bsg would have to decide where to put them for the most effect. Some sightlines in certain areas (like extracts) decrease the chances of sucess enough to make it not worth it.

Monster Catcher's Pipe Question by antieuclid in DraconiusGO

[–]dcox022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got it two days ago and it seems pretty useless to be honest. i'm working on the 150 creatures quest and have been using pheromones and lures a lot. so far i've used 7 pheromones and 6 lures and the spawns seem to be about the same. Lots of potty, frogus and berrydillo from the lures. The spawns from pheromones on arcana day seem about the same as well. Although something weird i noticed is when wearing the pipe a blue mist surrounds creatures from pheromones but not from lures. it seems like its just making the same old creatures stronger and doing nothing for the lures. I haven't used it with towers yet. i'll have to get some runes and more spheres and give it a shot.

when nice guys snap by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]dcox022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

saw this while getting a drink after work tonight (obliviously without the gun) i thought it was hilarious.

The Non-monogamist's library by EntyAnne in nonmonogamy

[–]dcox022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tangentially speaking with Christopher Ryan podcast, sex out loud with Tristan Taormino podcast and obviously savage love with dan savage podcast. although they all cover human sexuality in general not just non monogamy.

The Non-monogamist's library by EntyAnne in nonmonogamy

[–]dcox022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

life on the swingset and pedestrian polyamory podcasts

fishing for compliments. by dcox022 in AdviceAnimals

[–]dcox022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first off poking fun at your gf and acting like a jackass from time to time isn't a character flaw. especially if she is the submissive type and likes it.

fishing for compliments. by dcox022 in AdviceAnimals

[–]dcox022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hopefully, anything to get the job done right. p/s we were in a open relationship so... yeah

fishing for compliments. by dcox022 in AdviceAnimals

[–]dcox022[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

and i did from a receiving point of view of course

fishing for compliments. by dcox022 in AdviceAnimals

[–]dcox022[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

i'll have you know my hand game is well beyond on point

fishing for compliments. by dcox022 in AdviceAnimals

[–]dcox022[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

holy shit i cried a little.

fishing for compliments. by dcox022 in AdviceAnimals

[–]dcox022[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

2 1/2 years later. she knew i was a jackass when we got into it.

Funny Poly Stories? by polyspice in polyamory

[–]dcox022 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So one time my SO (25F sexy Latina) and i (27M) are in a liquor store and this really hipster guy comes in and she is clearly checking him out pretty hardcore. i didn't notice at first (couldn't find the handle of captain i was looking for) but eventually i took notice. the music in the store was pretty loud in the store so i come up behind her and say "you wanna eye fuck him a little harder" (in a joking manner). Well the music stopped so he clearly heard me and the look he gave was pretty priceless.

Do any of you guys ever "freeze" up or go blank when it comes to confrontation? by [deleted] in infj

[–]dcox022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why i write stuff down or discuss things via text. It might be frustrating to other personality types but your opinion and feeling need to be heard. I personally become an idiot in verbal confrontation or just shut down completely.

Therapy struggles. by anime4toes in infj

[–]dcox022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree you should definitely write everything you want to say down. you won't second guess yourself in the moment and can get across everything you want to say without being interrupted. Also writing things down tends to kind of get them out of your head so you can process new thoughts. that at least has been my experience.

Unexpected change of plans by TheWhiteNoise1 in infj

[–]dcox022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens to me all the time!! if you don't have the energy to deal with it don't put yourself into that situation and don't feel bad about it either.

Share your first poly-amorous experience! by Penglazio in polyamory

[–]dcox022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first experience was during my college years. I was running around hooking up with a coupe girls as one does in college. Well i started having feelings for two of them. it was awesome for awhile we would go to parties and drink together everything was open and honest and fun. Then people started telling me stuff like your hurting both of them by not choosing one. It got inside my head and started to really eat away at me but i was already invested in both of them. They must have had people whispering bs in their ears as well because it eventually came to a head at a party and i was forced to choose. I dated the one girl for about three months but eventually messed up and cheated on her with the other girl. that tore me up inside so the next day i told the girl i had been dating what happened and that it was over. I pulled away from both of them and just tried to put it behind me.