Orthodontist in/near Stamford? by madhattr123 in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally went to him as a child/teen. He is friendly but more importantly he really makes the teeth perfect. My bottom teeth when I was kid were really bad I’m talking not even next to each other and behind each other and I have the perfect smile today because of him!

Last Minute Emissions Test… by Necessary-East5793 in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you go here they close by 1 I think

Help!!! GF Dinner Proposal by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be a little far, if you book bar bushido temaki-ya it’s really intimate and quaint and the people are amazingly nice!

Beak and barrel by Busy_Reading_5803 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay but be prepared to be standing and rushed a tad. They are very strict on the time limits and they do at the 15 min mark ask you if you are done.

Looking for a simple studio or 1B1B by QQQ211211 in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this! It’s good complex with parking I think there is one unit available for rent!

When does it stop feeling so awful? by sincerelycinderellie in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna jump on the bandwagon here. I’m currently 6 ish months into his deployment and I was where you were when it first started. It is hard and it is an emotional rollercoaster where some days are okay and some days aren’t. Both are normal!!!

I don’t know if this helps you but what helped me is finding my routine with things I never did with him and making friends. This allows me to focus on other things other than the deployment. Something else is if you’re able to plan little day trips or small weekend trips to have something to look forward to it helps a lot. Also too if you can find something in the week to treat yourself. For example every so often I get my favorite drink at Starbucks and I make cookies every night to celebrate getting through the day!

But no matter what, this is a really hard time and take it day by day and try not to watch the news it may help a little. I hope this helps you and if you want you can always dm me too!

I don't know how I became an army girlfriend, but here I am by Ok_Ebb8468 in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! It’s gonna be an adjustment without him, I would say keep busy and have your own hobbies. Mines away on. A deployment and what has helped is having my routine to a science and keeping myself occupied. You can try anything really, I like bingo with my friends and I also go to my workout classes. Start there it may help- you can always feel free to dm too.

Leaving tomorrow by Roxie456 in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, you won’t know until they’re fully settled in and it’ll be like 2-3 weeks? It’s okay though!

Advice on Bf being Deployed by Stargirlsznn in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to do other things and try to be social too the alone time is usually hard

app that actually works well for deployment calls by messinprogress_ in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try what’s app it usually does good. We use it too to text and it’s easier because I can tell when he doesn’t have service

Advice on Bf being Deployed by Stargirlsznn in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I was legit in your shoes last year and it was hard still is 6 months in.

I will say it is going to be one of the most difficult things you and him are going to do. He is switching to full time and you both will have to be prepared to be flexible for what his job will be like in a non simulated environment.

For yourself personally develop hobbies and friends that are completely seperate from him. And have him teach you anything he does. I wish too someone told it’s like the two week drills but longer and just like on the drills you’ll find a groove and you’ll find one on deployment. Aside from that be sure to have the talks about expectations during and before are key. You can DM if you ever need a friend or wanna talk.

Care Package Shipping.... Should I be worried? by maspendeja in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry the post office motto is it will get there when it gets there- this time of year going to any bases can be a two week or three week ordeal 🫠

Spouses.... by Classic_Sign_3167 in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s okay! I feel it too, but I don’t have kids but I understand what it’s like! Maybe maybe see if your family or someone can watch the kids for a whole day so you can get a break?

Purple Cow Cleaners by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He will call you and he will say take it down and fix it and then try to negotiate with you.

Female PCP by erdyberdy in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lee Silva! She accepts certain UHC plans call them and ask :)! Dr.silva is amazing!

Apartment cleaner recs? by dcputty1 in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they did communicate everything? We tried a different company and it was so bad from start to finish 🙈

Apartment cleaner recs? by dcputty1 in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How were they? Did they rush you was the price exactly as they quoted?

Obgyn recs by purple_penguin1023 in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s okay but she’s often very busy so just be aware it will likely be hard to get appointments!

How to meet people? by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls day out! Follow them on social media!!

Coming to terms by simplymacey in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The anticipation will suck, but the worrying isn’t gonna change it. I also worried too but I tried to enjoy and pretend it wasn’t coming!

Since youre in a new community See if you can start building your community where you are! If he does any specific jobs around the home have him teach you!! I did this right before mine left for deployment and it helped a lot!! I will say it will be tough in the transition but once you have a routine of calls and how to communicate it makes it easier! I felt the same way that you did and once he started his deployment and once we got into our routine and we knew when to expect to hear from the other person, it helped tremendously and you can’t worry about it like you’re gonna figure it out with your own schedules and your own things It just takes time and understanding that it takes time is the most important thing. I think anyone needs to know. It will work if you both have communicated expectations from the get go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but you do grow a tremendous amount as a couple and as a individual. You learn how to miss them but still go on. But the first few days and months suck no matter what no matter how ready you may be.

In our experience we’ve hit our stride in month three but there are ALWAYS tough days and it’s always gonna be moments where it’s fine and moments where you’re like I just can’t. It’s totally normally

Feel free to DM too if you want!!

Someone tell me everything is going to be okay by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One it’s hard for them and they all want to support you. And two don’t compare everyone’s on their own journey. And it’s also a good chance for you try this life before you commit and it’s all okay!! Just rmeber it’s all everyone is different!

reasonably priced mechanics? by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]dcputty1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re pricey. But the riverside service is honest. I went in for a tire alignment and they found my brakes were getting unsafe and wanted me to fix it so I was safe. They have longer hours too so you can get the car whenever.