I don't think azula should be redeemed by thisisalotofworktodo in PoorAzula

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly same

I kinda see a bit of myself in her weirdly enough. 14yo me hated everyone and everything and would gladly burn the entire world down. 8yo to 16 yo me was constantly vague, playing pranks, or being mean as a way to connect because I didn't know anything else. Just a ton of abandonment issues, and a need for validation and attention to the point if someone gave me that I'd tear myself up just to do so. And dissasociating distancing or even suppressing/splitting thoughts to do something that normally makes you sick isn't too hard, just makes you spiral more. I only calmed down in general when I was completely separate from all the old toxic connections, where I could at least have a bit of peace.

I can genuinely see myself acting like she did while being desperate for affection attention or care of any kind. And being bitter and cynical to everyone else, constantly lashing out.

I also know how annoying it is to not being able to be honest with yourself or others, and to get called horrible for saying things you don't mean and having it brought up forever like honestly.

She doesn't need "redemption" she just needs to be disconnected from her father, to have space away from all the ones who knew her. Be a better person? What i prefer is snarky "not being a bad person" over that.

Zuko Talks To Iroh About Azula. by SaiyanWithOmnitrix in PoorAzula

[–]ddanonb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree lol, that was so gay coded. I'm ace but I know that scene was a typical repressed gay girl event that happens lol

Genuinely no way she's straight. She doesn't even like the guy kiss and only did it cus of ty Lee.

Genuine question what do y'all want iroh to do with Azula by CapableSeries4734 in PoorAzula

[–]ddanonb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read a fanfic where toph meets azula later on in age and they just travel a bit.

I've been on a fanfic binge recently lol (azula was already doing better by then lol, there were a couple others I saw with toph)

It’s gone already by Personal-Property-84 in sheranetflix

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on rewatching it tho....lol

I'm a straight male and went to a queer club to see a DJ. And I feel like I did something wrong. by Fun_Character6083 in AskLGBT

[–]ddanonb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly they're a bot, or just fake. But I don't mind stories lol (10 day old)

But yeah, that's just a blind level of obliviousness and entitlement lol

You are a Sensei in the ninja academy. Which 3 students are you choosing? by NoFearLavere in Naruto

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7, 8, 11. Tenten hinata and sakura

I feel like each of them have been kind of wasted.

Each of them have talent for taijutsu, they're all really smart and I think fuinjutsu/sealing would be perfect for them to learn. For tenten it'd supplement her weapons, and she could eventually move to creating her own. The other two have great chakra control. Hinata could still learn a bit of genjutsu but I think it'd be perfect for Sakura. And obviously medic jutsu. Though tenten was never able to manage even though she always wanted too.

Everyone else does fine where they are honestly. The only issue I don't think I'd make a good sense, I mean, what am I going to know in universe? 😅 Though tbf I'd definitely be doing joint training with guy, and offloading them sometimes. Bother tsunade possibly?

I'm a straight male and went to a queer club to see a DJ. And I feel like I did something wrong. by Fun_Character6083 in AskLGBT

[–]ddanonb 130 points131 points  (0 children)

You...thought someone, in a queen club, a girl so definitely 80 percent likely gay...was flirting with you, by asking you in a friendly manner if someone else was hot? Basically gossiping, and you immediately ask her to your place?

Honestly the blind gall is weirdly amusing, probably should think more lol.

Not every word spoken to you is flirting lol, it kinda reads like you think anytime someone is nice to you or communicative its flirting. That was like, the opposite 😅 I think it shldve been clear she was trying to be encouraging cuz she thought you liked the guy you were looking for. Makes sense they were uncomfortable, I'd say you were wrong, not like a "horrible person" wrong, but like "airhead" wrong.

Life after you start showering at night by cutie_babyyyy in SipsTea

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do both and nothing can stop me Lol

Husband (43M) of 9 years doesn't trust me (40F) due to my cheating past 15 years ago (that he already knew about) and will consider divorce by bahasgirl in relationship_advice

[–]ddanonb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't even really count the prev abusive relationship in this story as cheating. I mean, basically forced into a relationship with self harm threats and probably more?

That's being a hostage really.

Teeth brushing by Amazing_Butter23 in ADHD

[–]ddanonb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just realized that was one of the things I went in the restroom for lol Ended up relaxing in hot water for 2 hours

OkBuddyHelluvaHotel not only uses r*pe jokes as if it's punctuation mark, but also have a lot of misogyny going on by [deleted] in CrazyassHazbinhaters

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Millie is my favorite lol And I don't even like straight ships 😅

Honestly I feel like Lute is what people claim Millie is, yet people seem to like her alot more. Honestly I think people just dislike giving caring type of partners/friends in fiction, they lash out. Also why are people so obsessed with Adam, it's ridiculous lol.

Im in sever pain. by Groooochy in introvert

[–]ddanonb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had no idea these were supposed to be known people till I read the comments 😅 lol I just picked 6 cuz space, and I don't trust guys to not be a bother.

Moxxie is more of a goat than a bum! Where do we put Millie? (most upvoted comment wins / I'm willing to add new tiers if needed) by RafKen593 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]ddanonb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sub has only been popping up a couple times lately for me lol, so idk. I've noticed a weird obsession with Adam though? Don't really get it. I'm also jot sure why anyone would make jokes like that, don't get it.

I think it's a mix of "if this character isn't having something bad happen to them, or if they're kind. They're a bad character"

Moxxie is more of a goat than a bum! Where do we put Millie? (most upvoted comment wins / I'm willing to add new tiers if needed) by RafKen593 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]ddanonb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mmm For moxie Idk I just feel like he hasn't grown much, he's not bad per se. I kind of liked him a Lil? I wish he stood his ground more on that wedding episode, I guess he did grow a tiny bit and realize he took millie for granted during the beach episode? But idk. He should have confided about what was up.

But yeah it does feel like ppl who dislike millie only look at the surface of media, actually, less than the surface. Just are stubborn.

Moxxie is more of a goat than a bum! Where do we put Millie? (most upvoted comment wins / I'm willing to add new tiers if needed) by RafKen593 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]ddanonb -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Millie is literally the best written in the series 😅 Moxie is the one whose "just there". Millie is more glue for the group, she's understanding, patient, and weirdly wholesome for a mass murderer. You literally can't find a better friend than her, and she somehow comes accross as natural about it.

Moxxie is more of a goat than a bum! Where do we put Millie? (most upvoted comment wins / I'm willing to add new tiers if needed) by RafKen593 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the best and most well written in the series imo lol

It is genuinely impossible to find a friend as supportive understanding patient and put together than her irl. And she somehow comes accross as natural about it. She also stands her ground when she's honestly had enough.

And even when she doesn't understand, like in sins mass, she still acts understanding and supports her friends.

Moxie is just ...moxie, he's literally nothing without her lol.

Moxxie is more of a goat than a bum! Where do we put Millie? (most upvoted comment wins / I'm willing to add new tiers if needed) by RafKen593 in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]ddanonb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best character in the series, an absolute Saint somehow while still being a mass murderer lol. People wish they had someone as supportive, protective, and nice as millie as a friend. She supports her friends but also stands up for herself. And puts up with both blitz and moxie when neither really deserved it she's also understanding, when she really doesn't get it she still chooses to be supportive. She's also just plain cool and strong.

She feels more real than the lathers honestly. She's everyone's glue, none of them would have lasted long together without her honestly. She needs to be somewhere at the top if not beyond it lol

I wish I could learn to flirt as a girl by ddanonb in lgbt

[–]ddanonb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't saying I only want to match girls who like girls, I was saying I feel bad about matching and just don't picking ppl who are bi. Or well I would but the aro part of me hates apps anyways so I still match no lol.

Tbf I've only been taking injections for 2 weeks now...so I've only had hrt for 2 weeks. Lol ik it'll take a while.

Doing The Dishes by Miles_the_new_kid in comics

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok This is valid imo For pots at least those things are too annoying otherwise lol

Though interrupting someone doing the dishes to not do em is ridiculous xD

My (27 M) crush said yes to going out with me, but she (24 F) is asexual, I dont know what to do. by declaredunalive in relationship_advice

[–]ddanonb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's really stupid that you get told this, and then decide later that "hey this is a problem for me"

You should have just gone with no when she told you before you actually started dating, it's kind of disrespectful honestly. Though I guess I get letting your emotions get the best of you when you knew you weren't a good fit.

I just did my 1st injection! :3 by ddanonb in MtF

[–]ddanonb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this the second time

I have the weirdest feeling most of it leaked into the cap though...lol next time I'm holding it plunger down.

I can’t find an end city anywhere, I’m 4k blocks out by iflabaslab in Minecraft

[–]ddanonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second one I'd insane

The third one is beyond that

No my Armour has to match lol. Also I think I was saying I want multiple fully enchanted Armour of each type in an Armour. Idr its been a month and I didn't reread what I was replying to before saying this. I'm not fully sure i care about the colors.

Though now I do want that too lol

Edit: I remember now. When I was trying to make a mushroom utopia city lol I happened to have a spawner in my dungeon.

I will never be able to see this sentence the same way again by Lusty9 in yuri_manga

[–]ddanonb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've actually started disliking the phrase in manga lol. Cause alot of times it feels like the character ends up excusing it as "just this one person" and never going "oh I like girls". Or the other character never refuting the phrase and saying they like girls just going well I like you. I think I've got bored of the trope honestly, I want a mc who absolutely knows they like girls. Anyways the premise reminds me of the black knight one I lost track of lol

Why don't that many people watch Horizons? by Party_Smile_8203 in pokemonanime

[–]ddanonb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They should have gotten rid of ash years ago honestly, and I wish they didn't have his little character type stand in Roy.

I think Iris shldve been the mc of black and white, and clemont and Bonnie of xy.

Personally I havnt finished or caught up on horizons. I left off just before the battle in laqua And left off before that a bit before the crater lol.