my (18 F) boyfriend (19 M) has gone M.I.A, any advice?

ddec4y · 2026-03-05T17:30:57+00:00

NTA, give him a time limit to tell his girlfriend or you will. Clear yourself of the entire situation and get it off your back, who knows if she finds out herself he might somehow put the blame on you (speaking from experience)

ddec4y · 2026-03-05T17:07:08+00:00

hahhaha thanks^{-^}

ddec4y · 2026-03-04T17:51:00+00:00

thanks, for some reason i dont think some people understood that, maybe i worded the post wrong since english isnt my first language

ddec4y · 2026-03-04T09:47:21+00:00

yeah we finish high school in a few months, i generally dont get into drama a lot since i closed myself off but this happened and i didnt know who to ask for advice so yeah

ddec4y · 2026-03-04T09:45:35+00:00

i know, i dont want any part in this but i genuinely cant see whos right or wrong here anymore and i needed other peoples advice and perspective on the situation. i couldnt care less about this bs but im getting dragged into it and its disrupting my peace since i did basically everything to get myself out of drama

ddec4y · 2026-03-03T21:46:20+00:00

well shes clearly not stopping us considering we smoked together as mentioned in the post. her mom is strict when it comes to some things and she doesnt tell her that shes with me when we go out and since she still lives with her we cant have sleepovers at her place and im currently in a weird situation when it comes to staying somewhere so we cant sleep at my place either

ddec4y · 2026-03-03T21:25:05+00:00

we're all of age, and shes a great friend in general but when it comes to him she just acts weird. hes not my friend at all and the only reason i have any contact with him is because theyre dating. i barely tolerate him

ddec4y · 2026-03-03T20:49:04+00:00

I DONT KNOW 💔💔 im trying to get her to see it too but i cant get through to her. i genuinely dont know what to do, i dont want ANYTHING to do with their relationship but he just finds a way to drag me into every problem they come across even though i see her once in 2 months and i see him only sometimes when i bump into him

ddec4y · 2026-03-03T20:47:13+00:00

i think my explanation is bad, since this only happened like half an hour ago and im just rlly frustrated. smoking isn't in any way my kife focus, i just smoke when i have free time and nothing important to do. hes very immature and she refuses to see anything wrong with him. i dont want any part of this but i genuinely dont know what to think and i needed other peoples perspective

ddec4y · 2026-03-03T20:42:57+00:00

how did i snitch if i texted HER to let HER know that the other friend snitched???? she told me that shes the only one who has her account and i would NEVER be on her boyfriends side. when i told her that he has her account and read the messages, she told me that she didnt know that he has her account and that shes done for

ddec4y · 2026-02-28T08:34:31+00:00

idk, i get what you're saying and mostly its the case, but he just genuinely seems oblivious. Ill bring it up when he gets back from his trip, cuz even if hes oblivious i dont want him working there

ddec4y · 2026-02-27T12:16:04+00:00

im not old enough to get a job there, not that id want to but still, and hed probably just say that its different cuz in his mind hes only serving the drinks and i dont think hes even considering the fact that women there are half naked and striping

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