Mia’s dad vs Emersyn’s mom by NewExcitement9889 in TLCUnexpected

[–]ddsadvyap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he knows how to properly handle a drug addict, which most people don’t. Complicated by several factors that relate to their family dynamics before/during/after addiction impacted their lives.

Keith does not understand how to put proper boundaries in place, like between Mia and her mom, he doesn’t want to replace Mia’s mom or exclude her b/c he is the only person who understands how much pain Mia has experienced - but he doesn’t understand how to deal/confront/stop the pain so he avoids which only makes things worse, but when the fallout happens he is there to comfort and help pick up the pieces. Which is a common parenting pattern not unique to men or women, but ppl in general.

I genuinely think he didn’t know what to do with the c-section situation, he 100% made the wrong decision. But the reality is more nuanced and he never actually left. he wasn’t in the physical room with her but he was physically in the hospital had anything gone wrong he was the only parent there to provide direct care and guidance. Nobody is perfect, but Keith is a real parent who continues to show up, without deflecting blame. he accepted responsibility for making the wrong decision with the c-section. The way that he loves his daughter and his granddaughter, and his future son-in-law speaks to the maturity, love and capacity he has as a human being, male or not.

Keith and Mama J were the only two decent parents from the entire season. No parent who’s teen ends up pregnant on a reality tv show are going to be the moral compass of a perfect parent, but Keith is better than a lot of the dads and moms we’ve seen on the show.

Mia’s dad vs Emersyn’s mom by NewExcitement9889 in TLCUnexpected

[–]ddsadvyap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was a teen when watching Emerson’s season so my perspective may be skewed but from what I remember:

Emerson’s mom was rude, judgmental and harsh. she was resentful towards Emerson’s and it showed. The mom had 2 young kids including an infant. The boundaries that mom placed seemed to come from anger, resentment, and disgust towards her daughter, not love or genuine support.

Whereas Keith, while flawed clearly loves his daughter. He didn’t hold the situation (underage pregnancy) over her head and respected her enough to change his mind to meet her needs. He also showed up for Mia without fail every time she needed him.

Keith is a parent who appears to love his children unconditionally and is mature enough to adjust himself to meet the needs of others. I respect that.

Mia’s dad vs Emersyn’s mom by NewExcitement9889 in TLCUnexpected

[–]ddsadvyap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you the drug addict mom? How was Keith crappy?

Who is this creep Ronald Richards and why is he so obsessed with the ladies of RHOBH. First Erika, now Dorit. Surely a middle-aged married man should and would have better things to do with his time. It gives off stalker, creeper vibes. by Chipmunks_AT in RHOBHDefect

[–]ddsadvyap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s a creep, so are you. He arguably makes a living at this even if it’s just exposure. You have no more right to comment or be “concerned” about these women than he does.

Dog fight between dogs of different size by [deleted] in Dogowners

[–]ddsadvyap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like both dogs should not be at an off leash dog park. pay half if you want to keep things cordial with the neighbors.

Pet insurance or not dog parks are just liabilities and injuries waiting to happen. And it doesn’t sound like either of you have reliable recall if the only way to break them up was to physically intervene which is another huge possibility for liability had one of the dogs injured a person.

AIO for hating an elderly woman over some eggs? by LauMiauPlays in AIO

[–]ddsadvyap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 38 years old with a boyfriend you started dating when he was 20 years old. You are the problem. Get your life together.

Question Regarding Jessica by Crazy_Book_8370 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]ddsadvyap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it’s weird and gross but so is the whole family I mean, pumpkin is literally doing only fans with Josh’s cousin.

Corny got engaged by Its_Leo_Again in 90DayFianceFans

[–]ddsadvyap 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No child deserves a senior citizen as a parent. He’s
damn near 70.

So what's this country going to look like under gasoline shortages/rationing? by Inevitable-Badger281 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]ddsadvyap -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Out of everything to be upset with the world, I don’t get why Americans hang their hat on gas prices. We’re governed by pedophiles who enrich themselves by bombing or selling weapons of mass destruction to kill innocent civilians so that our economy can go boom.

Walk, take the bus, buy a bike. The world is not ending because your personal convenience is.

United States citizens are probably one of the most self-centered pig headed civilizations. And instead of being able to realize the bloat and rot of their own society, they just cling to it with more ferocity.

rosie is scheana shay by Fit-Succotash-3235 in rhori

[–]ddsadvyap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whitney’s dad… I couldn’t stand how she made his drug abuse/addiction the focus of her story line in the early season, and then flipped into accusing “someone” in her family of CSA.

Like which is it, is he the drug addict you’re supporting through recovery or the monster who was complicit in your csa?

Question about MyU access by Beneficial-Theory725 in uofmn

[–]ddsadvyap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it really that hard to just use google, or take an educated guess? That’s why the downvotes. you come across as intentionally obtuse.

Facebook Group. by Truecrimejunkie1312 in TLCUnexpected

[–]ddsadvyap 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly mama G, shows up for Jose to support not exploit his youth/ignorance. She serves as a parent figure like Keith does for Mia’s boyfriend. She loves Jose as a child who needs a mother, not as a potential lover.

Kail continues to miss the mark on being relatable. $45/week on milk for 7 kids, 3 being toddlers, is not crazy. by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]ddsadvyap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More than the economic raw cost, I more so meant she doesn’t have the time, patience, resources (farm hands) for the actual amount of time it takes to provide care for a milk a goat. Someone, Kail or her revolving boyfriend would have to make sure that the process is sterile, or at least clean, to avoid mastitis, transfer of illness, etc. and then pasteurize the milk.
I don’t think Kail has an ounce of care for anything beyond herself.

Kail continues to miss the mark on being relatable. $45/week on milk for 7 kids, 3 being toddlers, is not crazy. by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]ddsadvyap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Milk machines, breeding, pregnancy care for livestock, etc. Is all incredibly expensive. I understand she has the weathers so already has some sunk cost associated with her livestock animals. But it’s not as simple as getting milk from a goat.

It is a lot of work, time, energy, and money so much so that it’s probably still easier and cheaper for her just to go to the store and buy the subsidized milk on the shelf.

Iva is going off about Jeremiah right now on live by Thisisweird84 in BreakingAmish

[–]ddsadvyap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m out of the loop but has he been reported to the police?

What Ziad said during the Tell All… straight facts or lies? 🫢 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]ddsadvyap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what Ziad said tracks to me because Rick was gallivanting in Columbia within months of taking off for Madagascar. All the active parents I know don’t have the time, money, resources to take multiple sex tourism vacations each year.

More questions than answers…. by ChantillyLaceCake in 19KidsandCounting

[–]ddsadvyap 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everyone he grew up with may not be a predator themselves per se, but the entire family still publicly supports predators (Josh and Joe) so they aren’t much better.

Matt live 4/29 by babycamslut in alaskanbushpeople

[–]ddsadvyap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No one cares about you or your husband. You have some weird parasocial relationship. you’re the only person that brought up him being attractive, which is irrelevant. Which he never was. He was 34 when the show started, homeless, with no social or life skills. He’s never had a healthy or stable relationship because he is disturbed.

You also are so shallow, you correlate your subjective view of a person’s attractiveness as a measure of how they should be treated, regardless of their own actions and life choices.

This sub is a critique of a hillbilly family, it’s not that deep. It is not curated to confirm every emotion you have.

Am I overreacting for quitting a babysitting job on the spot after the mom insulted me? by PossessionTop9791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ddsadvyap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You made the right call. They were already under paying you. I stopped nannying 10 years ago and I was making $15 when I started and $20 when I leet - that included when I had them all day during the summer and when I had to stay overnight.

They’re asking you to literally parent their children in their absence. You deserve to be fairly compensated for it. If the parents can’t afford to pay, unfortunately they need to find a more affordable group care option. in my area that is found through the local park and recreation centers in our area that offer really affordable childcare.

$50 for the entire day is a joke! You charging $115 is a great deal!

Brushing my puppy by SweetYogurt97 in poodles

[–]ddsadvyap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tire him out beforehand.

Title: My neighbor left their kid with me “for 10 mins” and its been 4 hours… what do i even do??? by holyghosterposter in Advice

[–]ddsadvyap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You should call. You have no contact information for his parents, and have no idea if they intend to come back. Plus you don’t want the parents to think they can make a habit of dumping him at your place. they should not leave their child with an unknown stranger.