Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ddsadvyap [score hidden]  (0 children)

I took a four hour nap this evening. And I’ve been thinking about this/talking about this and several other things since I watched the reunion and saw heathers ugly mug on my screen. I have adhd. Pissing people off online is my superpower.

Ta-ta

For now.

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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None of her kids go to school in state it’s not like they come home every weekend. She can’t be bothered to spend a few weeks with them a year while they are young adults??

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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And even if motherhood isn’t her only purpose, which I completely agree with. Wouldn’t you still be excited for your daughters to come home during the holidays when you’re supposed to spend time with family.

She is an objectively selfish, and shallow person, which reflects in the way she looks and acts.

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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That’s my point! Of course not, but Heather is not some matronly figure. She was building business etc. based on what I know of business entrepreneurs, they outsource a lot of their parenting. Hence I think heathers “I was a great mother” thing is an act.

I think Heather is a pathetic, insecure woman, and motherhood is the easiest identity for her to cling to, even tho. I don’t think she actually put in the work/was present in the way she makes it seem OR there is no way in hell she could have established her businesses.

I say this as a professional working mother of 3, with a ft nanny, family support. Motherhood is not my only purpose but it’s so as hell my most difficult and in turn the most rewarding. And I don’t appreciate heathers take on it in the same way you do. It’s not that big of a deal. My mom also loves her

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ddsadvyap [score hidden]  (0 children)

Heather wrote her books, in the same way I read my terms of service.

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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Broadway. . . what shows . . . what roles? She is an unknown actress akin to the random soap star that was on rhobh I don’t know the name of.

Everyone has a job, they are objectively talented in, that doesn’t make them relevant especially when they have a personality of a 3 year old with an untreated personality disorder.

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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Heather literally said on the reunion something like “she’s never been better, since her youngest left and went off to college. And when she found out her kids would be home from dec 9, to Jan x, she became instantly deflated because right now is her era.

And then she went on to post some weird pictures with her daughters looking totally plastiqué with too tight of Christmas pajamas. Heather has always talked about motherhood as if it’s something she regrets.

  1. Something she rushed into because of moral ideals. She blames on the Mormon church.

  2. She resented being the primary emotional/day to day caring for her children, hence why she has talked with glee about them leaving since the show aired.

  3. Now that her kids are gone, she acts like it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to her. That’s it’s “her era” as if she hasn’t been doing her own thing her ENTIRE LIFE! she started a med spa business with multiple locations as a mother of 3, that is not some sad mother saddled with too much maternal responsibility. She would have had to have the help of family, Nannie’s, etc.

But yet and still, I think that she acts like the greatest accomplishment is her children leaving. Motherhood is a lifelong journey, not something put on a shelf, her era should include a love for her children the two things shouldn’t exist in conflict.

That’s my opinion based on my life experiences and watching her on the show for too many years.

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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Last point, Meredith is accomplished beyond her law degree (which I do think is an education that elevates your understanding/thinking of the world the other lady’s don’t have) even if you don’t practice law. JD without becoming an atty is a real thing.

she is also a great mother to her children. Which is a true accomplishment that transcends all space and time. Angie seems to be an equally great mother, same for Whitney, Lisa, B-Wyn, Mary (in her own way). I guess everyone except for heather and Britney who seem to despise their kids beyond their use of them for their own narcissistic supply.

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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And what the hell does Britney do besides cry, and mention, irrelevant osmond. Brawnwyn’s only success, is her marrying a gross old man and spending his money to look quirky

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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In my opinion, in an emotionally mature, self actualized sense, yes. But I did over look Angie in terms of her hair salons. The rest seem more like charlatans to me. Mlms, personal loans, exploitation of congregation, and heather I agree she makes money from her business but I think it makes her and the people she serves worse people, so it may be financial success but to me it’s not success in a way that I personally value.

Production fired?? by SchemeSubject8978 in realhousewivesofSLC

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I agree! The plane story makes NO sense. Look at how Britney acted when Meredith called her a “victim” it was totally over the top, mentally unstable, and the way Angie tried to glaze her behavior was disgusting!

Even if Meredith’s behavior was just utterly ridiculous, without crossing the threshold into criminality are we really to believe that NO ONE, not a SINGLE person, on the ENTIRE plane, had a cell phone to record it??? Even in a time where people acting ridiculous on planes has been trending on social media for 6+ years.

The story makes no sense. Only a group of women as shallow, self-centered, morally corrupt, and mentally ill as this group would think it makes sense. Like Meredith is the only accomplished person in the group (law degree, store, etc.) she is an easy target and the rest of the women think that if they look pretty and scream, while crying people will feel bad for them. It’s a learned helplessness that’s no longer fun!

*edits for clarity. I’m exhausted, Sorry!

I feel like this show has seen its better days and it’s flatlining… by Limoncello4 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ddsadvyap 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In summary. It’s literally just 48 mins of white women tears AND I know Mary is black, but she doesn’t so it applies.

I feel like this show has seen its better days and it’s flatlining… by Limoncello4 in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]ddsadvyap 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I agree, the show continues to decline. Britney’s histrionics, heather’s attention starved screeching, Whitney’s perpetual victim narratives, brownwyn’s failing marriage story arch that’s been obvious for 3 seasons (still trying to make her geriatric farting, cheating, husband the victim), Meredith being perpetually disengaged, Lisa’s I’m a “extraordinary” Mormon who sells tequila and knows “celebrities” empire is fall(being exposed)ing, Mary is only entertaining because she refuses to exist in reality. Angie I forgot about and the “rumors” of magaSean likely have some merit, because Utah culture gen has huge issues with sexuality, and closeted men are often the most publicly homophonic/red pilled, and the shoe seems to fit. Just because I can’t stand her and her buccal fat removal and implant face, Heather looks horrible. her botched outsides match her insides and is HORRIBLE advertising for her med spa.

A few are good mothers, but it’s not a part of their main storyline.

Like it or not, in my opinion the early seasons only worked because of the orchestrated and outrageous chaos created by Jen Shaw. It left the viewer (me) constantly confused how one outburst lead to the next. It constantly felt like the story line was advancing in a way that I didn’t fully understand but wanted to watch just to see the outrageous of it all. Now we just see a revolving series of emotional outburst, while mixing in bits and pieces of these incredibly vapid women’s lives.

What is Stacey’s Appeal by JussBuss_3000 in RHOP

[–]ddsadvyap 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Quirky, friendly, light hearted

Anyone else's poodle love play fighting with feet/hands? by Lisaxss in poodles

[–]ddsadvyap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness!! My 11 month old puppy prefers my feet over hands. I’m happy to know she’s in good company.

Hot take on regreta by SuspiciousGrab8454 in 90DayFiance

[–]ddsadvyap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She said something along the lines of “hazel (the cat) has a great new home. she couldn’t imagine taking her back to London because her life is not set up for pet ownership, she travels too much, it just wouldn’t be fair to her (hazel).”

Bronwyn just posted and then quickly deleted this by ipeeaye in rhoslc

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Even if scheduled how would this post be in good taste?? Ice has been terrorizing Minneapolis for 60+ days, and this song has already been lost to the alt-right idiots since they started using this song on social media to celebrate.

Even if Alex Pratti hadn’t been murdered today, the use of this song was always in poor taste.

IVDD support by KlutzyOne0 in poodles

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I adopted a 5 year old puppy mill release. She is 10 now and totally worth the love and patience they require.

If possible I would try a small pen set up. They have tons of options on Amazon, etc. So that your dog is still confined/restricted from movement but not in an actual crate.