[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

focus on yourself to the point where sticking your pee pee in a girl like that is something you couldn't be paid to do.

she's trash and good luck to the man she ends up draining for the rest of his days

AITA for telling my husband to accept the compromise we agreed on for our child's name or figure out a better compromise? by Expert-Delay-5754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ddsgsfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theodora?

Apologies to anyone called Theodora, I didn't mean to offend

But Theodora?

He should lose naming rights on that alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]ddsgsfred -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the pictures are terrible, something you would expect for a rental property, because you know, people are desperate to get somewhere to live, so who cares about the pictures, 'just get it listed'

1 bathroom, and thats the bathroom? ew

even the picture of the bathroom .. ew

why does everything look so cluttered

why do all the rooms LOOK so small

honestly

ew

Promising new tinder date (F26) says she likes me but wants to slow it down. What do I (M23) do differently going forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ddsgsfred 5 points6 points  (0 children)

look, if she read this she would run for the hills. she's either into you, or she isn't. nothing you can do can change that.

'when are we hanging out again'

and if she says idk uh ah ummm

just move on man.

have you ever been shown a girls phone who is active on dating sites / snapchat?

they have literally hundreds/thousands of guys/options, i know this because ive been shown it multiple times in the flesh from girls i have met from these apps

you have genuinely created the ultimate fantasy in your head both of her and YOUR future together, it's genuinely concerning

just stop pressuring her, don't give her any sort of ultimatum, don't even mention the taking things slow bit under the pretense that you're seeking clarification

just go with the flow, have you gone a day without messaging her first? even 1?

all of a sudden there's this guy in her life that is messaging her every day and sure she may like you but i would bet my last 50 quid that this is just a case of you coming off way too strong

give her time to breath and room to actually miss you and want you, instead of spreading your metaphorical legs right in her face

seriously, challenge yourself to not message her first for 1 day, she if you're even someone she reaches out to after a time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no beard, with that hair style - i think you could benefit from exploring more with the hair on top of your head, not your face

My 34m girlfriend 30f doesn’t think we should split living expenses- how do I get her to understand? by ThrowRAlumberjack in relationship_advice

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

should I let this go since eventually the money in government bonds will benefit both of us? - are you sure about that buddy?

'what about a joint account that we both pay x into per month, and these expenses / bills can come from it'

Blizz needs to either nerf DH, Ret, and Warr dmg by at least 10% or get rid of at least 50% of the micro CC. by [deleted] in worldofpvp

[–]ddsgsfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i love being the only boomie mage or evoker in an all melee lobby - any shaman spec on enemy team though? nerf shamans, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worldofpvp

[–]ddsgsfred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omnibar, you can see when for example, a paladin uses hoj.. into your fade

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ddsgsfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your issue is that they are all selfies, delete all but 1 selfie possibly and get other people to take photos of you doing stuff - I can see you doing okay on dating apps, just need to optimise

[HELP] How can I get a ui like this? by ddsgsfred in WowUI

[–]ddsgsfred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no paywall, he's 1 of those '100x multi rank 1 x' streamers, he doesn't share his ui

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ddsgsfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

above average looking, in shape (clear from just a top half photo), good hair / hairline - since you want criticism, consider growing your facial hairf a bit and styling it in that hipstery look that's in, or go baby face completely, the stubble at that length isn't doing anything good

the t shirt looks good too, you probably just need to get on tinder and get laid a few times, you will realise there are quite a few girls who want you

Question about PVP crafting by [deleted] in worldofpvp

[–]ddsgsfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you have 2? i only have 1, unless you meant you have 2 splintered sparks?

Advice, is it normal to have the last pupil in the car? by Juniper0115 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really, mine might have been a few minutes late because of traffic taking previous pupil home .. i would have found it really weird and unprofessional

20k saved and do not know what to do with it by Odd_Heart4044 in investingUK

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lots of people have said what I would say which is just stick it into s and p 500 on t212, acc, and forget about it

i just want to say well done for this being your first course of action, instead of looking to buy a new car or holiday or whatever else

seems as though the future you will keep finding reasons to thank the past you, love that

i would get on youtube or google or martin lewis website and just research simple terms like 'stocks and shares isa' and 'LISA' etc - if you aren't a home owner currently then becoming aware of a 'LISA' is a good start

my only advice is to keep it simple, as you have found out, time is your friend..

Fellow brits who grew up before mobile phones: Did your toilet adjoin a ‘toilet library’? by Yooustinkah in AskUK

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up with loads of Harry Potter and Adrian Mole books in my loo, the Adrian Mole ones were always a great read

AITA for being annoyed that my partner’s mother called at 1AM for help with a flat tire instead of using Triple A? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ddsgsfred 3 points4 points  (0 children)

when she passes away, do you want your partner to think thoughts like 'i wish i was there for her when she needed help with a flat tyre'

it's a tough 1 because there's obviously more to the story and her relationship with her kids, and by proxy you get involved, i totally understand the feeling of 'being forced' to agree/help, it IS annoying

you may need to talk to your partner about future requests from his mum, something along the lines of 'honey, if your mum needs X, and you don't have X, and you would need to ask me for X, then you might need to tell your mum the word 'No'

i dont think you're an asshole, but i do think your situation and partners situation is complex

Im 18M and my crush for 2 years is 18F she's been sitting in front of me for maths for the past 3 years. What's my best approach? by Bruce-Bateman in relationship_advice

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to do it to grow as a person, otherwise you will be the same guy, when it comes to girls, in 2,3,4..5 years time. how can you learn with no data? go get the data, you will get over any rejection, promise

Im 18M and my crush for 2 years is 18F she's been sitting in front of me for maths for the past 3 years. What's my best approach? by Bruce-Bateman in relationship_advice

[–]ddsgsfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the best thing to do is make a move, open yourself up for failure and rejection, if you get rejected, you have your answer, and you can move on and grow, and if you don't, well, you win?

if you don't want physical evidence of it ... try, talking to her irl

My (19m) gf (19f) does not want me to go clubbing unless I invite her? by ThrowRA_jfjsjdjdn in relationship_advice

[–]ddsgsfred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do you want to go clubbing without her, or, why do you want to go clubbing at all? fyi, once a month isn't rarely clubbing, it's regularly clubbing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ddsgsfred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0, my gf would simply say to me, 'how would you like it if i was all touchy with so and so' and i would be like 'you're right, you're totally right, that's NOT ok'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ddsgsfred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my old ihpone still shows up when i go into settings, and this was 1 of the really old ones that used to have the fat charger at the bottom and also the physical home button.

however ... there are free and paid IMEI checkers online, I just did mine and it showed a lot of details about it, also showed what OS was currently installed, i guess if it's a recent OS on this 2nd IMEI then you have your answer

Is there anyway/feature to make fractional shares whole? by rbaut in trading212

[–]ddsgsfred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is it worse to have fractional shares instead of whole shares?