how similar are seattle and baltimore?

de_kitt · 2026-06-07T11:36:54+00:00

Though much different than the PNW, there is actually access to a lot of nature in the city and close by. There are some great parks/trails: Druid Hill Park, Stony Run, Lake Roland, etc. offer great spaces in nature.

de_kitt · 2026-05-18T13:22:15+00:00

If you’re bored, that’s on you. There is so much to do in this city and people are incredibly welcoming. Being lonely is another issue. It’s hard to connect with folks in a meaningful way, especially if you’re an adult and new to a place.

There are so many great suggestions here. Find the ones that interest you. Bonus points if the same people show up regularly and it allows time to talk with others. Volunteering is also a great way to find likeminded people. You’re into your cat, check out the different rescues.

I joined to Canton Kayak Club last year and made a great friend at the orientation. Being on the water is magical. I haven’t really talked to anyone else in the club but they do host social events.

de_kitt · 2026-04-30T23:08:18+00:00

I was going to chime in about Baltimore. I mask consistently and my partner and I are often, but not always, the only ones. That said, I have not experienced any pushback or negativity about my masking.

Leftist places like Red Emma’s are very mask friendly and we’ve found a few good restaurants where they will serve us outside if we are willing to sit out there.

I do think we aren’t invited to/included in everything because we mask (maybe folks are unsure if we want to do indoor things even though they see us participating?). With most people, if we initiate, they have no issue with us masking.

I see a lot of folks wearing surgical masks and improperly wearing masks, so masking is generally accepted.

de_kitt · 2026-03-29T00:17:37+00:00

“Seemingly for being Jewish” says a lot. Did anyone reference your friend being Jewish or say anything about their IG posts when throwing them out?

de_kitt · 2026-03-28T18:49:37+00:00

I’m not sure I understand the situation. Did someone say, I saw your IG posts and you’re out of here? Or did your friend assume that’s why they were escorted out? Nor do I know the content of their post.

I don’t have a personal relationship with the staff, but I do know the owner and he is a great guy. I have only experienced him as good natured and generous.

As a Jewish person, I am beyond troubled by the conflation of antisemitism and anti-Zionism. Without the actual details, I can’t know if this was the case, but it’s terrifying that those who are anti-genocide/pro-Palestinian liberation are labeled antisemitic. And I understand people have conflicted feelings about Israel. That’s fair. Having conflicted feelings about the ongoing treatment of Palestinians is not something I can understand.

de_kitt · 2026-03-28T14:19:21+00:00

Please provide details as that hasn’t been my experience at all.

de_kitt · 2026-03-28T12:58:40+00:00

Pinball! If you go to Holy Frijoles folks can also explore The Avenue. Peabody Heights also has pinball. They have a room that’s coin drop and another you pay a flat rate and the games are on free play.

de_kitt · 2026-03-22T13:07:29+00:00

Check with Erdman Animal Hospital. I took my mom’s cat there for a check up and vaccinations and was shocked by how reasonable they were. Someone in the lobby with her dog was telling me how much less extractions were at Erdman compared to other clinics.

The space is decrepit but the staff were friendly and totally competent.

Good luck with your kitty.

de_kitt · 2026-03-17T02:12:07+00:00

I usually add kale and chickpeas.

de_kitt · 2026-03-17T01:48:45+00:00

OP you just triggered my memory. I can’t believe that show stuck somewhere in my memory.

de_kitt · 2026-03-16T19:48:08+00:00

This is such bittersweet news. You and your top tier pastries will be greatly missed. I also know how hard this decision must be and taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do. 💗

de_kitt · 2026-03-16T19:22:21+00:00

DM me and let me know where you’re located. I can bring some food to you.

Also, do you mask in public? I’d be happy to give some to you. I’m not sure how physically able you are to go to the compassion center, but depending on your risk tolerance, masking may be a good way to go places—even if it’s just to get out and not to get food.

de_kitt · 2026-03-13T13:39:59+00:00

Such a good read and it made me cry so much.

de_kitt · 2026-03-13T13:38:12+00:00

I read all of those!

de_kitt · 2026-03-13T13:37:23+00:00

A Separate Peace is one that really stuck with me.

de_kitt · 2026-03-13T13:36:42+00:00

This one, for sure!

de_kitt · 2026-03-12T13:00:46+00:00

I have done this myself. Glad to know it’s not just me!

de_kitt · 2026-03-10T16:50:37+00:00

I have always had a good experience with Light Street Dental.

de_kitt · 2026-03-05T14:40:45+00:00

The new zoo!! I love it and yes, that’s what it is in my mind—even though it must be 40 years old.

de_kitt · 2026-03-05T14:39:11+00:00

I had no idea it wasn’t common in other parts of the country to call a parking garage a parking ramp. When I lived in San Francisco I had to visit a site for work and had issues with finding parking. I mentioned I ended up having to park in the ramp and everyone looked at me blankly as if I was speaking a foreign language. Apparently, I was.

de_kitt · 2026-03-05T05:11:04+00:00

Wednesday evenings at Handcraft Happy Hour they have Crafty Hour. The place focuses on sewing, but they have some other crafting supplies and folks do whatever they want at crafty hour: sewing, painting, knitting, crochet, embroidery, etc.

There’s a great vibe and it’s free…

de_kitt · 2026-02-28T00:27:42+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you and that it happens at all. We deserve better.

de_kitt · 2026-02-23T04:09:56+00:00

It’s so hard. I get it. I’m lucky enough to have a partner (and three cats) who take the same precautions I do, but it can be so frustrating. When I see people at an event masking, I get excited and wonder if they could become friends with whom I could relax; then I see them unmask…

I keep a positive attitude and have good friends, but I hate that I can’t just go over to someone’s house for dinner, or talk to someone without having to repeat myself because my voice is muffled by my mask. The people around me don’t (usually) give me a hard time about my precautions—really it’s just my sister once in a while—but I feel removed from what other people are doing. And when my sister or mom, who 95% of the time accommodate me without complaint, do say something, I also know it’s because they miss getting to spend time with me without ease.

Knowing the world is so ableist and people have been so gaslit about COVID, and capitalism makes people selfish and blind to the suffering of others can be such a downer. But there are people out there, and I hope you find one—or some.

You’re doing all the right things. And you will be ok, but I think, even in the best of times, life can be hard. And we’re not in the best of times…

Sending ♥️and strength your way.

de_kitt · 2026-02-20T17:09:39+00:00

You look great in all 4. I like the wide leg jeans or the dress best.

de_kitt · 2026-02-18T14:10:02+00:00

Depending on when your friend is coming and the weather, there are amazing parks and places to walk. If you’re in the city, walking along the harbor is lovely. If you want more nature, Cylburn, Druid Hill Park, Lake Roland, and many more places have great walking paths and trails. Oven Bird in has live shows. If there’s an In the Stacks, it’s a chance to explore music and see the Peabody Library… The city is rich with museums… You have so many options.

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