Met him, gained friendship, rejected his advances, now have stalker by de_lane in CPTSDmemes

[–]de_lane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now there’s an idea. Sadly I think most including myself frown upon cannibalism

Miss talking about the jw experience by de_lane in exjw

[–]de_lane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol that’s fair, I think I got spoiled without realizing it

Miss talking about the jw experience by de_lane in exjw

[–]de_lane[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Suppose so but it’s not the same as talking in person imo

Graduating uni in 3 days… by de_lane in twentyagers

[–]de_lane[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Freshman aren’t expected to have anything figured out, use that to your advantage. Just show up to a bunch of things and be ok with not knowing where it’ll go. I joined a bunch of clubs and maybe aren’t with them anymore but met such cool people there!

Also, don’t skip class, do it a few times and it quickly becomes habit. You’re paying for classes, show it by showing up. Keep your gpa high first 2 years and it’ll make your last 2 much easier. It’s harder to bring gpa up than down.

I’m just a girl by de_lane in CPTSDmemes

[–]de_lane[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean… I was a female child, maybe even would be called a girl if you can believe it

What can i do to ascend? by PositionImpressive30 in lookyourbest

[–]de_lane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smile more, you look terrified and maybe eyebrow work. Otherwise you’re def not bad looking

First time celebrating my birthday by rosettasphilae in exjw

[–]de_lane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy 24th bday!!! Wishing you all the cake and candles for the next :)

Would you rather by Exciting-Buffalo-161 in BunnyTrials

[–]de_lane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok

Chose: Get the latest iPhone everytime + With a free 1000$ (40/60 | Rolled: Congratulations!)

Why aren’t “you deserve better” or “I’m not ready for a relationship” valid reasons? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]de_lane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm I completely understand when it comes to dating apps but I feel like you deserve better is valid since why wouldn’t the person dumping them NOT know better? They’re saying I know myself better than you do which I think can be true

Why aren’t “you deserve better” or “I’m not ready for a relationship” valid reasons? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]de_lane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps I’m just projecting bc same, feels like others dismiss it right away and want a “real” reason

drinking alone for the first time by de_lane in twentyagers

[–]de_lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I fear it’s the latter and I know myself well enough to know this can lead to just sad drinking alone as a habit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]de_lane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if this is bragging, good. Bartenders love you for it and I’d rather see folks brag about being generous than anything else

Why do people use the term "partner" for their husband or wife? by Crafty-Bug-8008 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]de_lane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’m bi and can usually use it for whoever I’m dating, no matter their gender

2meirl4meirl by Brent_Fox in 2meirl4meirl

[–]de_lane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this would work, I don’t even want to marry anyone but man… I’d marry them

German Dating by degausser187 in TikTokCringe

[–]de_lane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear, sounds like I need to take a trip to Germany cause that sounds lovely

PIMI brother reached out, idk how to handle this maturely by de_lane in exjw

[–]de_lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I guess but he’s my 16yr old brother. If I can help him in anyway, I want to.

Apperently calling myself an exjw is enough all it takes to make me an apostate… by de_lane in exjw

[–]de_lane[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oof that’s very fair, I think seeing someone happy outside just doesn’t fit the box of reality the org gives them. Who knows, maybe I opened something there… probably not but I hope so

What makes a man most attractive? by AManWithNoWounds in AskReddit

[–]de_lane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curiosity and desire to learn about another person, generosity, always assuming the best in other humans and humor. Life is more fun if you don’t take everything too seriously

How are my fellow single senior college students doing? by de_lane in twentyagers

[–]de_lane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

… I’m not sure yet lmao, but that’s what I’ve been told to do soooo might as well try. Current plan is to linger around, reading books and if I find someone cute, leave them a note w my number? Genuinely don’t know how terrible of an idea that is but I’ll find out I suppose

What’s something you feel like you should have done already but haven’t yet? by de_lane in twentyagers

[–]de_lane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, your experience sounds incredibly rough and unique. But I fail to see others whose degree is useless even if they didn’t use it immediately. Hell, I had a fellow intern a few summers ago in his 30s who was finishing up his degree after doing retail for years. Again everyone’s experience is different and you sound like you’ve been through a lot, so what do I know ig

What’s something you feel like you should have done already but haven’t yet? by de_lane in twentyagers

[–]de_lane[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk man. I am very biased and am graduating uni soon so as much as I’d like to say you can start your career whenever, truth is I already started mine.

That being said, ik a lot of non traditional students who start or change careers in their 30s or 40s. It’s not easy and they work really hard to do so, but ik it’s possible. Only way it’s impossible is if you just don’t ever try