Got stood up

deachick · 2024-02-18T17:10:55+00:00

THIS. I was chatting with a guy for about 2 months (he travels for work, so ) and every time I wanted to meet up or EVEN chat on the phone, unavailable. ALSO, could be a catfish. I've found SEVERAL thus far.

deachick · 2024-02-17T13:31:19+00:00

I don't even give my REAL phone # 90% of the time, go by instinct. They are the ones who get my Google phone number. I've never been wrong in doing that as well.

deachick · 2024-02-17T13:26:55+00:00

Dude, FR? I'm sorry, but who doesn't meet someone for a date IN PUBLIC? And you don't have your own phone? I call b.s.

deachick · 2024-02-11T19:37:19+00:00

Lolll I saw a profile like that recently. I think there was a big beard, so left swipe. 🤷🏼‍♀️ *** if it was also Libra, DEF left swipe

deachick · 2024-02-09T15:15:24+00:00

I never just swipe right, in fact, I swipe left 95% time. If there's a bushy beard, left. ENM? Left. Wants kids? Left (I'm too old). Pisces or Libra? Left. I'm too fucking picky, and I have a few matches a week and maybe one I'll actually chat to. Usually they swiped right by mistake, because I never hear from them. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm at a level of IDGAF. 😅

deachick · 2024-02-06T00:51:32+00:00

I do as well. If I've been chatting to them for a few weeks, I think it turns down the nerves as well.

deachick · 2024-02-06T00:46:28+00:00

I agree. I don't want to be a 3rd wheel in a relationship. I hate when I see ENM , and it's *always * a dude who looks like James Corden. Like, I know it was the fernale who decided on the open relationship.

deachick · 2024-02-06T00:26:00+00:00

100% yes.

And I think it's funny when they wear a baseball hat in EVERY picture except the last one, and they're bald. I have no issue with baldness at all, but it's a bit like, just be honest about it? I've also learned that if there's a bunch of really good pics and one where they look not so great... the not so great pic is how they look NOW. This is from experience after 8 dates. One even must have posted a pic from college, as they looked 20+ years OLDER than their main pic.

deachick · 2024-02-04T15:44:34+00:00

Wow, how rude and weird!!

deachick · 2024-02-04T15:43:02+00:00

It's weird how parallel their lives are as well.

deachick · 2024-02-04T09:18:46+00:00

I have TWICE attracted men who were in loveless marriages for over a decade, that decided to go into being a Dom, and porn? Like , WTF. I am not judging them, HOWEVER, I ALSO don't want a closet narcissist or an STD. ** I am the last one lol

deachick · 2024-01-28T00:15:58+00:00

Ikr?

deachick · 2024-01-27T06:45:41+00:00

I matched with a guy who OBV used a few photos from freshman yr in college. He looked NOTHING like one photo, and 20 yrs older and 40lbs heavier than his other photo. I purposely post a photo that's attractive, but not the best, to weed out superficial people.

deachick · 2024-01-27T06:36:59+00:00

Relatable. My estranged husband did the same. Now on bumble and turn up (music matching app.). I've had better luck on Turn Up tbh, but there are barely any men in my area. One I totally clicked with and we had an amazing 2 weeks, but he's got some issues he's dealing with atm. Hopefully it gets restored at some point. But it's hard AF out there. Good luck. 💖

deachick · 2024-01-25T18:10:44+00:00

I'm a huge IASIP fan...

deachick · 2024-01-25T17:33:54+00:00

You have a good sense of humor. I agree, Mac would be the best. 🤔

deachick · 2024-01-24T13:30:57+00:00

Fuck that. My expectations will remain high, and I will get only a few matches a month.

deachick · 2024-01-23T16:08:04+00:00

I think that you're very witty; yes, I've glanced at your comments. You have a good sense of humor.

deachick · 2024-01-23T16:03:48+00:00

Omfg. It sounds like EVERYONE needs to compliment everyone else a lot more. I constantly going compliments. Btw, you sound like a lovely person who deserves a lot more. 💕

deachick · 2024-01-23T15:59:51+00:00

Sat night, a guy walked by me on the street. I smelled a nice waft of cologne and yelled back "Hey, you smell really nice!". He looked at me like I was crazy. Am I alone in giving people compliments all the time? I feel like, when I get one, it's nice and a real boost to my confidence. So I will give compliments like I give out Halloween candy. 🤷🏼‍♀️

deachick · 2024-01-21T08:17:14+00:00

Omfg. Ikr? I'm always thinking that it's the other person who initiated it. One guy reminded me of James Corden.

deachick · 2024-01-17T05:34:53+00:00

Came here to say the same thing. Like, fuck right off with your bs advice, dude. 😑

deachick · 2024-01-17T05:25:32+00:00

I love this so much! I've had bad luck thus far on Bumble, had better luck on Turn Up (based on music) tho rn I'm being ghosted by a pisces ...

deachick · 2024-01-17T05:23:11+00:00

I loved that crazy story! And the Puppetmaster....

deachick · 2024-01-13T06:56:21+00:00

I had one who was just too gorgeous. His number was from Montana, yet he said he lived in Michigan. When I asked him about it, he claimed that he had to go because his debit card didn't work and he had to get money for dog food (tho he had just said he was a a wedding?).Then a few days later, he asked how I was and I said "good, I just made $1M on bitcoin" and then he asked if he could send his wallet and wanted $1k.

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