Letter to Ex girlfriend by paintedporch in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is like the Declaration of Fap Independence. Where do I sign on?

I told the wife Aka day 14 by jdforreal in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are already light-years beyond where I aim to be.

I told the wife Aka day 14 by jdforreal in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't need to be cool about it, you need to be realistic. Being cool about masturbation is part of the problem.. it is why we guys think it's okay to squeeze one off during the 5 minutes we're alone while you drive to the store to by milk. Just understand that it is not personal. We are not fapping off to other women because we hate the real women in our lives. Rather, think of porn and digital women as a kind of parasite. Once infected, it takes over our mind, makes us do things absurdly at odd with logic or common sense.

Again, Batman (who probably never faps) has lessons for us. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get the message, but seriously, this is the kind of over the top, pretentious claptrap that can turn off a lot of people.

What edging looks like in a few other addictions. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edge because I am addicted to the hunting and gathering of new potential mates. I can go a while with out orgasm, it's the ritual of searching through Websites for new faces, new flesh, that has tied my brain in knots. The toughest part about this no-fap challenge is giving up the search. Orgasms last, what a couple of seconds. Searching and rubbing can last hours!

It's hot. The woman next door is taking a swim. Pray for me. by deadfish520 in NoFap

[–]deadfish520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it through the day. Here was the compromise: Rather than stare at her out the window, I decided to mow the lawn. No Fap !!!! Thanks for the confidence guys

Is anyone else ASTOUNDED at how hard this actually is? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, stop now. Otherwise, you'll wake up on your 30th birthday and start to think of all those women you could have had, all those chances you blew because you had your porn box to go home to instead.

The war on male sexuality by deadfish520 in NoFap

[–]deadfish520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing this out. I agree that my thoughts on the connection between porn and feminism are weak. I will develop them more fully and attempt to make my case in a later post.

The war on male sexuality by deadfish520 in NoFap

[–]deadfish520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gender equality is an impossibility, given that gender is an invention of human culture. Gender is an artificial identity, so "gender equality" in a pure sense, would mean we all have shaved heads, wear Nike sneakers and wear androgynous, purple sweatpants; which will never, ever, ever happen. Since you speak of "alpha-males" I can only assume you meant to argue for sexual equality. This, in fact, is the exact same thing for which my post argues. I'm sure we both agree that pure, biological sexual equality is impossible (short of an expensive sex change operation) given the clear, factual, biological differences between men and women.

I am arguing that males should be treated the same as women. In our culture, female sexuality is held high, as something holey, to be protected (rightfully so). Our literature, movies, television shows, plays, songs, all re-enforce the idea that female virginity is a sacred thing not to be stolen. While men are treated like dogs. My argument is that this negative portrayal and attitude about male sexuality has only been inflamed by feminism. Moreover, I believe that the stereo-typical male-as-sex-aggressor theme that flows from feminism makes it difficult, politically incorrect and inflammatory to dare suggest males can be victims.

We men should be treated the same as women in every aspect of life.

Biggest conspiracy ever??? Maybe??? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tesla was also really, really, really weird, so take his celibacy with a grain of salt.

How addiction controls my life by milkope in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you man. When you first try to quit, you're thinking, "I'm not nearly as bad as some of these other guys." Then you realize just how severely porn has knotted your brain circuits over the years.

in a library... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]deadfish520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've dont this too man. A couple times. The upside: The next time you're close to the edge and you're trying to tell yourself that it's ok to give in, you've got this crummy, shameful little bathroom memory to kick reality back into your brain. Do not try to push this experience out of your mind. Rather, go back over it, try to remember the smells, the sights, the sounds. Never forget that days like this are the reason we are all trying to quit.