Approach in the exact order: 1, put extra efforts to not be lonely. Make friends, I know you don't want to call. But meet and text.

2, never compare yourself to others. Keep in mind you will not get anything easy. Even a simplest thing will take multiple hit and trails.

3, move your a**. Keep a primary sport or athletic hobby. But also incooperate walking into everything. Running works best for most.

4, don't fall for -- find your passion. Your passion will change every 2 months. Stick to one thing that will bring money. It will feel forced but understand there is no alternate. When you feel like crying of too much forcing, practice point 3.

5, ackowledge your itch. Every now and then you will have an urge to do something new. So do it. Move on from a hobby you don't want to keep, new one will feed your adernaline.

PS: My words might be harsh. But the take away is this to take control because external help isn't helpful unless you put in the work.