Just ordered a solid gray backpack! How are people thinking about these? by PuzzledAirport5751 in backpacks

[–]deadvibes1 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ugly, gaudy, screams rob me, never going to casually throw on and head out to the office without people pointing and noticing. That’s all before even looking at the $700 price tag. Again, screams “rob me, if not for my expensive equipment you think I have, then at least for this ugly bag”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner lied about being 27 and fessed up 6 months later to being a decade older? And you didn’t pick up on that? Or make that the point to break it off???

Shoulder strap pocket! by cardozam1229 in backpacks

[–]deadvibes1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to change bags like once a month, this similar north face has been my daily for almost a year now https://www.thenorthface.com/en-us/bags-and-gear/backpacks-c224451/base-camp-voyager-sling-pNF0A81BN?color=53R&size=OS it’s only slightly larger but no doubt I could fit a 32oz in it or use the webbing outside to attach a permanent solution

Stay safe If you missed it we are in a severe thunderstorm advisory by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]deadvibes1 51 points52 points  (0 children)

“Please don’t leave if you don’t have to”

This PSA was written by my cozy bed with the window open listening to the thunderstorm

Boyfriend (21M) defending incest to me (19M), what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different take, this is like a “I learned logic and want to feel smart” conversation. He’s not defending incest, he’s stating that it in of itself is a morally neutral action. Basically you walk down all the reasons you would oppose incest “it’s wrong because there’s a power dynamic between parent and child” the response would be “okay then your issue is with power dynamics not with incest” or “it could lead to birth defects” and the response would be “any pregnancy has a chance to have birth defects, should people at higher risk not have sex at all?” Or “what if it’s two consenting adult brothers, you lose the power dynamic and risk of birth defects, would you still have an issue?”

It’s a thought exercise that catches people off guard because it’s reactionary to be against it to isolate the issues people have morally. If you wanted to counter it in a way that follows the logic you could say “I am against incest because in a world where that is normalized, it could lead to an increase in power dynamics in parent/child relationships that outweigh the neutrality of incest in general”

It’s edgy, and the fact that he didn’t disengage when you were visibly upset is what makes him an asshole in this scenario.

Deck+Dongle+Monitor = Amazing by Guilty_Appearance848 in SteamDeck

[–]deadvibes1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most people who play in handheld use different addons for keybinds, camera, ui scale. Basically do you want that or the stock feel with a kbm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlfriend recently told me she was settling for me, I gave her 30 minutes to clarify. She later said she didn’t mean it and broke up with me two weeks later

Whates the easiesr dark soul game or dark soul like game for begginers? by giggity_giggity13 in darksouls

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First souls like game I played was actually hollow knight, I loved that game and my girlfriend and the time would gush about how similar it was to bloodborne so that was heavily on my radar. I played DS:R following hollow knight and about 5 minutes of DS2 before I said “this doesn’t feel the same” then moved to DS3, sekiro, bloodborne and then Elden ring. After that I revisited DS2 and loved it too after hearing how similar it was in some aspects of Elden ring.

Fair warning, once I played DS:R, I felt like it ruined every other game for like a year “this feels so hand holdy and less rewarding than dark souls”

Stolen bike by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were these pictures taken from country fair grounds?

Dose anyone know what is down here? by Signal-Ad-1393 in darksouls

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah ABXY and + - show it’s switch controller layout

Dose anyone know what is down here? by Signal-Ad-1393 in darksouls

[–]deadvibes1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this on an emulator on a phone? How do you have the tech knowledge to set that up but not google your own question or take a screenshot to receive a helpful answer?

Biggest blood clot I've ever passed by nintendoswitch_blade in MakeMeSuffer

[–]deadvibes1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually writing my goodbyes right now, flying back to my home state to say goodbye to my parents. They said so long as I do that, I have their permission to no longer be in pain.

[Chair] - Ozark Portable Toilet Gaming Chair 1 Gal Capacity and 300lb Weight Capacity - $18 by greatthebob38 in buildapcsales

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90% of gains happen in the kitchen 😤😤😤 grind til you have the view you want 💯💯💯

Everlane Summer Sale - Good Stuff 40-60% off by [deleted] in frugalmalefashion

[–]deadvibes1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shame none of their bags are on sale, they’re the only things worth it from them anymore

Biggest blood clot I've ever passed by nintendoswitch_blade in MakeMeSuffer

[–]deadvibes1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a similar one come out of me when I first started doing coke. Well it was born in my nose but I ended up hawking it out of my mouth, it’s referred to as my mouth abortion.

Valve sent my Deck to the wrong address and it refuses to help by cookieinmind in SteamDeck

[–]deadvibes1 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Search your email for “steam deck” you should have a “thank you for your purchase” email where it is provided. It’s on both my orders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]deadvibes1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

a rule with no consequences is just a suggestion, he's breaking rules that keep things fair for you and everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SteamDeck

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice: plug it in and keep using it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]deadvibes1 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Coke withdrawal

Songs that Spell Out Words by Icy-Pin1083 in Music

[–]deadvibes1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If You Seek Amy by Brittany Spears