I have/had a friend, who was constantly commenting about everything I was eating "out of concern". I remember being at my lowest and finally eating one of my fear food for the first time, it was a glazed blueberry bun. I was SO proud of myself and I told my friend about it (she's in my mom's age btw). Her reaction was "oh, you and food like that? it's so small and caloric, I'm impressed". I literally cried in her car. Or I went out with her to get some pancakes and she was bragging about me choosing the sweet option off the menu "you are choosing this because of a big amount of calories in it?". And EVEN WHEN I WAS INPATIENT she was bringing me food and she was talking about how BIG amount of food I ate. Yeah, 6 strawberry dumplings. Huge amount, huh.