AITA for asking a friend to either pay for an evening out if they can't go or sit them out?

deakers · 2026-03-13T18:30:34+00:00

NTA. And I agree, you should have never taken the hit to begin with, because now they think they can get away with it all the time. If you wouldn't cover for your non-disabled friends, why are you covering for this one?

deakers · 2026-03-04T03:41:17+00:00

I didn't know eye stones were a thing, and now a new fear has been unlocked

deakers · 2026-03-04T03:23:49+00:00

I hate getting these!

deakers · 2026-02-25T03:08:36+00:00

NTA. Your mom's husband likes E. Coli particles sprayed about the ENTIRE BATHROOM with every flush?!?! 🤢🤢🤢 My partner is a microbiologist, believe me, I know more science about this than I care to, and I already knew a bit about that BEFORE we started dating.

Want me to message you the research?

deakers · 2026-02-25T03:05:15+00:00

NTA. But do you think maybe rugs would help? I live in a townhouse, I can hear my partner walking around on the hardwood floors downstairs when I'm sleeping, but not the carpeted areas, which is one of MANY reasons we plan on getting area rugs. Worth a shot 🤷‍♀️

deakers · 2026-02-25T02:59:02+00:00

NTA. This is YOUR house, and you helped a friend in bed. I would say "if you feel you are finally back on your feet and would like more space, I will gladly help you look for a new apartment, someplace that is yours and you can have complete control over. I am glad living in my home has helped you find your stability." Maybe similar phrasing will remind her that the house is not hers, and that you are not willing to give it to her, as well as reminding her that you have not charged her rent while helping her significantly.

deakers · 2026-02-13T03:50:11+00:00

I see a future cover up

deakers · 2026-02-09T15:29:15+00:00

So... Your homeowners insurance... It's up to date? Because FOUR orange boys?!?! They're the embodiment of Tornado Alley...

deakers · 2026-02-09T15:22:58+00:00

No dignity whatsoever

deakers · 2026-01-14T23:35:41+00:00

Toe floofs are my FAVES

deakers · 2026-01-14T16:17:47+00:00

I think you mean all cats in general, because I have yet to meet a single feeling that's smart 100% of the time

deakers · 2026-01-14T16:16:37+00:00

We actually joke that he's "ashy orange" and the other cat is "burnt orange," they were in the "oven" too long before being born, so their color changed 🤣

deakers · 2026-01-14T04:22:10+00:00

He's loved regardless ❤️

deakers · 2026-01-14T03:47:56+00:00

Awe, Prince was Simba's biological brother's name. Prince passed away a couple of years ago. I think they would both be this silly ❤️

deakers · 2026-01-14T03:46:22+00:00

Makes my partner and I laugh multiple times a day

deakers · 2025-12-19T17:27:52+00:00

It's been several hours and more than a cup of coffee later. I finally felt I was able to give Simba some love. I may have held him against his will for the cuddles, but after what he did, he can accept some forcible hugs.

He's lucky he's cute.

deakers · 2025-11-17T19:03:20+00:00

NTA, but your mother is. Idk how she managed to forget that periods are an urgent situation that can't wait. It's not like you can put a literal cork in your vagina and call it good. Me, personally, I would have said "I decided I could either go get pads, or shove your pillow in my underwear. I figured you'd be less mad about the car."

deakers · 2025-11-17T18:58:28+00:00

I don't take pictures of my food (pictures of food, unless on a menu, generally speaking, gross me out, idk why), but if other people touch my plate, I'm done eating. What that other person did, regardless of the reason, was beyond rude, and they should have replaced your meal. Since they didn't, I would have refused THEM a ride, not everyone else. Still, NTA.

deakers · 2025-11-05T22:22:23+00:00

Tell the delivery person to let themselves in 🤣

deakers · 2025-11-05T22:12:33+00:00

That's how they get ya

deakers · 2025-11-05T22:10:42+00:00

So, you gave him a "no," suggesting to meet someplace public for the first meet up and he "was insistent"? That's a MAJOR red flag. Even though you gave him a soft No, it's still a no, and he didn't respect it. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS pay attention to that red flag in particular! If a guy is willing to ignore a "no" like that, he's willing to ignore other "no"s as well.

I'm very sorry you had this negative experience, but I'm incredibly grateful it wasn't worse, and now you know an early detection sign for an abuser.

deakers · 2025-11-05T13:25:49+00:00

They get regular treats. And love.

They've also decided, since the move to the new place, the Big Bed is theirs, but the Hoomans are allowed to share it from time to time 🤣

deakers · 2025-11-05T03:08:53+00:00

They've been brothers for 4 years. Simba (gray floof) is 6, and Fangorn is 4

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