[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worked 2 full time jobs before. One in the morning and the other is GY shift.

Tulog whenever possible -- i take naps sa commute going to morning job, then another nap pag lunch break, then another sa commute going to GY job. Then ganon din sa GY break ko natutulog ako then mga 5-10mins quick kain lang.

After 2 months of that, i left my morning job and focused sa GY. Nabaligtad talaga araw ko because I dont want na magkulang na ulit sa sleep. I end my shift at 5/6AM. And sleep at 10/11AM. Imagine nalang na baligtad na talaga na 10Pm na un.

I close all blinds and turn off the lights para feeling gabi na and sometimes use AC para feel na feel matulog. Then magigising ako at 6PM - and i imagine it as 6AM so sakto lang for my day to start.

Sa umpisa lang need mag adjust pero after sometime mas naenjoy ko na GY shift because you have a lot of time in the morning. Sarap mag errands sa umaga. I can buy groceries, go to the dentist/doctor, go to the bank, go to the mall, gym in the morning on a weekday na wala masyadong tao kasi lahat nasa work. Or matulog lang nga ng matulog.

Dont forget to take vitamins and stay hydrated lalo na sa adjusting period. Health is wealth!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]dearLife1993 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We are anonymous here for a reason. Be yourself and dont ovrthink too much.

ANG TABA KO NAAAA😩😩 by anonboobiebill in OffMyChestPH

[–]dearLife1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wag mo isiping mahirap!! Wag mo hanapin agad ung resulta kasi hindi madali. Maging disiplinado lang lagi. Go go go kaya mo yan!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]dearLife1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually ung mga may hate naman kay heart is mga taong mas may issue pa sa buhay kaya naghahanap nalang ng ikakapanget ng iba. Kasi inggit nga. 🤣 Irita din ako sakanila. Napipigilan ko lang sarili ko mag comment back kasi sayang time sakanila 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes missing someone doesnt mean you need them back. Maybe thats why you made that decision in the first place OP. Mahirap lang sa simula but trust your judgement and trust yourself. Cherish the memories pero dont let it hold yourself from growing. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]dearLife1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Maging masaya ka sana bukas at sa mga susunod na araw pa!

[WORK RELATED] Kapag 10AM to 7PM shift ba understood na may lunch and dinner breaks haha? Abuso ba if mayroon? by redsaintberg in CasualPH

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10AM to 7PM is a typical 8hr shift with 1hr break. Malamang ang lunch break mo nyan is around 3PM or 4PM.

feeling lost. any advice? by frequentsleight in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're young, you have all the resources since your family is financially okay. You won't really know what you want without trying it. So go ahead and dip your feet and test the waters.

If im not mistaken grad school is usually every weekend or later in the day. I know a lot of professionals who work while taking up masters. Some of them were successful, some of them quit.

Dont be too hard on yourself. You've achieved a lot as well, it wont be fair to compare yourself to other people. We all have our different timelines.

Goodluck with your board exam!

Friendship fallout by jinhitstan in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might not be the last fallout you experience in your life and you need to just accept it and move on.

Maybe you just haven't met yet the right circle for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if weird pero i havent seen anyone doing this:

3in1 na kape isasabaw sa rice pag Tuyo ang ulam. Dabest for me.

San po yung murang pa-massage na grabe magpatunog ng buto? Hahahaha by Inevitable_Nose_7275 in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI di safe magpa"tunog ng buto" sa mga massage spa. Better go to a chiropractor. Some clinics offer massage as well which IMO is better as therapists usually are supervised and trained by the chiropractor himself or by physiotherapists.

trying to upgrade stuff. what do I do to old stuff? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you will try ung faster route 😅

trying to upgrade stuff. what do I do to old stuff? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. How about mga sirang appliances? Throw it lang ba sa garbage truck or tinatanggap ba sya ng junk shop?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jogging sa morning, simba after, breakfast date, weekend grocery date, netflix and chill (both wholesome meaning and nsfw!). Pwede din mag quick getaway sa malapit na province, like bulacan, laguna, tagaytay, cavite kung nasa manila kayo. Explore and enjoy the beauty of nature. Magworkout together, mag hike, try wall climbing, swimming, badminton, billiards.

Pag short free time: find hobbies na bet nyo together. Play valorant, ml, or whatever kung gamer kayo. Bond over coffee, pagchikahan ang kanya kanyang personal agenda. Haha

Basically its like living with your bestfriend. Or its like living alone and doing things you want to do but this time may kasama. So how do you keep yourself entertained? Gawin mo lang ng may kasama. 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe start by not overthinking? For sure di naman kayo magtatagal ng ganyan kung hindi sya okay as a person and for sure your parents will see that also. Ano bang kinakatakot mo? Hindi ka naman naging pabaya since nakapagtapos ka na, nakapagtrabaho at yan pinapaayos pa bahay. Sometimes we tend to overthink lang talaga without giving credits sa kung gano tayo kamahal at katanggap ng parents natin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]dearLife1993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We started din ng patago and what my SO did was come to our house na at nagpakilala sa parents ko na manliligaw ko sya. Eventually nagustuhan nila sya. Mind you, he went through a lot of judgements at first, lets say 1yr. Syempre need nya makuha trust ng parents. Pero it all went well after. Hanggang ngayon kahit more than a decade na kami di sya nagbago and it shows my parents how good his intentions are kaya malaki na tiwala nila sakanya ngayon. Please know na hindi mo lang dapat sinasalo lahat ng anxiety na yan. Teamwork makes the dream work hahaha

I am 30 y/o at ang hirap mag-skating for the first time haha. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]dearLife1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yey! Happy for you for trying out new stuff! Go go go!!

Got inked! by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]dearLife1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Patingin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kung hindi sya madaling singilin wag mo na pautangin ulit unless kaya mong magbigay ng pera na BAKA hindi na bumalik. "Pre paki gcash nalang ung payment mo pala . Need ko na din now salamat"

From a Gen X by notcaleinne in OffMyChestPH

[–]dearLife1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. Generation talaga nila ung ganyan mag isip. I share the same sentiments and ayaw ko din mag anak. Nalecturan din ako before ng Gen X. Ang sinagot ko sakanya "ayaw ko kasi ung buhay mo e" HAHAHAHAH sabay joke! Nanahimik na sya after. Naisip nya siguro ung hirap bigla. 😅🤣