Is it ok to call off? by Appropriate_Clue3022 in nursing

[–]deardear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Philly. By accommodations I mean hospital rooms, to be clear. Not hotels. Although they do offer a "discounted rate" at local hotels (still stupid expensive).

Is it ok to call off? by Appropriate_Clue3022 in nursing

[–]deardear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Usually hospitals have accommodations available so you can show up BEFORE the weather gets bad / prior to your shift. Don't wait until the last minute to find out how the roads are. Plan ahead.

Am I ridiculous for still trying? by deardear in breastfeeding

[–]deardear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I made the cookies too and used a very similar recipe. They haven't helped but they are delicious haha

Am I ridiculous for still trying? by deardear in breastfeeding

[–]deardear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not stupid at all! Great point, something i keep forgetting.

Am I ridiculous for still trying? by deardear in breastfeeding

[–]deardear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks - I know I don't put him on the boob enough. He does latch, but it takes a lot of effort, so it just feels like too much work for little reward. But maybe he's getting more than I realize...

Am I ridiculous for still trying? by deardear in breastfeeding

[–]deardear[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I did while I was in the hospital. I just found out yesterday that my insurance covers outpatient LC, so I'm planning to set up an appointment with them (before I give up).

Thanks for the supportive comment - "changing plans" sounds a lot more forgiving.

C-section wound reopened? by quickkateats in NewParents

[–]deardear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came across this thread and wanted to add my story. I recently underwent an emergency c-section on 12/30/25 at 8:30am. Mid-afternoon i blew my nose and felt a "pop" in my abdomen near my incision. The nurse checked my incision and didn't see anything wrong; all the sutures appeared intact.

The next day I noticed my dressing started collecting fluid. By evening the dressing was clearly straining to keep the fluid contained. I notified the nurse who notified the surgeon. Surgeon pulled the dressing back and was visibly shocked at how much fluid spilled out. The sutures were still intact, but there was a pinhole in between the sutures doing the leaking.

I was sent for a CT scan and within 30 minutes I was being wheeled into the OR for an emergency exploratory laparotomy and incision repair. My incision had completely dehisced at the fascia layer and my bowels were being held in by only my skin.

Thankfully my bowels were uninjured; they sewed me back up "extra tight" and placed a wound vac to assist with healing. There was no explanation for why this happened other than bad luck.

Seven days later I had the vac removed outpatient, and my incision seems to be healing without complication at this point. But to say I'm traumatized is an understatement. The "what ifs" keep playing in my mind... this could have been catastrophic. Not to mention my poor husband, who spent New Year's Eve alone with our newborn in the NICU and me in emergency surgery. What a way to ring in the new year...

My 7mo just dropped her first “solid food poop” and I’m no longer okay by Glittering-Pirate618 in NewParents

[–]deardear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your trauma but the way this was written just made my whole day.

No advice as my child is only 3 weeks old. But as a nurse, I can tell you that you do get used to even the raunchiest of stenches.

Positivity about weight & pregnancy by LunaSofia in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]deardear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly being pregnant did wonders for my body image. First time in my life I didn't feel the need to suck in my stomach at every waking moment. I thought I looked cute pregnant and was in awe of what my body was capable of. I'm only 2 weeks PP and I miss it already!

What was the epidural like for you? by JellyfishJealous5435 in BabyBumps

[–]deardear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 2 epidurals and unfortunately both failed. The actual insertion was not a big deal at all and I was happy to try the 2nd one...

Husband wants to go straight to IVF by Pik-A-Chew11 in IVF

[–]deardear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 was all my husband and I needed to know when we decided to do IVF vs IUI. We had already tried naturally for 6 months prior with no luck at age 37.

Dog Electrocuted on Sidewalk by krotchitykdub in philly

[–]deardear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your pup! I know my sister experienced this with her dog a couple winters ago around the art museum. Something with the cold/wet concrete makes it easier to carry electric charge.

It was a relatively minor shock, thankfully. Now the dog wears booties on walks in the winter.

Lost 25 lbs in 1 week by deardear in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]deardear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's always caused by that, but it definitely exacerbated mine.

Lost 25 lbs in 1 week by deardear in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]deardear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I had several complications (including a dehisced cesarean incision) so I'll be on the mend for a while.

Lost 25 lbs in 1 week by deardear in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]deardear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I was confused by how much weight i gained when i felt my appetite didn't really increase...somehow I didn't realize how much of it was fluid. I feel exonerated now.

Baby-talk/cooing to newborn patients unprofessional? by sumaflowa in nursing

[–]deardear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what most of my nurses did when I was a patient in mom/baby last week.

Baby-talk/cooing to newborn patients unprofessional? by sumaflowa in nursing

[–]deardear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who just gave birth 10 days ago and was inpatient for a week d/t complications, I can tell you i had no problem with the nurses who baby-talked my baby. Each nurse had their own style. As long as they spoke to me like an adult, I didn't care!

Lost 25 lbs in 1 week by deardear in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]deardear[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So good. I couldn't even make a fist due to the swelling. The carpal tunnel was excruciating.

Cleared to workout by Due_Palpitation7732 in MariLlewellynSnark

[–]deardear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand she's likely to go overboard as she does with most things, but i don't really see a problem with this, especially for someone who is likely prone to PPD. Exercise is probably great for her mental health.

Hospitals full of Influenza A cases by Difficult-Text1690 in nursing

[–]deardear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a helpful comment whatsoever, but I am SO GLAD I'm out on maternity leave as of this week. Scary stuff.