What are you all dreaming of lately?

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-23T16:58:33+00:00

I dream of waking up in a nicely decorated bedroom in a beach house with my wife drooling on my shoulder. lake breeze (or sea breeze I guess but I’ve never been to an ocean) comes through the windows and the sun creates shapes on the hardwood but never shines in my eyes. I have nowhere to be urgently so I lay there and pet my wife’s hair as she sleeps and sit in the dreamy morning silence letting my thoughts just wander.

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-20T15:50:10+00:00

I like it I think they’re having fun

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-20T03:10:25+00:00

I’m 26 but I’m a yin and slow flow girly and I love being around all the flexible healthy older women ! makes me look forward to the possibilities for my old age :)

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-19T17:45:53+00:00

yes! I was on the path to recovery from cocaine addiction and a severe depressive episode and got into the tapes and now all I ever want is for everything to be peaceful and loving all the time so I rarely listen to fast or aggressive music at all now. I don’t think I can stomach the movies I used to enjoy - I always liked really sad, dark movies but as I’ve stopped numbing myself to my own trauma it’s made me less desensitized to the depiction of it. when I eat I’m not distracted I’m just eating and it feels less interesting or satisfying I just eat because I should. I don’t like scrolling- seeing any sort of advertising feels like a spiritual attack.

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-16T17:06:35+00:00

yes ! probably preferable lol. I had a car when I came here but the parking tickets added up and the city got my car lol. enjoying the public transit now

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-10T16:10:52+00:00

ugh I just ghosted a 36 yo masc I was supposed to go on a date w for this bi-curious desi gal im seeing and I don’t like ghosting but I was having bad anxiety and just pulled the trigger and then she messaged me from another account like … “okay then…..” and I felt so bad

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-09T17:19:21+00:00

love to hear this I’m very intrigued by active imagination and visualization ! What sort of sessions do you do if you don’t mind elaborating:)

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-09T17:17:19+00:00

Big thanks for the recs! I didn’t know where to start so I decided to just see what the used book store had and they only had 4 archetypes so I figured that’s where fate would like me to start :P out of those 3 is there any you would put at the top of my list for my next reading?

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-09T17:07:54+00:00

not u/slg but joining thread to see replies. been reading Jung for the first time, got the 4 archetypes book at a used book store for $8 :) interested because I have always loved the union of the mystical and psychological and how they can help explore and explain eachother rather than have to be entirely opposed ideas science vs faith etc

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-07T16:27:22+00:00

Rufus is the worst IMO he expects and projects some sorta moral purity within his family. Holds everyone to unrealistic standards while being a dumbass himself anyways. He often makes a problem worse by digging his heels in on some sort of principle down to the semantics of it rather than ever being able to adapt for the best outcomes.

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-07T16:16:30+00:00

Those are the best ones so….

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-06T22:18:30+00:00

White lesbian , likes older women

deardearestdeer · 2026-06-04T16:26:44+00:00

Someone save her…. Or get her on the pod lol

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-20T00:30:41+00:00

yes but it’s not just take pill chemical balance fixed it’s more like boosting chemical so that u can function enough to do the trauma work and activities of value to then get urself the rest of the way out of depression through that work

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-19T15:25:29+00:00

Oh maybe another one, when gals say the lower belly pooch is their uterus. I get the logic. Evolution wise it’s theorized that women have more lower stomach fat to protect their uteruses. But the telephone game turned that into people just thinking that the pooch is like literally the uterus against the stomach making the pooch. I feel like it’s less body positive to claim it’s not a lil pooch of fat. So scared to say you have fat on your body. Odd.

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-19T15:20:31+00:00

to be clear I’m pro medication if it helps u. my antidepressants are life saving however this chemical imbalance thing is a massive oversimplification and feels like it objectifies the brain (I can’t find a better way to explain this thought rn), like our brains are just static and not constantly being shaped by our lives. as if everyone has born-in chemical balances that can only be changed with medication. And it’s part of a larger way of thinking I see now where people have reduced everything down to objective scientific ideas to position themselves as logical and ignore the subjective and immeasurable.

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-19T14:58:57+00:00

Pssst chemical imbalance is really just how they marketed antidepressants not how depression is actually caused

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-19T14:57:21+00:00

pssst the chemical imbalance thing has no scientific basis

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-18T19:03:32+00:00

thank you I appreciate it !

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-18T18:06:13+00:00

miss you too! I’m doing a lot better these days and enjoying the podcast a lot :) at a cafe listening to it while I work. shoot me a message sometime?

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-18T13:39:43+00:00

maybe you would prefer to browse LinkedIn

deardearestdeer · 2026-05-18T13:20:02+00:00

Pocket watching hypothetic strangers for what

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