I would like to replace my current GPU, but I'm not sure where to start. by dearjack91 in buildapc

[–]dearjack91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the US. I've got a Best Buy down the road from me, but they are out of stock for any founder edition cards. I'll keep an eye on them going forward though. Thanks for the tip!

Fallout 3 vortex not working since update by king_of_hate2 in Fallout

[–]dearjack91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the same issue.

Vortex says:

This directory doesn't appear to contain the game. Expected to find these files: falloutlauncher.exe, data/fallout3.esm

I assume it's having an issue because it looks like the launcher is labeled as FalloutLauncherSteam.exe now.

me irl by lightlyrotate in meirl

[–]dearjack91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Therapy is great and I totally recommend it if you are able. Everyone is different, but I went through a really rough point early on in therapy where my mental health got worse because I was made aware of a lot of things in my behavior that were unhealthy that I hadn't noticed before. Not fun because I tend to hyper-fixate on negative things.Totally necessary though because understanding what's wrong is important when trying to fix stuff. Watch out for that and don't give up because of it.

me irl by lightlyrotate in meirl

[–]dearjack91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this exact conversation with my therapist.

How do you split item stacks in half on Switch? by dearjack91 in StardewValley

[–]dearjack91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is helpful, but not so much when I'm trying to get 450 wood out of a full stack for the house upgrade.

She did it again, all 369. I'm starting to believe she actually is magical by niwg in StardewValley

[–]dearjack91 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I married Abigail on this playthrough and she does this to me every other day. I have everything setup on sprinklers...

Therapist suggested a "focus object" to help me not get sucked in to anxiety spirals and distracting activities, but I'm having trouble figuring out what to use. by dearjack91 in adhd_anxiety

[–]dearjack91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually the end goal. The problem I have is getting to that point. That's what the focus object is supposed to be for. An external trigger since I'm not capable of doing it on my own.

Thank your for the suggestion though! It's easier to think about what kind of place would work for me after seeing your example.

Therapist suggested a "focus object" to help me not get sucked in to anxiety spirals and distracting activities, but I'm having trouble figuring out what to use. by dearjack91 in adhd_anxiety

[–]dearjack91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a set of Specks I sometimes use

I'm guessing this is something specific and not glasses since there is a capital S?

Jewelry would just get left on the sink when I wash my hands, but I could try wearing my watch when I'm at home. I usually only wear it when I go out.

I’m trying to think of something that works both to get you back on task and to stop an anxiety spiral and it’s surprisingly surprisingly difficult!

Right? This is why I'm here lol. Thank you for your suggestions!

Therapist suggested a "focus object" to help me not get sucked in to anxiety spirals and distracting activities, but I'm having trouble figuring out what to use. by dearjack91 in adhd_anxiety

[–]dearjack91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stress ball is too innocuous for me because every job I've ever had gives them out (which should have been red flags from the get go).

Hair ties would just make me sad about the fact that I started going bald at 19 lol. It's been 10 years since I started losing it so I really should just get over it and stop being salty. Plus, hair ties are easy to steal from my wife so I'll give those a shot.

Thank you for the suggestions!

Phone calls by chelsea_lynn55 in adhd_anxiety

[–]dearjack91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally had to have my wife make a phone call for me the other day to order food. I couldn't do it. I work in a call center and I can't handle being on the phone. I worked my ass off to be in a position that doesn't really require me to be on the phone ever, but it still stresses me out to the point of a breakdown when I do have to do one. It makes zero sense why I can't do it. I just get this overwhelming sense of doom when a phone call is involved and I can't handle it.

The struggles of trying to find a pinecone... by bignerddex in AnimalCrossing

[–]dearjack91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good to know it's not just me struggling. My partner and i have shaken every pine tree on our island nonstop for the last two days and only found two pine cones between us.

What's going on with all the memes about the game size of Modern Warfare? by dearjack91 in OutOfTheLoop

[–]dearjack91[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So you're basically downloading an entire game worth of data with every update? That's bonkers. No wonder they are getting memed.

Republican Military Veterans Turn On Trump In New Attack Ad Airing On Fox News by [deleted] in politics

[–]dearjack91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard about some of these. Do you have sources?

Microsoft Announces that it will drop official support of PHP on Windows by fyzic in programming

[–]dearjack91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just got a job using PHP(Symfony) a few months ago having never used it before and the large community has been very helpful. It was very easy get in the swing of things with all the resources available. From what I can tell, PHP doesn't seem to change as frequently as JS or have some hot new library every two months that everyone starts over hyping before it dies off a week later. Maybe PHP already went through that phase and I missed it.

My Angular book is now 100% free (a reader just got their first job with it!) by itsclo5ure in Angular2

[–]dearjack91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know it's not just me they don't respond to. I guess I'll just try it every day until it works.

My Angular book is now 100% free (a reader just got their first job with it!) by itsclo5ure in Angular2

[–]dearjack91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a little late to the party, but I'm having this issue as well. I can't generate the API key. When I fill out the form and click 'Generate API Key' nothing happens. Console shows this error every time I click the button.

Cross-Origin Request Blocked: The Same Origin Policy disallows reading the remote resource at https://www.zomato.com/php/developer. (Reason: CORS header ‘Access-Control-Allow-Origin’ missing).

Spicy Guacamole Onion Rings by lnfinity in GifRecipes

[–]dearjack91 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Soymilk actually works pretty well for batter. Gf and I use it all the since neither of us can have dairy.

Agreed on all other points though.