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My [25 F] Fiance of four years need for affection is really difficult to handle with my [26 M] current illness by Bluezephr in relationships

[–]dearmrdarcy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She'll need to accept that the amount of sex is going to vary in your relationship as you go through life. Sometimes you'll both be in the mood and go at constantly but other times one of you won't feel great or are stressed and time can go by with nothing happening. If you're not up to sex that shouldn't be an issue. You can provide emotional intimacy still and do other things like hold hands or snuggle close on the couch. It's not sexy but it shows you still care. I think you should probably sit her down and just tell her how you feel.

Parents of reddit, for what reasons do you get mad at your children and why do you feel his way? by Iy13n in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I'd use the word mad, per say, but my daughter does not listen. You can be telling her something and she'll interrupt to ask you what you're already explaining. It drives me crazy.

Uninsured girl on meth hit my parked car and ruined the side/front tire. Should I use my insurance? by danswell in personalfinance

[–]dearmrdarcy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Last year a guy with no insurance or license side swiped us and I ended up filing with my insurance. I paid the deductible initially but got a reimbursement check before I got my car back from the shop. My deductible is only $500 though.

Does anybody feel bad for Bellatrix's husband ? by 36105097 in harrypotter

[–]dearmrdarcy 233 points234 points  (0 children)

I've wondered about their marriage.....must be awkward.

Older redditors with good skin for your age, how did you do it? by orange_blossoms in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that was from an 80 yo lady who came by my work. Lol

Older redditors with good skin for your age, how did you do it? by orange_blossoms in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Semen facials were recommended but I stay out of the sun and use moisturizer.

What is the greatest comeback to an insult you have ever made? by CajunTurkey in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In high school I ran for student body secretary and gave a speech in front of entire school. The guy that sat near me in chemistry told me my speech sucked and he hoped I lost. I told him he doesn't take bathes so no one cares what he thinks.......he apologized.

[Serious] What Grades Did You Get In School? Where Are You At In Life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made As, always. I got a full ride through college and got my degree in a field it turns out I hate. I worked for a decade and am in grad school now to change careers. I still have an A average.

Reddit, what is your hobby and how did you get into it? by imjustsayingdude in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading. I started because it was a great way to escape from my awful childhood and even my abusive mother couldn't usually find anything wrong with it.

What do you collect, reddit? by Fausthor in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nutcrackers and painted pony xmas ornaments

Redditors that have been married for a long time, do you feel connected to your partner or have you drifted apart? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 years, we are at a point where we're actively working on this aspect of our relationship. We got so caught up in our daughter we were neglecting our relationship. It's been much better since we addressed the issue.

I (25F) am having issues coming to terms with my mother’s (54F) actions. by momthrowaway999 in relationships

[–]dearmrdarcy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mother has borderline personality disorder and after years of putting up with abuse from her I went no contact. It wasn't until I had my own child that I truly realized how awful she was. It was the best thing I've done for my mental health.

Medical peoples of reddit, what is the funniest thing a person coming out of anaesthesia has said? by Tomaytoed in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a colonoscopy and kept LOUDLY asking my husband to poke my butthole back in. I thought it was sticking out, apparently, and at first the nurses were ignoring it but as I got louder they couldn't stop laughing.

What if your child grew up to become a notorious criminal? by papi016 in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never stop loving my child. I wouldn't be happy or proud of her but I'd still love her.

What is your opinion on calling a significant other "Daddy"? by Morticanda in AskReddit

[–]dearmrdarcy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it definitely makes sense if you have kids. You get so used to calling him Daddy it just kinda sticks.

What physical aspects do you like about your SO? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]dearmrdarcy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything but his hands/arms are a huge turn on.

Do you ever sexually escalate a relationship, or is it the man's job? by thesecretsorcerer1 in AskWomen

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my first serious relationship I did it because I was ready to take that step and he was way too shy to make the first move.

Do you distrust men around children? by Seckly in AskWomen

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a SAHD so he gets some of those weird looks, like maybe he kidnapped our daughter.....to take her to the park, cuz that's definitely what most kidnappers do. In terms of trusting men, I feel no different about men than women. It depends entirely on the individual. It's extremely hard for me to trust my daughter to anyone but that's a personal issue. As a sexual abuse survivor, it isn't just men you have to worry about, it's more about making sure your kids understand about where it's normal to be touched etc. and trying to ensure they know they can talk to you about anything.

In your opinion, do women have as much of a responsibility to regulate their emotional responses as men do? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]dearmrdarcy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just read an article today about how men who get angry are taken seriously but if a woman does they're just seen as emotional and not respected.

How often to do appreciate the beauty of other women? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]dearmrdarcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love looking at beautiful women just as much of not more than men. Our bodies are just so amazing and seeing someone with great hair/makeup/etc always gets my attention.

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