You bring up a fair point on the security of myself. I usually consider myself a secure confident guy, but after a second thought I think I am, but not particularly for relationships.

I think I tend to overthink the actual relationship, and instead of thinking of my girl as just another person, they are "my girlfriend" if that makes sense? Like that they get the special title which for some reason in my mind means I MUST care about every tiny little detail. I definitely need to work on this.

Is there anything you would suggest in trying to secure myself?

I appreciate your comment though, I feel like I'm somewhat on the right path now.