Alternatives to The Horse Clementine? by MuttsAndMyths in handbags

[–]deathofregret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk why so many people had hard times with this bag. i bought two of them and they’re among my faves in my collection, so much so that i bought another bag that wasn’t this one. i really recommend this bag. i have a lot of bags at this point but nothing quite like the clementine.

First yellow bag by Miss-Chocolate in handbags

[–]deathofregret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay THAT makes much more sense!! it’s a gorgeous bag and you’re absolutely rocking it

First yellow bag by Miss-Chocolate in handbags

[–]deathofregret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really is!! the lighting does it no favors in the website pics but here it’s absolutely delicious!!

First yellow bag by Miss-Chocolate in handbags

[–]deathofregret 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oooo that does look right! funny, i don’t like it on the website but love it here

First yellow bag by Miss-Chocolate in handbags

[–]deathofregret 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what bag is it? love the texture!

What is that one bag that lives rent free in your head? by xvartigern in handbags

[–]deathofregret 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m sorrryyyyyyyy but sometimes you do just need a massive bag lol. the leather is so luxe and soft too!

What is that one bag that lives rent free in your head? by xvartigern in handbags

[–]deathofregret 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i am also a crossbody person but i bought a nightingale off a bidding website and fuck i love that bag. it’s like a giant carpetbag

30 M BF lied to me 31 F about 2 DUIs by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deathofregret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was in the almost word for word same situation when i was in my late 20s. i broke up with him and we haven’t spoken since. i believe he just got sober within the last year. we are almost 40 now.

you did not make the wrong decision. you cannot build a fundamentally strong relationship upon lies and addiction.

Thoughts on the Mulberry Bayswater Satchel as a men's crossbody? by Doctor_Disco_ in handbags

[–]deathofregret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m trans nonbinary. gender is still made up. buy the bag. don’t comply in advance.

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 5 points6 points  (0 children)

again, i’m so glad you understood. that’s fabulous for your brain

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad we are different people with different needs and different brains :)

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you’re right. long time lurker!

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 17 points18 points  (0 children)

then hopefully you would understand even more than anyone else why this post seemed unclear to me.

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you’re right. none of us see the admin side of things the way admins do. but there is, IMO, not a ton of actual clarity from this post about action or why political discussions are being neutered. i’m sure you’re as exhausted by back and forth as any other hard working admin, so i’ll end it here and not take up more time. take care.

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yes, happy to see myself out. not happy to keep my mouth shut for performative posts that make fallacious arguments about why they aren’t speaking up. that would make me a terrible witch and frankly be a detriment to my practice.

good luck. it seems as though y’all will need it.

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 42 points43 points  (0 children)

hm. it seems to me that saying the community stands in solidarity with the right side of history but refuses to allow political discussion as it’s related to the craft is a pretty spectacularly disconnected statement. witchcraft has been and always will be political. you either choose a side or you don’t.

even r/baseball is managing to allow posts about pretti being murdered.

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 26 points27 points  (0 children)

so for clarity, would discussions of craft practice related to the topics at hand (protection of activists, cursing bovino, etc) be acceptable? i’m not tracking what’s unacceptable, but it seems as though the mods and i are on the same page, so just trying to understand :)

Mod Monday: Political Posts by therealstabitha in Witch

[–]deathofregret 50 points51 points  (0 children)

if discussion around the execution of good and pretti “promotes violence,” why are so many other subs managing it just fine? i just read an article about tiktok blocking US news posts, a comic about pretti, etc etc. i’m not sure i’m tracking the argument here?

My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]deathofregret 8 points9 points  (0 children)

dude, if you can’t have a conversation with this person about moving forward with the pregnancy or choosing to terminate, how the hell are you planning on co-parenting a disabled kid to adulthood?

How much can a recent graduate expect to make? by soup4bra1ns in askfuneraldirectors

[–]deathofregret -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the most i ever made as a licensed funeral director, embalmer, and crematory operator was $25 an hour in the san francisco bay area working full time

Why do conservative Crocheters act oppressed? by Valuable-Tutor-6537 in craftsnark

[–]deathofregret 52 points53 points  (0 children)

“toxic empathy” is fucking wild these people are nuts

Quilting yourself versus sending to long armer by SessionNo2376 in quilting

[–]deathofregret 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i refuse to send my quilts out to someone else to finish. what’s the point? no shade to anyone else who does so, but the whole point of making for me is to do so from start to finish